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writes:I think i'm falling for this guy i've hung out with, but there's a few problems i need to sort out with him, but not sure how.1) He changes how he acts all the time - one min he all compliments, next he's pushing me into walls then he's accusing me of liking him too much then not enough.2) He seems obsessed with a sexual act i'm not keen on and wont understand i don't like it.3) He wont let me make him happy coz he's still in love with his friend who died a few years ago and thinks i'm trying to take her place.4) He seems very intrested in having loads of girls round him and wants a sleep over but claims it's nothing sexual. 5) He says he's always there for me but then refuses to see me for days.How can i change any of these? Reply to this Question
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reader, lexilou +, writes (24 June 2008):
 Sounds just like my first husband - we met when I was 15 ad he was 17 and his mother always used to say dump him he treats you like crap. The relatinship ended after 17 years (10 of marriage)and he never really improved, in fact he got a lot worse.
So my advice is find someone who will treat you better, it took me a long time to realise that you cant change anyone who doesnt want to change themselves and if he doesnt know what makes him happy from one minute to the next how are you supposed to work it out x
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 Sweetie, I dont think you will be able to change any of his traits, only he will be able to change them and by the sounds of it he is insecure, sexually obsessed playa! Suggest that you move on before you get really hurt by this one! Sorry!
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