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*ranscowboy
writes:I have this friend, and i totally dig her, she is awesome. She is going though a divorce and i'm being a good supportive friend. Which is so hard to do, because i have feelings for her. Well i did something stupid, i sent her an email with a poem i wrote about her. I dont know why i sent it. She hasn't read it yet, and now i'm worried that i just messed up our friendship.
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reader, Transcowboy +, writes (25 June 2008):
Transcowboy is verified as being by the original poster of the question well i sent her the poem, and she emailed me back asking who was it for, i told her it was for her, she said Wow, idk what to say. and now im worried. she hasnt emailed me back in a day, we email each other everyday, im thinking maybe she needs time to process this
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Sweetie, calm down. If she has the same feeling, Wow Great!! If not, I am so sorry, but it does mean you can put all your energy into something, or someone who feels the same way you do. You are such a sweet man, for being there for her in her time of need. You are a rare jewel, something any woman would be lucky to have. All my prayers are with you, and God Bless!
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reader, heatherisgoofingoff +, writes (24 June 2008):
Well, if you already sent the email, all you can do at this point is wait for her reaction. I myself am going through a divorce, but met a "friend" and by him telling me how he really felt about me, it made me see him in a different way, and now we have been together for several months and are very happy and in love. You didn't do anything stupid. Remember that life is short and you should always tell people how you feel. You will never regret what you said to someone, only what you didn't. Best of luck!
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