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I'm not as experienced with sex as he is and wondered if theres ways I could practise ?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - im currently having a bit of a summer fling with a guy. neither of us has the time for a serious relationship, but the sex is incredible, so have decided just to have a fun summer together. we have bot said if something develops then we will cross that bridge when we come to ... (120 words

She wants sex but I'm not at the legal age yet..?

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for 7 months now and she wants to have sex i do to.problem is is that she doesn't know that im still a minor so i keep putting it off she's getting a bit frustrated.what should i do?(she's 22 im 15)... (47 words

Which guy would be the right one for me to choose?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - im in a bit of a mess and would love some advice, i went to a work party on friday night and a guy i work with who ive always liked but had a feeling he didnt like me (name calling teasing ect) went aswell we started flirting with each other and i asked why are you ... (444 words

Is underage dating older ok if there is no sex involved?

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - is it ilegal to date a girl who is 19 nearly 20 when im only 16 in california(dating without having sex)?... (21 words

Everyone tells me to break up with him because of his height, what to do?

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1 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - i have a bf and he is amazing. he is shorter than me by a whole lot. i really like him but everyone tells me to break up with him becase of his height. what do i do ... (38 words

I am bothered by his best female friend to whom he tells everything... so I am having second thoughts about moving in together!

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1 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - My best friend of 17 years and I started dating 1 1/2 years ago and he has lots of female friends but one really bothers me because he seems to tell her everything he even calls her when I am in the shower to tell her about a disagreement we have had he has gotten off the phone ... (103 words

He broke up with me to prioritise his career, now all of a sudden he misses me, should I move on?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were together for about 2 years. It been 4 months that we been on a break. He was the one who wanted a break because he wanted to clear up his life and his music career. All of a sudden he tells me he misses me and he takes me to dinner. And his music career ... (89 words

My BF and I have very tender spots on our genitals, what could they be?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My bf and I both have spots coming up on our genitals, I was hoping someone could tell me what they are and where they came from. We've both had a lot of them over a short space of time (2 or 3 in the space of about 2 weeks). What's also strange is where they came from, as ... (128 words

So how do I sort it out between the two guys I like?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I like 2 guys well Aleast I think I like one of I'm not sure. The 1st guy I did like but it turned out that he was a big jerk with a big ego to match, but the truth is I still a tiny bit like him. The 2nd Guy is his freind and He is really sweet quiet, funny, he makes me laugh ... (193 words

Can't stop thinking about the guy I met during my holidays!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have just come back from a holiday. i met this really great guy there called james. we liked each other but because he worked there it was difficult as he could get into trouble. the night before last we met up and had an amazing time (everything but sex). the only problem ... (99 words

She wants to wait a couple of years until we're old enough to have a proper relationship, does she really love me?

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have been in love with this girl for a long time, and she claims to be in love with me too. But she will not get involved in a relationship with me because we are too young, and she wants a more serious long term relationship (that could end in marriage) that she claims we ... (199 words

Should I tell him how I feel, as I feel threatened by my friend who also likes him...

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im so confused right now, I fancy this guy. my best friend was drunk and said she didnt know if she fancied him. the next day she was like oh i don't know why i said that!! but me and him are really flirty and i like it, hes flirty in general but he always is more flirty with ... (120 words

She's not ready for more than friends with benefits but I am!

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, i wrote on here recently about getting back with an ex and the general message was that its a good idea. We first got together over 18 months ago, and im absolutely crazy about her. I sometimes wonder whether she feels the same way but shes always says she does. Abo... (222 words

Is it true that he wanted to know if I liked him, by this tricky question?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - so i am texting this guy friend of mine and he say, "can i ask you a question?" i say "sure" then he say, "do you or any one you know like me?" then i say "as a friend or more?" he says more. then i say," you are not my type, but you are a really great friend. would you like me ... (109 words

Why do people think we are stupid little girls if we fancy a teacher?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i may sound VERY naive right know but i have to ask this question,why do so many of you call us stupid little girls for liking(loving) our teachers?? we cant chose who we love you know our heart does.what if we really do have feelings for them.and what happens when the teacher ... (100 words

I still love the ex that broke my heart...

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1 June 2008 (F - Well, me and my ex split up just over 5 months ago. He split up with me because he felt like we were falling too deep, and things were becoming too serious. I disagreed at the time (which i'm sure didn't help.). I'm 20 and he is 22, and this is without a doubt the worst pain ... (462 words

A few questions on shaving 'down there'...

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1 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hey I've just shaved for the first time 'down there'. I got a few pretty painful red bumps, how can I get them to go? I'm planning on waxing soon to get a more smooth finish, will this hurt really bad even though the hairs arent very long at all? How long will it take for th... (117 words

Any suggestions for relationship when living far from a city?

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1 June 2008 (M age - I live way out in the country, have earned enough to support me well for at least one lifetime, and I really enjoy just working on my land, building and inventing things, and making deep, powerful, soul-merging love. The only problem is lack of a lover or lifemate. Yes, I ... (212 words

My 40 y-o bf wants me to move in with him, I'm 16 and scared my mum will cut me off if I do

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've fallen in love with a 40 year old man. He's everything to me and makes me happier than i ever been. I'm only 16, so there is a 24 year age gap. My mum hates him and is making life at home hell. All i want to do is move out, to live with this guy as he has asked me. I'm ... (110 words

Should I forgive and forget the one night stand he had when we had just started seeing each other?

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1 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - I just got engaged and found out a week later that my fiance had a one night stand a month after we met (2+ years ago). He told me about it bc I asked him and caught him in a lie about it (the weekends didn't match up; I have a better memory than him). So, he fessed up. It ... (174 words

Why did he just suddenly started drifting away and become funny with me?

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I met this guy last year, we hit it off instantly and had so much in common. It was a bit of a difficult situation as he told me that he needed to be single having just been in a relationship, but we became very close very quickly. When we went out he used to hold my hand, buy ... (197 words

Really need your help. I don't know what to do about this painful sex

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, im 16 and currently in a relationship. i hadnt had sex in about a year untill yesterday and it hurt abit.. i thought it was just because of the position (on all fours) or because i hadnt done it in a while. but today i had sex again (on all fours, missionary andme... (118 words

Should I got out with this player?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - There's this lad that i work with. He flirts with me all the time but i get the feeling he is a 'player' and that the other lads are messing about with me. He previsiouly asked me out a few times but i have declined but recently i've been liking him more and more. He also ... (71 words

Is it normal for me to feel this angry and jealous about othe rpeoples success?

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1 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi,im hoping to get some advice on a situation. My cousin who is younger and more attractive than myself was spotted by a modelling agency (its not a bogus thing or anything she has had a few jobs)now she will be doing a catwalk for top designers and me and my family have bee... (207 words

Should I find out if he feels the same?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - im really worried bcoz i have realised that i am in love with my step cousin and i dont know what to do. i feel really lost without him and i get butterflies everytime i see him. we have such a laugh together but i dont know whether he feels the same. occasionally when we see ... (151 words

What should I do about my hair around my nipples?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - what should i do about my hair around my nipples? i'm a girl, and started plucking them about a year ago, however this has resulted in getting ingrowing hairs and now even some scars/marks on my skin from where i broken the skin trying to get them out using tweezers. is p... (98 words

I cannot work out whether I really do bring out the worst in him and men in general as he said or whether these are signs I should leave!

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1 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I had a really bad argument about our future (there is a lot of pressure surrounding finances and commitment etc)on holiday and it became physical. I threw a cushion at him and he shoved me and I fell on the floor. This hurt my back. He also shoved me on the ... (496 words

Should I be worried about his flirty ways?

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1 June 2008 (F - I have a little problem in that a month ago I went to a ball with my friend, her new boyfriend and some other girls we all knew. The new boyfriend started chatting, more so to me. He got quite friendly and started talking a little about my friend on a personal level (but I ... (396 words

My anger is wrecking my life!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a huge problem, and it's tearing me apart. I'm 19 years old. My boyfriend is 23. Ever since I was a baby, and I'm not kidding, I've had a temper. I used to have tantrums in my craddle. When I was starting to eat real food, my mom would feed me, and I'd get upset... (1207 words

How can I stop flirting with my teacher?!? I don't mean to!

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1 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone!! Ok i LOVE my teacher and it's NOT a crush but thats got nothing to do with my problem. I talk to him sometimes and i make him laugh by just saying one thing but apparently when i talk to him i flirt with him and i don't mean to. I try to make sure i hi... (142 words

I like the sensation of massaging my anus does this make me gay?

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I've been thinking of something for a while and need some help...Whenever I take a shower I carefully wash every part of myself,well I was cleaning the outside of my ass and I accidentally slipped.One of my fingers slid in my ass along with an overwhelming fell.It wasn't pain ... (148 words

Making myself sick by thinking I'm gay because I get aroused by girls sometimes

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Anyone out there who is female and turned on by females in the general public...lately ive been getting turned on by femininity but love my bf and love thinking of him cuz thats REAL to me...my mind is diverging though and i wanna know if you do this and if you still consider ... (246 words

I recently started my period, what other changes should I expect?

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1 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - My breast started developing before my periods which is pretty normal yeah i know, but recently i started my period is there going to be any change i mean because it has not happened yet...... (35 words

Will having meaningless sex at such a young age make it less meaningful later in my life?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16, never actually dated, and I recently lost my virginity to a guy that I don't have feelings for. I think (protected)M sex is fun, but I'm worried about how it could effect my relationships later in life. Will having meaningless sex at such a young age make it less mea... (60 words

I think my best friend is bulimic, she also rarely goes out recently, how should I approach her on this?

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi i think my best friend is bulumic because shes got really thin and gaunt looking we barely talk anymore she neva comes out she used to be loud but she is soo quiet now recently i was over at hers and i found a bag of laxatives below her bed what do i do??do i confront her ... (66 words

I had sex with the guy I met on line, but he does not know I am a minor as I lied about my real age!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Right this may sound really stupid, and anyone who reads this is going to think I have a very low self estime and no confidence at all. But I used to go on chat rooms quite often, when I was bored or had no one to talk to on msn, and just for fun I used to go under a fake name ... (369 words

Girls only see me as a friend...

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1 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - How odd is it to almost be 23 years old and still not had any real relationships? I am a 23 year old male and relatively good looking, or so I am told by some female friends. The problem is I just don't know how to move from the friendship stage to the boyfriend stage.... (165 words

Should I try and steal this girl from her long distance boyfriend?

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1 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am studying abroad right now and realized I like a girl here. The thing is this girl has a boyfriend. She has been dating him for about 7 months or so, but he moved to another part of the country about 4 months ago. She talks to him a lot, and I think she likes him and vice ... (246 words

I don't like her back!!!

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15. I've been single for almost 2 years now. My hearts always out to beautiful girls I cant have. But this one girl likes me. She's crazy for me. But I dont like her back. I don't consider her to be my type nor beautiful. I feel bad for saying it, but that... (105 words

Help my ex has a naked photo of me!

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - So my ex has a nude photo of me, well he works with me and my current boyfriend. I found out today that he has shown this picture to quite a few people I work with. My boyfriend hasn't found out about it yet, but I want to be the one to tell him. I'm just not sure how I ... (100 words

Does he like me?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi im 14 and i don't know what to do! I really like this guy and evertime we go out with our friends hes all flirty and like hugs me sits on my lap gets me to sit on his and like cuddles me and sometimes holds my hand. Does this mean he fancys me? ... (59 words

I'm so love sick over my girl - what do I do?

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1 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Ok where to begin i really need advise ive talked to my freinds and ive also talked to family and they all have told me the same thing. I been going out with a girl for almost 2 years now she means the world to me and i can honestly say that i love her. She also says she loves ... (180 words

Two Ridiculous Boys

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My problem requires some backstory, so here we go: About a year ago, I told a boy (let's call him Aaron), that I liked him and asked him what he thought about it. Aaron said he was sorry, that he didn't like me in that way and that he had a lot on his plate. From there on ou... (574 words

Puzzled, perplexed and a little paranoid...

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1 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - How best to put this? I'm 28 and I'm unsure about my sexuality. I've always loved girls/women but I've had no success in attracting them. I'm still a virgin (although apparently, I'm told, not unattractive). Over the last few years however, I've been finding myself including... (248 words

He's hurt me and is bad for me - but I still want him!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - A while ago I met a guy who I really liked from the start. I had a boyfriend at the time but I went to the guys party and in a bit of a tipsy state I kissed him. From then on I fell for him, but I still had my boyfriend. I was in a long distance relationship. I couldn't handl... (511 words

He cut himself inside me, should I be worried?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my partner have sex regually. This one time i wasnt 'wet' enough and he cut his foreskin. He bled inside me, is this dangerouse as i am his first sex partner and he is mine. We have sex at least 2 times a week but this one time, i sat up straight and it hurt alot as i ... (74 words

Worried about my late-ish period

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm worried about my period. I started my period age 12 years 11 months, and I'm 15 years 6 months old now. 2 weeks ago I had very brief sex (about 5 minutes, it was our first time) with my boyfriend of 6 months, we used a condom and neither of us came. The thing is i... (132 words

Could anyone help this confused soul?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been with this man for just over 6 months. Like all relationships there are so many little things that could be mentioned but it would take so very much time. Right now we're both in the middle of our exams, I have one tomorrow, my last, while he is just starting... (185 words

I think my BF is gay!

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1 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Help! I've been dating a guy for a year now, and the entire time, our sex life has been awful. He rarely touches me, doesn't initiate sex but once in a great while, and after multiple, repeated attempts to spice things up, it has fizzled. I have toys and lingerie we've never ... (344 words

He lies to me all the time!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i feel extremely angry towards my bf. my friends invited me on a holiday with them to malia a few months ago, and i had to turn it down because he said he would finish with me if i went. last week he went missing for 5 days, automatically i thought that he had gone abroad with ... (206 words

I'm not gorgeous, but I'm not ugly either!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 15, and have never had a proper bf. I wouldn't say i am ugly, but i also wouldn't say im drop dead gorgeous either. So what to lads like about girls?... (33 words

Is this a normal thing?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old girl and I have hairs around my nipples, its really embarassing. There like faint blonde hairs but theres a few that are black, is this normal? How can I get rid of them pain free? Do any of you have them?... (47 words

I love my best friend's BF!

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - im in love wit my best mates boyfriend and dont know what to do we have been best mates for 12 years but her boyfriend is soo nice 2 me hes told me he likes me and wants to be with me and i want to be wit him soooo much what will i do???... (55 words

Do you know if it is a problem?

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1 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Dear all, HI I have a very serious problem which starts to worrying me. I'm a 23 years old man. I'm a vrgin and recently when i want to have sex with my girlfriend and when we are kissing i have ejaculation in my underpants easily. My penis is very sensitive and with a sli... (82 words

Is there anything I can say or should I just walk away?

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is there anything I can say or should I just walk away? For a year and a half now I have been with a guy who keeps pushing me away. At first, we wouls see eachother for a few months and then he would push away because he was afraid of getting close with someone. That whole ... (243 words

I'm 20, she's 15. Can we date?

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi I've been hanging out with a girl I met online and we both like each other lots. We both like each other lots and hae said its likely that we may end up dating in the future. The one that worries/bothers me is the age difference and laws of dating. I'm 20 and she... (135 words

I've been pulled away from my children and I'm stressed out!

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1 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi cupid i have been with my boyfriend for about a year a half and its all good but i lost my kids a year ago to there dad and i miss them very much and i have not seen them from when they left and do not know what to do i love my boyfriend but miss my kids who should i be with ... (86 words

I danced with another girl, now my gf dumped me for it. how do I get her back?

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I was going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months and she found out i was at a party and i was grinding with another girl and she broke up with me and said she never wants to c me again. How do i get her back? do u think shell take me back?... (55 words

I sent a love letter to my teacher. What would he/she do?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - This question is specifically for teachers to answer, but if anyone else wants to have their say then that would also be appreciated. If a pupil gave an innocent love letter to you (by innocent, I mean that she made it clear she is aware of the boundaries and expects nothing ... (114 words

I kissed a collegue, but he has a gf. will he leave her for me?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - im in a bit of a mess and would love some advice, i went to a work party on friday night and a guy i work with who ive always liked but had a feeling he didnt like me (name calling teasing ect) went aswell we started flirting with each other and i asked why are you doing th... (415 words

My ex kissed me. should I tell his current girlfriend?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok my bestfriend (chavez) had a boyfriend (dukes)!! but they were alwayz a on and off couple!!but the 6th tried was the last!so my other bestfriend (rivera) liked him n so they went out!dukes is really close 2 me as a friend and as a ex-boyfriend because we used 2 go out!!but ... (206 words

I keep on throwing up. what do I do about it?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, this isnt realy a relationship question but I was wondering if you guys could help me! I went to a party last night, had a bit to drink.. didnt feel drunk as my mind was clear but it felt like my arms and legs wern't working properly. Anyway I got home feeling a bit sick, ... (154 words

I am always initiating contact, but I want to persue this relationship to a higher level. how do I do this?

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I have a good guy friend whom I know for almost 7 years. We lost contact in between, as he was studying overseas. in the past 2 years, we got back in touch. We have a good time meeting each time he returns from overseas. I feel that we have a lot to talk to each other... (333 words

Could she still like me after 2 years? is there a chance?

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1 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello! Need some advice. A couple of years ago i met this really really nice girl at a family wedding and to cut a long story short i fell hard for her, kinda had a love at first sight feeling. Problem was she was 15 at the time and i was 19 so it felt a bit awkward cos she ... (161 words

Is there prejudice against bisexuals?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - If it is okay to be bisexual then why do bisexual people have to hide it? Why do our parents scream at us about it?... (25 words

Unrequited Love with an American Girl!

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I'm a 15 year old male from England. My Best Friend has a wide family. His Dad left for an American Girl and they ran away together to America to live happily ever after. Well, he has a Sister (she's not even his Sister, they just treat eachother as Bro and Sis). She's... (504 words

How can I get over feeling so lovesick?

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm having a crush with this girl for over 3 years now, but 4 months ago I learned she moved on by dating another guy for 5 months already. So I tried to forget about her, but everything I did at this point kept reminding me of her. I can hardly concentrate on everything I'm ... (65 words

I just cant get hold of him I just keep crying waiting to hear from him!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys im in need of some help!! friday nite after not hearing anything from my boyfriend i decided to text him and we got into a bit of an arguement! i havent spoken to him since then he said his battery is dead and his phone is off!!! we were supposed to be stayin i... (111 words

We want to marry each other but her parents are looking for a husband for her!

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1 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - im 20 years guy .studying in college and working.im fall in love with girl who is 10years elder than me.she is earning agood amount .we love each other a lot.her parents lookin for guy .but not able to find.we want to marry each other.but problem is our parents wont accept at ... (92 words

I feel really shy to ask him or even give hints that I'm in love with him!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have been in love with my step cousin for ages now but i dont know how he feels about me. i feel really shy to ask him or even give hints. everytime i see, which isnt really often i love him even more. what can i do so i dont make myself look stupid?... (55 words

Do dreams mean anything?

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I know there are people out there who spend their whole lies to analyze dreams and do it for a living, but i wanna know from your own experiences, do dreams (in regards to relationships) mean anything... I'm asking cause just last night i had a dream about my ex. When we fir... (128 words

I'm going out of my mind. Why is he so afraid?

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm going out of my mind!!! He wants me, he soesn't want me, he wants me, then he doesn't...Why is he so SCARED!!! First he was afraid of getting close to me because of some screwed up relationships in the past, then he took a chance. Then he realized he was still afraid of ... (167 words

An affair that I didn't want!

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1 June 2008 (F age - I am married, I have a 27 year old disabled daughter and 4 other healthy grown children. I am VERY vulnerable. I have been "slightly" pursued, asked "if you ever need to talk, I am here" This man oversees a financial aspect of my disabled daughter. I had to contact him 2 more ... (369 words

Am I paranoid about becoming pregnant?

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in a "committed" relationship. We have talked about sex and he says he would never do anything to make me uncomfortable and wouldn't push me; I believe him. I have stepped up and decided to start taking the pill. I have told him that I want a backup but ... (90 words

My relationship is not the way I wanted it!

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1 June 2008 (F - I am devastated. My relationship is not turning the way I wanted and it is about to end. I am just really depressed and crying all the time. I can't do anything, I just stay in bed the whole day thinking, don't even go outside. I know I have to be strong and stick to the ... (171 words

My husband left me for another woman!!

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1 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - hello! my husband of 23 yrs left me for another woman, the day he left was mothers day and he was really out of control, so i went the next day and filed a restraining order on him, in return he went behind me and filed one on me, the day he brought a cop to our house to get ... (305 words

My girlfriend can't get over my "old", secret life...

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1 June 2008 (? age 36-40 - First of all let me explain my story, it is a long one so please bare with me, i think without the entire story the advice wont be as easy to give out, I was stationed in Arizona for the Marines, I have been talking to a girl for a very long time and we ended up getting ... (809 words

I lied about my past and he doesn't like it!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My bf doesn't trust me, because he dislikes my past and because I lied about it. He worries about every other crush I had before meeting him, or every other guy I kissed. I'm 19, he's almost 23. I lost my virginity to him, although my first sexual experience (giving oral sex) ... (527 words

How do you get over the heartache?

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1 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - how do u get over someone who u liked for 3yrs more than life? Someone who rejected you in a extremely nice way but u can't get over it. Someone who comes in ur dreams every nite? Someone pictures u luk at every nite. Someone u wish u saw everday and she said she loved me. How ... (68 words

Should I stay with my boyfriend or get with my best friend?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I know two guys. I've known them both for roughly a year and a half. One of them I see practically every day, and the other one, I'm in a long distance relationship with. The long distance relationship is a good one because we don't fight too much and he's such a sweet guy... (205 words

I'm afraid that this will ruin our friendship!!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - theres this boy. and he is totally amazing. hes deffinitley my bestest guy friend. i can talk to him about anything and everything and i love it. i love him sooo much and he loves me to. we both know how we feel abouht eachother but im afraid that if we start dating and ... (130 words

She manipulated and backstabbed me!!

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - My ex best friend is about to have a baby. I'm also going to have one. Our friendship came to a drastic conclusion after several fights. But I still have these ridiculous dreams where she makes me feel guilty. I know I did some things to upset her, but she manipulated and ... (315 words

How can I make my BF break up with me?

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1 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - Yellow. well, I have this amazing boyfreind. he is PERFECT. he cares about me, treats me well and all. but he lives in a different state. And I've realised, that i dont want to be with him. Not now though, maybe after i graduate from college. But I cnat brake up with him b... (153 words

Second-Life is ruining my real life!

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1 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I've been seeing my fiancee for 9years, and known her for over 10. A couple of years ago we started having problems within out relationship because my fiancee was feeling too tired most nights to talk to me let alone anything else. So,I started logging into second... (362 words

Could this be the cause of his discomfort?

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend says that sex can hurt his member. He is well endowed while I am rather petite. Could this be the cause of his discomfort?... (28 words

Every other Saturday he's going out! Help!

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1 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Right, what it is im 40 yrs old and with 3 kids, im seperated from my husband as i dont love him anymore.I have been in contact with this man on the internet, i live in kent and he lives in scotland so we are quite far apart...we have been chatting on the phone 3 times a week ... (227 words

He's still married and I'm having his baby! Help!

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have something of a complicated situation on my hands. The man I am with is still trying to get the money together for his divorce. The woman knows about me, and although she did not officially want the divorce, she is willing to sign the papers and keep it simple. They were ... (238 words

I've cheated on him, but I really do love him!

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay so i've been dating this guy for a year on and off and i've cheated on him more than once, but I really do love him and I'm not entirely sure why I've done it. But I know I'd never do it again, but now he doesn't trust me and he wants me to prove it to him but I don't know ... (124 words

How much space is too much?

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1 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've posted before an wanna know how much space is to much? Me an my guy have been on an off an well we currently off now...well sorta. We live together with another couple to an for a week i gave him sooo much space. I spent all this time in my room. Then he started asking my ... (221 words

Can I give my boyfriend's last name to my baby?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - my babys daddy is out of the country and thers no way that he can make it here the day im going to give birth to my baby . but wer still together. can i still give my baby his fathers last name??... (43 words

Can I get him to leave her for me?

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1 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - here is what went on, so this guy i like and i were talking and this other guy joins in and say to him, "hey, looking all fancy there!" then he say, " you think I am looking fancy? then you obvsilly haven’t seen __ (me)!" then the next thing, this guy that is kind of my friend ... (459 words

Do you send cute messages?

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1 June 2008 (M - Question for the ladies... or the guys Have you ever had a guy vie for your affections when you weren't interested initially and ended up going out with them? I had a short term (couple of months) long distance thing with a girl before she broke it off. Things were good... (132 words

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