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Hurt because he wanted me to get STI checked and use condoms!

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend have had sex before but he always wants to wear a condom when I give him head. I like doing it but even the flavored condoms taste sooo weird to me. I wish he would just take it off and relax! We've both been tested for STDs and we're both cool. Why is he acting ... (161 words

How can I get over my insecurities?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I feel so insecure in my current relationship, i have got back together with one of my ex boyfriends, we broke up before because at the time it was just inconvient for us both. But i took him back because he literally begged me too because he had realized what an idiot he was. ... (317 words

Should I meet this bi older girl?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am a girl aged 19 and recently i met this girl through a site.she is 25 years old..and we talk a lot on msn..she has a boyfriend with whom she has a live in relationship but she is bisexual..we talk to each other a lot and now she wants to meet me..we have exchanged pictures ... (86 words

Should I try to get close to her by donating to her sister's charity?

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14 June 2008 (M - Ok, so I really like this girl: younger, still in college (I'm 23, one year out of school). We dated long distance for a couple months before she broke it off before coming home for the summer. I was affected by this more than I thought I would be. I almost feel like I love ... (326 words

How can I get the help I need without anybody finding out?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've tried to battle through symptoms I see as "depression" for years now, but I never seem to actually get anywhere. I'm not the typical type of depressed teen you see, as I always try to keep a brave face and a low profle just so nobody actually knows what I'm going through, ... (559 words

I still want my ex girlfriend!

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14 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my gf split up 4 months ago and the only contact we have had is courts because we have a son. I still think she looks really beautifull and love her so much . We have recently started talking after the courts and been phoning each other. We met at a local park and got ... (137 words

I fancy my ex boyfriends best mate, what do I do?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I get dumped by my ex due to a pathetic row, can't get over him then start fancying his best mate. what do I do? I was seeing my ex 7 months back, seems like yesterday, was totally in love with him when he broke up with me, I still think i am. I can't help it. ... (215 words

How do I move on from a past heartbreak?

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14 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Every time I date someone I think of him then I break it off because I try and find everything possibly wrong with that person. How do I get over the love that was let go in an instant. To me my future has no hope for another love like mine ... or what i once had. ... (60 words

I recently had sex with my first cousin and am worrying about how I will feel about it in the future!

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14 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - This topic has been discussed in several questions, and I guess I am looking for input from others who have been in the same boat. I recently had sex with my first cousin - someone who I've always thought was attractive and only see every 4-5 years at the most. I always ... (342 words

What can you say to a girl to interest them?

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14 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - What can you say to a girl to interest them when your madly in love with them? I dont wanna sound like an arrogant bastard I just want her to trust me.... (34 words

How can I help my girlfriend?

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14 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have a gf who has alot of emotional issues, and hinderances, and would like to ask your advice on how to better understand and communicate with her. Are there definity things that I can do or is this just going to be a long hard hopeless depressed road? Let me explain... (323 words

I am all confused about the way he feels about me!!

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Last week I started talkin to this guy and we were really getting on well and i asked him if he was single and he said "yeh but im not really looking because ive just come out of a relationship" which was understandable and more or less the same as me at that time. But ov... (148 words

Can I ever trust him after he has hurt me so many times?

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Do I forgive him and try to work it out??? I met my boyfriend when I was 18, he was my first love, he was older than me (25) and i fell for him with in months. I knew when I met him that he had a past, he told me a lot about what he had done and the women he had been w... (515 words

Should I talk to him even though he has a girlfriend?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i like this boy but I dont know if he likes me. He seems nice. He knows a lot of my friends and thats how I know him. A few months we chatted on msn and we hit off well. We met and then flirted and spoke for about a month. But he has a girlfreind who my friend knows (she sai... (131 words

I'm 2 months pregnant and don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi Im 2 months pregnant and found out 3 weeks ago. I am very confused about what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he is 7 years older than me he says he really wants me to keep the baby and we will get married when we are old enough. My father is furious ... (208 words

Should I dump him?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I know this question is going to sound really small compared to the others i've read, but... I'm in a realtionship, this guy called Bob ;) We just recently got back together, after I heard some rumour about him, which turned out to be untrue. He says he is in love with m... (123 words

When will sex feel good for me?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, so I had sex with my bf twice last night for the first time. We've tried a couple weeks ago and it hurt too much so we stopped. But then last night it really hurt the first time, so i told him to go slow so he did. He was in about 3/4 the way. I told him to stop cuz it h... (229 words

Watching lesbian porn with my boyfriend, and I'm enjoying it!

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have recently been watchin porn togther before having sex and my boyfriend likes to watch lesbian porn because it turns him on alot more, but recently ive noticed that i quite enjoy watchin lesbian porn and it turns me on alot too, does this mean im a ... (53 words

How do I get over someone I truly love/

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14 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey Erm, i dont know what to do regarding this girl...who is my best friend and i have had a crush on for about 2 years now. It started as a crush and then escalated into true love. She is the one i want to spend my life with. However she doesnt see it like this and has had... (147 words

My fiance has confessed to having feelings for my sister, what would help us?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My fiance is having strong feelings for my older sister who which he works with. He has already confessed to me that he has thought about her during sex and has thought about kissing her (and she's married!!!) He says he cant help it but he just keeps doing things and I... (92 words

He acted like he liked me and now he's ignoring me, help!!

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14 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - I need a girl and a boy's view on this and sorry its kinda long... Well im 14 and i've known this boy whos 15 and is in the year above at school for about 9 years and for about 2 of those years i've fancied him (still do) Well we used to be really good friends for about... (655 words

Is this just a bad patch or should I consider ending it?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am starting to think that I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend. We have been together for over a year and lately it seems that everything he does irritates me, even his breathing. I am insecure about his ex as he still has a picture of her on his phone (the second n... (124 words

Why is he so insensitive towards me?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - We broke up over a stupid, petty argument last night! Ok, so the stupid, petty argument led to something more serious - I self harmed. Let me explain a bit... We both have some jealousy issues. And I had asked him why he had been so eager to go out with some of his frien... (597 words

I love him very much but am not very attracted to him, any advice?

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over three years now. I love him very much and he is a really wonderful person. He is there for me, loves and supports me. The thing is, is that I've always struggled with being attracted to him. That doesn't mean I want to break up... (201 words

Disillusioned with men!!

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I thought men were honest and meant what they say. but why do I always find that along the way, that it was all a lie? Did they mean what they said? or just wanted something from me?... (38 words

I've ended up in this wierd relationship with him but I really like him, what should I do?

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14 June 2008 (F - I went to prom with my friend's brother RJ. Before prom we hungout quite a bit we played strip ping pong and poker. The relationship started really fast and was a lot of fun. We aren't friends. We don't call eachother to talk. Only to make plans. Since prom we haven't reall... (166 words

Why has my husband got a secret lock code on his phone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3560 days ago

14 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Can anyone tell me what could be the reason for my husband having a secret lock code in his cell. He cheated on me once and could this be he cheating me still? Do any of your husbands or you yourself do as such? When he was cheating on me the same way he treated and I have b... (88 words

What should I do about this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 14 years old - nearly 15. I would like to think of myself of being exceedingly mature for my sge (if slightly unbalanced!) I know that every single person on here is going to scream at me when I say this, but I will anyway - I tend to go for men alot older than myself, ... (1015 words

Can you have a mid-life crisis in your 30s?

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14 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - My question might be kinda silly. I am wondering if men have midlife crisis in their mid thirties and if they do, does it last forever? ... (26 words

Not sure I want children, will I regret this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Evening everyone. I come from a large Italian family and Im due to marry my fiance who is also Italian in October. My problem is that im not sure I want children. I have discussed this with my fiance and he is convinced that in a few years I will change my mind.I however a... (176 words

Is my penis a normal length?

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14 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old male and my penis is 2 inches when i'm not "excited" and 3 inches when i am "excited". Is this normal?... (27 words

He says he loves me, but is he in love with me now? Have I pushed him too hard in the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

14 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been with "Bill" for 7 months... We were very close .. close to the point he was going to move in till I pushed him to many times..Meaning, I would tell him not to come back..(past relationships made walls real high with me).. He lived about 45 min away... within 2 weeks ... (194 words

I want to be a better boyfriend, how do I do that?

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14 June 2008 (M age 51-59 - Why can't I be honest, true and loyal to my girlfriend? She is great to be with, puts up with my mood swings, my moaning, my unromantic side, my laziness, basically everything, yet she always forgives me and makes the 1st move to sorting things out. She has her moments but ... (100 words

I've hit her and cheated on her but want to change and win her back. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - I had been with my girlfriend for 3 years, throughout the relationship I was never faithful. I know what you are thinking, here we go another cheat who wants forgiveness, but in my eyes Im not that person. I could never fully open up to my girlfriend and fear made me wors... (227 words

Should I try to show her that I've changed or give her some space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

14 June 2008 (? age 36-40 - My fiancee and i got in a Very big fight, basically i wasnt treating her the right way and she feels like she doesnt know who i am anymore, she moved from arizona to georgia back home to stay with her parents and i went on a deployment with the Marines, i would email her ... (156 words

I'm worried about my cousin.

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14 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - I need advice, I am a 15 year old male, and my cousin which is a girl of 16, started to fuck up in school and just making the wrong friends. I found that she has been using and carrying all these drugs, I don't care if she fucks up her life, I just don't know what to do, she ... (68 words

Any advice on how to dress to impress on my school trip?

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14 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hello, I am going on a school trip for like 3 days so its an overnight stay as well. The boy that I kind of like is going and I want to impress him with my looks and stuff but I kind of need help becoz we are going to be doing all sorts of activites so I have to take old clot... (95 words

Is it easy to give away a person you love?

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14 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - is it easy to give a person whom you are inlove with to someone else? My boyfriend and I are inlove each other..but b/c of some peronal reasons I m going to marry someone else. but my boyfriend say "ok" . and I was shocked. is it easy to loss a person you love?... (61 words

Lack of sex is causing problems. Why is she like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

14 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi there, Im 15 living a normal life but I have a problem.There is this girl I know a year older then me who is very sexy and adores me.But she sort of has a boyfriend.She says all these things how I make her really happy and she's in love with me(I don't think she knows wh... (138 words

I have a boyfriend but don't want this other guy I like to have a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

14 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey, Ive Known this Boy for a while and I really like him he is perfect but we both live so far from each other so he decided not to go out. But since then I started to like this other boy and we are going out, I still like this other boy but I haven't told him that Im not ... (112 words

Why won't he come to meet my parents?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend (age 27 i am 22) of 9mths has never come to my house, i stay at his sometimes and see him 1-2 times a week. he says its cos i live with my parents. my mum really wants to meet him, and every time i go to his she complains that she doesent even know him, but he says ... (154 words

Does alcohol consumption kill sperm?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - can i get pregnant if the guy drinks a lot and we had sex after?? Does that kill his sperm?... (22 words

Do you think she loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

14 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone i have a general question about love You see i know this girl and shes my best friend, but i have to confess that i'm very much in love with her. So One day I decided to just tell this to her, and she replyed to me that she also loves me, however she thinks it ... (186 words

Am I wrong to have feelings for him, even though he has a girlfriend?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I've been friends with this guy at college for about 2 years now, and then about 7 months ago I started having feelings for him. Last June we were both at a party, got drunk, and snogged, but the next day it was like nothing had happened. Same thing 2 weeks later. It ... (373 words

My colleague has taken over like a cuckoo in the nest. What can I do?

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14 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - About 6 months ago a group of new people started working at my workplace which i was responsible for training up. My manager was really happy with me and gave me loads of responsability (no extra pay) which i loved as it will look great on my CV. However my old manager left ... (144 words

Do 'R'-rates movies turn guys on?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I'm a 17 yo girl and have just started going out with this amazingly sweet, cute, shy boy whose had no experience with girls whatsoever. this isn't a strictly "relationship" question---but... when guys are watching a very--err--rated R movie like with nudity and thrusting ... (67 words

He stares but we never talk. Is he shy? Is he waiting for me to make the first move?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - We have known each other since the beginning of middle school. We have never talked much but when we do he and I are at a loss of words and when that happens he stares at me like crazy. I never know what to say around him and he seems to be that way too. If a guy likes a girl ... (142 words

My girlfriend mimicked the noises I make during sex! Am I right to be angry/

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

14 June 2008 (M - Hi All, please help The other night me and g\f were having drunken sex when she suddenly laughed, joke about the noises i was making and then started mimicking the noises i obviously make during sex IE grunting etc When she did this i just went cold and felt really h... (106 words

How can I get my face to look thinner?

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - how can i lose weight on my face?I notice that when i exercise i loose weight everywhere but from my face.Any advice?Or are there any make-up tricks i can use for a slimmer face??... (34 words

Why am I so jealous of other girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4295 days ago

14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I have this thing where i get really jelous of other girls.Im not ugly im a curvy 8-10 and have a wonderful boyfriend but sometimes i just hate the way i look.For example i can be getting ready for a night out and feel great about myself then when im at the club/pub... (174 words

My best mate has ditched me for her boyfriend!

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My best mates ditched me ever since she's got a boyfriend. i used 2 see her everyday but now im lucy if i see her once a week. last time i had a boyfriend she rang me and asked if i was coming out. it was the 1st time in ages id seen him cuz he was in the army, so i said i wa... (112 words

One girl is jealous of me and has turned all the girls against me. What can I do?

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14 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hello I have been friends with some girls for ages, but all of a sudden just because one of them apparantly is jealous of me she has turned all the girls against me. They say mean stuff and look at me like im stupid whenever i talk to them. They say stuff to other people a... (129 words

Was he doing it just to please me?

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14 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - My BF of 18-months recently returned from a three-week business trip to China. We met up within 48 hours of his return. He was exhausted and probably should have just slept, but we had sex, and it was nice, but he never wants to have sex just once. Twice - or three times - is ... (243 words

He's a bit shy. How can I tell if he likes me?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello! there is a guy that i like. he looks at me a lot and one of his friens also. when he heard once my name , he was like he was surprised and started searching for something. once, that i wasnt with my friens he started looking at them like he was searching for something .i ... (80 words

I need to get over a lad and accept him as a friend. Also, I need help talking to him.

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok this might turn out a bit long beause i have two things i want to ask. Ok first one: I need to get over this lad and just acept him as a friend. The thing is its to hard because i really love him and although he has said to my mate he doesn't have feelings for me i still t... (922 words

My parents say I'm emotionally immature. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old, female, and was recently told by my parents I'm emotionally immature and have been noticably since the age of 8. This was a bit of a shock to me; I didn't realise I was significantly abnormal, and it upset me a lot. My parents want me to go for counselling, ... (81 words

How can you give a good handjob without "getting it out"

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I gave a guy a handjob for the first time yesterday, and tried to take into consideration the advice I had been given on here, to go up and down the shaft with quite strong grip. However the guy still had his trousers on so I couldn't really do this as there wasn't space. ... (98 words

Am I over emphasising the sex thing?

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14 June 2008 (M age - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months now: we say we love eachother and I certainly want him, but he is not really into much physically. He is more wary than me about any public shows of affection (though with all respect to straight readers very few gay couples are as ... (125 words

Had unprotected sex four days after period. Could I be pregnant?

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14 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - my cycle is not 28 days but it`s not more than 32 days but i had unprotected sex 4 days after my period.am i safe or not.... (27 words

I have extreme confidence issues when it comes to men. Any ideas of how to overcome this?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - so i have serious confidence issues when it comes to men. if i dont know them or are a bit wary of them or even just in an uncomfortable situation. i freeze up. i wont talk, make eye contact or even talk to my girl friends till they've gone. if it gets really bad i wil... (281 words

Rushed into marriage and we have a child. I feel the chemistry between us is deteriorating.

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14 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married for 3 years, we have a daughter who is one year old. I love my child very much. My problem is I dont have any feelings for my wife. We rushed in during this puppy love period and got married before we actually got to know each other. She was born... (466 words

I love my boyfriend, but I don't get pleasured from sex.

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I love my bf so much, but I dont get pleasure from sex, at all, why? It's starting to get to me now.... (23 words

Can't have my secret love, so should I continue with my convenient lover?

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hey well i've been seretly inlove with my best male friend for about a yr and i'm starting to get over him but to "help" i was messing about with this guy i met for the last few mnths and i know he's just using me but i'm really just using him so i'm not too bothered, (i can't ... (170 words

I want to watch my wife have sex with another guy. How do I explain this to her?

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14 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - hi,my wife and i married for last 02 years,our sex life is really booring and i want to spice it up by dirty talk...but there is no response from her,she's very prety and sexy and she loves to wear like whore very micro skirt and low cut tops as she feel sexy when the people ... (198 words

He wants to be just friends but I want something more. How can I get over him?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am in really big trouble. Me and my boyfrien split up couple days ago because he said he is not ready for a relationship he thought he was but he isn't he just wants to be friends, but i love him. At the beginign when he first saw me he totally fell for me he wa... (195 words

Is it really possible to remain friends with an ex? I would value our friendship but wonder if he has accepted we can't go back to being lovers.

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14 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone - I need your help again. My partner and I split up in February this year but the same thing happened last year and we got back together in September of that year (only to split again 6 months later). We didn't live together or anything but had been together fo... (285 words

I'm praying to get this mental affair out of my mind but I'm still not sure I want to save my marriage as I don't trust my husband. Don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

14 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband had an affair on our marriage 2 yrs ago I thought I forgave him but in my heart I'm still hurting about it.. The hurt is not trusting him anymore I admit I stayed with him but only because I'm a homemaker haven't worked in over 10 yrs was at home taking care of 7 ... (178 words

Should I get revenge?

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - The boy I was inlove with in my past. Is now that one I offically hate. He cheated on his girlfriend with me, and now I feel as if I should use it has revenge to get back at him. I know this would probably ruin his whole life, and I don't want to have to be the one to do that, ... (155 words

We split up, why hasn't he been in touch?

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of over 2 years and I broke up a few weeks ago. He hasn't called or messaged me since. He told me he still loves and cares for me. Then why isn't he wanting to know how I'm doing? Before we broke up we were always either messaging or on the phone when we we... (150 words

Questioning the relationship after a break-up...

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14 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - After breaking up, does anyone ever question the relationship??? Like whether or not they really had something special or whether or not the other person really loved them at all??? My ex broke up with me several months ago, and now, i'm starting to wonder...did she... (142 words

What do these men want from me?

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14 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi, would like some advice on this please as i just don't understand what went wrong. I am in my late thirties, independent, good job, my own house, just trying to find my mr right but tired of getting messed around and hurt. i met a guy online last year who hurt me badly so ... (510 words

Don't want to hurt my friend, What is the best way of telling her?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is a bit of a complex situation. I've met a really nice guy - we'll call him Henry - and we get on fantastically. And I mean FANTASTIC. The sex is amazing, we sit and laugh constantly over dinner and he treats me really well. Initially it wasn't anything serious, just a ... (324 words

Teenage girl needs help with social situation....

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi its me again i like this boy and i think he knows that i like him i was in the pub with my friend on thursday and at the end of the night we all went to the other side of the bar because were all friends and we dated for a week before. Anyway his flatmate and evreyone... (131 words

She was playing with me. I can't hate her, but she's doing it again

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14 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - i met with a huge break off..after three years...the moment she ditched me i got to knw that she was playing with my emotions all these days and she had a number of relatinship..though i never had sex with her...we indulged several times into foreplays...nw its almost one year ... (109 words

I love him, but do his flaws make me want to leave him?

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for over 3 1/2 years. I love him so much, but there are quite a few things that I'm not ok with. I need to know if I should just ignore his "flaws" and be ok with them because it's normal, or should I move on because he's not worth it? OK...so I'll jus... (499 words

How can you be in love with someone you barely even know?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok.There's something thats really bothering me.My ex-boyfriend is going out with my bestfriend. I told her that I didnt mind and I no longer have feeling for him. The thing is I kind of still do I mean I told her that like a week before they dated but she just really seemed t... (224 words

Gaining weight on my face and arms. Could I see a difference in just one day?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Recently i've noticed that i gain some weight on my body.i notice the weight gain more on my face, and arms.Is it possible for me to drop 5 pounds in one day? I plan to excercise for almost the whole entire day tommorow before father's day on sunday. Will I see a change in my ... (59 words

He wants me to be more touchy. Advice, please?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - dear whomeever im about to be 20 and boyfriend is 21,were going on our 3rd month bein together and we are growing inlove with each other everyday, he says he want me to be more touchy with him but im scared to i dont know how to act in a realtionship ive never been in one t... (87 words

I dated this guy's half brother about 3 years ago, is it okay if we start dating?

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - okay i need some advice..... a few years ago i was in a relationship with a guy i thought i was going to spend the rest of my life with.i ended up growing real close to his half brother. we became best friends. i have been broken up with the guy for 3 years now. and the brother ... (74 words

After 5 years of friendship we had sex but he doesn't want a serious relationship... should I tell him how I feel?

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - please someone help me........ im in love with my guy best friend. we have known each other for ten years but have developed a great friendship over the last 5 years. we have just gotten into a sexual relationship......we even talk about having kids, and i can talk to him about ... (79 words

This guy stares at me a lot, does this mean he likes me or is he just staring?

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Let say this guy's name is Zach and I sent him a note saying I really do like him. He stares at me alot with a sort of knowing look on his face. does this mean he likes me or is he just staring?... (44 words

Does having sex in a pool raise the risk of pregnancy?

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14 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - would it be ok if i had sex in a pool with a condom or will it raise the risk of pregnecy... (22 words

I feel ready to get married but she doesn't... any advice?

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14 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - ok well im not sure why im writeing this because i dont really think anyone can help, mabey im just looking for someone to talk to me about it. i asked my girlfriend to marry me back in december and she said yes so now were engaged. well you see the problem is that shes not ... (392 words

I saw my ex after 6 months without contact and he just held me for about 15 minutes... what does this mean?

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14 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - This is probably a very silly question that no one can really answer, but... I got back together with my BF after being separated for six months - no communication. I broke up with him because I felt he was taking me and our relationship for granted - to make a long story ... (169 words

My best friend just moved and I miss her... will I get over it soon?

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14 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - well i have a freind who is like my best freind in the whole world but something bad just happend my freind moved away going to a new school. she is gone now :( and i will probably never meet her again all i ahve to member her is the yearbook i have wich i cant find everyt... (110 words

Anyone knows of an Internet site to meet people?

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14 June 2008 (F age - I am a divorced woman in my mid-40s. I'm thinking of signing up with an Internet dating site. Which sites are the best is I want to meet a man interested in a long-term exclusive relationship? ... (36 words

I'm having twins and my husband cheated on me... now she is calling saying we have to get along for the kids sake!!!!!!!!!!

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14 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi im 7 months pregnant with identical twins and have a 2 year old boy aswell i have just found out tht my husbund is cheating on me. And as been doing so for around 9 months. Im heart broken and i cant look at him or touch him he makes me feel sick and i dont want him touching ... (289 words

My husband intentionally got another woman pregnant... please help!

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14 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We have two children and have been together for 11 years. When we met he told me about a woman that he really loved and how breaking up with her hurt him. They broke up because she would not leave the East coast. We live on the ... (646 words

I've missed coursework deadlines and now I'm worried my overall grade may suffer. How can I calm myself down??

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14 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello all. This may not be a relationship question, but I could really use your advice. All of my college assignments must be handed in by Monday afternoon. I have been a good student. I've put a lot of effort into my work over the past 2 years. But I have a lot of fears abo... (320 words

Why is my boyfriend talking like this when we are having sex?

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14 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I don't understand my boyfriend's language towards me sometimes. While we'll be having sex, he'll be like "let me hit it from the back" or he'll be like, "i wanna f***" it makes me wonder am i just someone he wants to f***. He does treat me well at all times. Sometimes I don't ... (58 words

My boyfriend will not talk about our relationship!

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14 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Why do guys have a hard time expressing themselves? Every time I would ask my bf where this relationship is going or what he thinks of it, he says, "it is what it is". What does that mean? He shows a lot of affection towards me and treats me very well. I just don't understand ... (66 words

Can men please tell me why they watch porn? Is it because of disatisfaction with you partner?

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14 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - i have a question and i wish that most of the man can answer this. is woman or girl friend or wife needs to be jealous or angry or be mad or upset to their man when they are watching porn. do we woman needs to worry about it? what is you man thinking why you are watching porn? ... (86 words

I'm in a sexual relationship with my (step) brother! Is it love?

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14 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi. This is really awkward, but I don't have anyone else to ask. I am 16. My step-brother is 17. We have always been close, and have been raised as brothers since we were small. We started fooling around sexually about two years ago. At first, it was pretty casual and we ... (454 words

I'm attracted to another woman! What do I do?

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14 June 2008 (? age - I am a woman attracted to my female friend.We have kissed and when I asked her if it's OK she said no, but there was hesitation in her words as if she wanted to say yes. We still hang out,go to dinner, have drinks. We speak for hours and flirt. if we don't see each other at... (123 words

He seems to still love someone who rejected him years ago!

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 7 months now. I love him very much, and I believe him when he says that he loves me too. However, recently he has been talking to other girls, arranging dates to meet up without telling me. I found out and confronted him and the ... (192 words

I will be staying a week with my boyfriend and want to make love for the first time!

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14 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - On the 20th I'm due to go down south to see my boyfriend for the week. His parents will be away for the week too. So we'll be home alone. Now my dad thinks that we'll be doing something and keeps asking if he should get me some protection, just in case and I keep insisting t... (209 words

After looking at porn, my wife left me. How can I get her back?

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14 June 2008 (M age 51-59 - I have been married for seven years and my wife just moved out last week. I love her very much and I don't know what to do. She says that she needs time to find herself. To top this all off we have two kids. I want her back so much. What do I do? I must also include that ... (123 words

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