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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs, and we have not had sex in 2 months, should i leave? Reply to this Question
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female
reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 June 2008):
Well since you are obviously only with him for the sex then yes, leave him.
If you care about him or even love him then perhaps you should be asking yourself
a) why have we stopped having sex?
b) why am I so ready to cut and run?
Good Luck!! xx
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): When someones trying to break up with someone, they tend to try and fix the relationship before hand - just to make sure that its unfixable.
I know that sounds patronizing but you should kinda know that by the time your 36-40.
Also, sex isn't everything. And that's coming from a teenager. If you actually truly love him then thats more than the sex surely.
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female
reader, dearkelja +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Typically when this occurs in a relationship there are discussions and talks about what is going on. Either you do not care enough about him to work on this issue (which is a shared issue in a relationship) or you do not have a strong enough relationship to have candid communications. Perhaps you have left out a large portion of the story.
If you are in the relationship for sex and you're not getting any, then I guess your needs are not being met and yes, you should leave. This post doesn't sound like there is any empathy or compassion for your mate so we can only assume there isn't any. If you truly care about this man (which you have been with him for 2 years-you should) you really need to find out what is troubling him and go from there.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): 2 months? Wow, you don't waste any time, do you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): What are the underlying problems that have caused this lack of sex?
It could be fixable.
Have you talked to your boyfriend about this?
Lots and lots more information is needed.
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female
reader, higo  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 should I leave!!!??? what a question !!! why would you leave him !! maybe he has some problems...maybe he's sick... why don't you ask him this is the right question !!! not what you asking for...are you together just for sex ?? if yes maybe you leave him ... if not if you love him...!!! try to know what's all about...and of course if there is an other gorl than leave you would leave him...but if he's sick try to be with him and be helpfull... so I hope you're gonna take the right way ...
HiGo
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