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How many years in college does it take to become a personal trainer?

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16 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - how many years in college does it take to become a personal trainer??? how is the money?? is it a fun job to have?... (25 words

He's breaking up with me so...is it okay to still have sex with him?

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16 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are going to break up on a mutual decision even though I dont want to but he doesn't want the pressure of having a girlfriend. We still love each other more than anything in the world though. Is is alright if we still have sex? or should we be going out to ... (61 words

Is he too shy to tell me he wants more than a 'friend' relationship?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Okay, so I recently hooked up with a friend that i've know for two years. He was in town for a week in FL, but for the summer he is living in OH. Anyhow, we both had no idea we liked each other, and decided to hook up at a party. It was only close friends, btw. Ever since he ... (112 words

What's the main reason men cheat?

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16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Y do MOST men CHEAT? What gives them a reason to have more than 1 women? I no theres alot of reason but whats the MAIN reason? Does SEX plays a BIG role in a relationship?... (36 words

Would I be a bad person if I left my gf due to her past...it makes me cringe to think about it...

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16 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - What should I do about my gf's past? I think about it every single day, multiple times a day, the closer and more I feel for her the more intense this problem becomes. She has been very promiscuous, sleeping with around 20 people of which most all were one night stands. I ha... (156 words

Do any women use vibrators to climax during sex with their partner...?

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16 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Does any woman use vibrators with there partner to climax??? any ideas for for positions to climax faster, it is hard with this new partner to climas without a small vibrator i use.... (33 words

How can I increase my man's sex drive...??

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - How do I increase my Man's sex drive? Even when he has an erection he's not horny.... (17 words

Did he just say it because he was drunk or what?!? He hasn't mentioned it since...

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16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My bf got drunk a couple of weeks ago, and i kept joking around with him saying so you like her huh (referring to myself) and he said, nawww, im in love with her. I just started laughing and didn't say much afterwards. Anyway, long story short, he's never mentioned it again, ... (100 words

Am I blowing this whole thing out of proportion?? What do you think??

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - My man wrote his ex fling from years ago a message on facebook that said hi sweetheart how are you? after meaningless chatter between them both for a bit (each wrote 2 messages) out of the blue she writes "i think about you everyday, call me, love always and forever" he says he ... (112 words

Can someone help me to read between the lines here??

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - hey there is this guy who i recently started talkin too...and we have become quite close..recently he said that he stayed away from girls who he wanted to have flings with..and he flirts with girls who he is fond of..m really confused..what does that mean..i am unable to read ... (53 words

Has anyone been in this situation?? Any advice much appreciated!

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16 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, met someone, dating 2 months, he might get custody of his kids permanently, they are 3 and 4 and mines are teenegars. I'm scared, he asked me if i can help him with the kids, we live an hour apart and that might consist of him moving to where i live or with me. He is a ... (78 words

Am I spending too much time 'down there' on my guy or not?? What do you all think?

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16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I don't know if this a problem or what! I LOVE to go down on my man(he loves it to). I think i can do it for HOURS(no joke). I love to make him feel good(that not the only way i can make him feel good). I really enjoys it also. Do you think i spend to much time down there ... (77 words

Did we go all the way?!? I'm not sure even thought it really hurt...

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend the weekend just gone. It really hurt but i dont no if we went all the way because paople say after sex it hurts for a couple of days and you bleed. I havent had any of that so does that mean we didnt go all the way? Wri... (79 words

I feel a little weird after my guy friend allowed me to put a finger up his anus...why is this?

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16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok ummh my guy friend allow me to put my finger in his anus. After it happen i felt funny that he allow me to do such thing. He's willing and able to plese me in any way. Do you think thats a little over board or is he a FREAK. Do you think maybe he care about me to let me do ... (67 words

My guy and I are so in love...but he wants to break it off before we get even happier and then something bad happens....why does he think this?

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16 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - Me and my guy are so in love but he wants to break it off before we get happier and then something bad happens where we both get hurt worse than we already are going to now. So are most guys afraid of commitment bacause they feel they havent found the right person they want to ... (90 words

Can anyone tell me whether things work out if you get back with an ex - twice!

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16 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi - can anyone tell me whether things work out if you get back with an ex - twice! My partner and I had been together for 4 years when I ended the relationship - long story but I felt that we were at different points in our lives etc. He is also 7 years older than me. ... (328 words

How can I get the message to my bf that I am ready to have sex??

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I Have The Biggest Issue In The World Right Now I Need Help ASAP!!!!! I Was Over My Boyfriends House and and I Was Sucking His Penis He Cummed In My Mouth and and I Swallowed A Little Bit Of It! It Wasnt That Bad and All But Im Ready To Lose My Virginity To Him... (117 words

I've lost my sex drive...why?!?!? How can I get it back???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have a weird sexual problem. I'm 19. I should be craving sex all the time. I know I used to crave sex all the time little more than a year ago... I have no desire now. I do have sex and it isn't like a chore, even though I get no physical pleasure, I enjoy it because I l... (377 words

We've had many fights...but I never expected it to turn out like this...!! Any advice appreciated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2231 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I got into a heated argument last night while he was drunk he snapped from being fine to screaming at me and calling me.a whore and all those other lovely names people call one another. He wanted to get up to leave I stood in the doorway he grabbed me and ... (203 words

I want my bf to come back to me...!

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we have always been really close, but recently a member of his family has become seriously ill and he has completely closed himself off from me. He wont talk to me about it because he says it makes him feel weak. We hardly ... (89 words

Akward question about masturbation....

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16 June 2008 (M age 22-25 - This is an awkward question to ask, but here goes: I sometimes like fingering myself in the ass...I also I imagine girls doing it to me and even wearing strap-ons and humping me!I'm straight and only like girls that way,is there something wrong with me?... (48 words

Is it normal for a guy to still have feeling for his first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2235 days ago

16 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend(for the last 6 months) still loves his first love and I'm his second. He broke up with her, then 2 months later we started dating. These feelings are really confusing him and he doesn't think it is fair to me. Is it normal for a guy to always have feeling for his ... (58 words

What's he trying to do by asking to see me ?? We broke up on good terms...I don't want to risk things with my new guy...help!!

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - A few weeks ago, my boyfriend of about 3 months broke up with me. Our dating had started very casually, as neither of us really wanted anything long term. But as time went on things inevitably got more serious, and we became a couple. Then a few weeks ago, out of the blue he ... (419 words

I've been with my bf for a year and we're having trouble in the bedroom....but I've developed a crush on a guy at work....what should I do???

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16 June 2008 (M age 22-25 - I've been with my bf for a year and love him lots but recently I developed a crush on a guy at work. On Sunday things developed with my crush, and he told me he liked me and wants to have sex with me. I told him I like him but I'm in a relationship, and there was a lot of ... (203 words

I need help talking to this guy that I really like!! Help please!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ok i need help talkin to this lad i like. I am pretty quiet in general anf really like him, the thing is he can talk to anyone else great in th group but not me! Its just me! The people who know i like him have just said just say random stuff to him or just find someting you ... (264 words

Does anyone know why I feel like this when I masturbate?? It only happens when I use my fingers...

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - When I masturbate with my fingers rather than anything else I get really spacey, especially when my eyes are closed. When I masturbate even using bullets or other vibrators it's fine, but when I use my fingers I feel sort of empty and hollow and my head hurts and I feel ... (75 words

If a woman says she hates you is that a good sign??

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16 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - If a woman says she hates you is that a good sign? Does it mean she as feelings for you, and thats got to be better than indifference. Does she just need turning around?... (35 words

Should I have a fling??! My wife has had two!!

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16 June 2008 (M age 51-59 - My wife had two affairs, each one with the excuse i wasn't giving her enough attention. How can you compete with someone trying to woo her for the first time, my mysteries have all been revealed already. Ive tried to carry on in the relationship but the thought of it won't go... (239 words

How can you get a guy "unafraid" of commitment?

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16 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months!! Things havn't been going so well for the two of us so we decided a break would be the best for now then that turned into a break up. At first I couldn't figure out why he wanted this becuause I knew how much he loved me and ... (108 words

I still love my 'soulmate' but I'm married...what should I do??

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16 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a married woman have been with my husband for 21 years un total, but had an affair a year ago. I thought i had found my"soulmate" with this new man as he told me i was his and yes i do belive i was.Then in January he told me that if i didn't leave my husband he would have ... (166 words

I want to be loved. I need somebody.

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - i'm still young so i can't say that i know what's love like. but, there's this guy who i like very much since 1st grade and we were together some time ago and he dumped me. we even had sex, and he told me that he loves me, but now, i'm not so sure. he's with some other girl now ... (84 words

What could I do to convince him that dating me wouldn't be a horrible idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, Ive gone on a few dates with this one guy, that i like very much. For my birthday yesterday he took me out to the movies. He kissed me and then decided to tell me he cant date me. He talked about not wanting things to go wrong, because his friends wouldnt aprove a... (233 words

Do opposites attract?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - I've recently come out of a long term relationship and almost straight away started dating someone new. Its all happened quite fast and we are pretty 'infatuated' with each other, i.e sex is amazing and we really enjoy being together... and tell each other this very often. ... (169 words

Could this be love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my bf for about two months. The feelings I feel for him are amazing, yet scary because its too soon. I've been in a lot of dating/relationships in the past with men and I think I am mature enough to tell the difference between infatuation and ... (82 words

How can I get him to cum??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have had sex a few times. Every time we have sex he cant cum. He has to jack off or I have given him a bj once and he came. He was married for 2 years before we got together and his ex would get up in the middle of sex and walk off and leave him stranded and ... (142 words

My ex is making my life really difficult!! Please help me to move on!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hello. Ok. me and my ex broke up almost 3 months ago. Now my problem is...my ex is giving me signs that he still likes me, but refuses to start anything with me again. Now Ive decided to move on because Ive become incredibly bored of crying over him every night and not be... (502 words

Does a flirty husband and a divorced friend equal a bad idea or not?!?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Flirty Husband + Divorced Friend = Bad Idea? My husband made friends with a co worker, all 3 of us work together, although I'm not there that much becasue it isn't my main job. He had been helping her move, hugging her, posing for pics, playing golf with her ex husband,... (209 words

What should I do about the guy that likes me!?!? I have a bf!!!

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I am with a guy who i have been with now for 10 months, I love him so much but recently we broke up and on the same night we got back together, we have just recently gone on a break to fix things. My best friend like this guy but that guy likes me but didnt want to tell me ... (101 words

I just can't get over him - what should I do?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I really love this guy, but he doesn't love me. I told him a while back how i felt, but he just told his mates who still take the mickey out of me. He then asked another girl out! But she rejected him. Anyhow, its been months and i just can't seem to get over him, i've talked ... (77 words

How can I talk to my gf about our sex life, without hurting her, or us ending up arguing?!?

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16 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey cyber world, I'm 24 years old and I have been with my current girlfriend for the past four years. When it comes to our sex life, well I can explain it pretty simply, boring. I almost feel as if it is a chore for her to have sex with me unless she is drunk then she is m... (121 words

How do men or women prefer to see the pubic area on their partners??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2174 days ago

16 June 2008 (? age 51-59 - How do men or women prefer to see the pubic area on their partners: shaved, trimed or with some sort of design?... (22 words

I feel like I'm being taken for granted, why does he act like this??

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16 June 2008 (? age 22-25 - I feel like Im being taken for granted and its really starting to get to me. I have a male friend, we are close and have slept together and he phones me all the time and i love chatting but its like everythings on his terms and i feel a bit used. He only phones me when h... (133 words

I'm confused!! What does he mean by this??

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - me and my boyfriend of 10 months the other day split up. we were at a party, and both had drunk way too much, he said he didnt feel for me the way he used to. i shared a bed with him and he kissed me. I said that was a friends kiss right and he was like yeah. we are best fri... (130 words

My nippes don't get hard!

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - hi ok this is super embarrassing to talk abt whn me n my bf r havin sex or whn were fooling around my nipples dnt get hard at all the only time nethng like ths happens is whn im cold i wanna kno if thrs sumthng wrong with me cuz im embarrassed by it me n my bf have been datin ... (120 words

Could someone please clear up the 'Hymen Situation'?

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16 June 2008 (? age 18-21 - I am really confused about the 'hymen' situation, i have been horse-riding all my life - so has my hymen broke!? or will you just never know.... is sex easier when your hymen is broke?? :S... (36 words

Should I call my ex or not? Is there anyway I can get her back with hurting or comprimising other people?

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16 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - About 7 months ago me and my ex broke up, at first we still hung out and were friends but after about 3 months she found someone else. I was very upset and after an emotional conversation we decided that we should give each other some space. she suggested that i give her a ca... (249 words

Is it possible that he loves me in THAT way?

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16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My best friend and i are having an affair (we're both married, but i'm going thru a divorce), and it's supposed to just be friends with benefits. Except he started telling me all the time that he loves me. Recently he asked me what my plans were regarding my divorce and I told ... (369 words

Go back or move on?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - It's now been almost a year since my first love broke up with me. We had been together for 2.5 years. He was young, immature, and acted stupidly when another girl chased after him. He broke my heart, ended it and went with another girl. We fought afterwards and then di... (559 words

Why is he leading me on? He has a girlfriend, does he like me? I'm so confused!

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16 June 2008 (? age 18-21 - How do you know if he likes your or not if he has a girlfriend!!?? All my friends say god he flirts with you loads and they say that he has feelings for me and stuff and now i have started to like him but he ahs a girlfriend so why is he leading me on, will he ever dump her? ... (90 words

I'm in love with my stepbrother! What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - I am in love with my step brother. We've been seeing each other in secret for the past year. We know it's wrong, but he's the only one who gets me. My sister caught us together and won't even look at me, and she has threatened to tell my mum. But i can't imagin being without ... (76 words

My pubic hair keeps growing back! And I don't like waxing! Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - What shall i do with my pubic hair. i have shaved it but it keeps growing back. And i don't like the stuble. Waxing isn't an option what shall i do? ... (34 words

Addicted to going through his stuff - he's going to leave me - help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - So, I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We dated 7 years ago for a few short months and broke up because he was cheating on me. He called me three years ago and we have been together since. For about the last year we have been fighting and have been on and off. ... (227 words

Should I risk telling my friend I love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2229 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - I've developed feelings for my straight friend, who's also a girl (S). She doesn't know this yet, but I want to tell her. I know that most teenagers go through this stage of sexuality confusion (we're both 15 in our last year of school), and it's probably just a phase. I don't ... (199 words

My love for my wife has faded! And my size seems to be a problem for both women in my life!

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16 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am married and I love another woman but I can't make a decision as to what to do. I love my wife but I'm not in love with my wife but i love our life, family and most of all my son. I am going crazy as to what to do. I can't imagine breaking this family up but I just can't ... (227 words

Will he get over the fact I got with someone else on a break?

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16 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Will my boyfriend ever get over a one time fling I had with my neighbor, it happend when we broke up a few years ago? Am I wrong in thinking that he can overcome this? I love him so much, will he get over the hurt and come back to me? He tells me he needs time,will this help or ... (142 words

Used a condom, period still late, almost no signs of pregnancy. Am I pregnant?!

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hello.. first off, some background: I usually get my period a few days after my mom gets hers. So I'm about 4-8 days late, now. I had sex maybe a little less than a week ago (We used a condom-Lifestyles) I haven't taken the pregnancy test, but only because it says I shoul... (139 words

I want to do more sexy things for my boyfriend...

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Me and my bf have been together for almost two years now and we've has sex plenty of times but it seems that I'm always the one enjoying it better. Don't get me wrong he gets off and says he is when I ask him but he always does all the work. I'm not bad at it when I'm on top ... (99 words

He wants to "see me" but doesn't want a girlfriend...

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Is it ok to be seeing someone but not strictly going out? Ive been seeing a guy for four months, he says he would love to go out with me but as he works late he hasnt time enough to see me as a girlfriend but still wants to see me. Do thse things ever end up in a proper r... (123 words

Should I tell my bf about my drunken flirting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Recently when out and quite drunk I got talking to this guy who was really dead on. He knew I had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend. I was chatting to him for ages about both our partners and lots of other things. But as the alcohol started flowing I started to feel very ... (153 words

First time worries: I heard it may be painful... what to expect?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Okay, i'm going to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but i'm a bit nervous. I get the idea on here that it hurts, but others i have spoken to say it doesn't? How long could this go on for? ... (45 words

I want her, but she wants to party

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16 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - quick q, we're both 22. i've told the girl i love her, i've known her for years and now seemed like a great time to tell her, she's said she doesn't want a bf at the mo, she still wants to have fun and a laugh with her mates when shes out, get drunk, pull blokes etc witho... (252 words

I'm above my fiance financially, he depends on his dad. Should I end this?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Please tell me if there's anything wrong in this. I'm above my fiance financially, he doesn't have a regular income and somehow depends on his dad, who seldom helps him. We want to get married in seven months time. Do I cut off?... (43 words

I love him but I need to move on... any help?

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16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - i need some help! how do i get over a guy that i am honestly in love with? i had 2 brek up with him about 3 months ago because i found out he cheated on me (from his myspace infront of my bff who has never seeen me cry so hard and we have been bffs for 8 and a half years)! but ... (226 words

Bullying problem! I need help!

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16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - hello, i'm a 14 year old female living in england. I know this page is for love and sex questions but i have a really important one...about bulling. Its a long story but please read. Last friday me and my friend "AM" skived school. Even though i was aware of what i was doing... (474 words

Is this normal? My nipples are cracked and I get hard yellow stuff in the crack!

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - This is a horrible question, but can I just ask is this normal.....my nipples are cracked in the middle and I get like...yellow hard stuff in this crack. Is this normal? Is there any way to get rid of it? Thanks.... (42 words

Any tips for giving a handjob?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - ive been totally in love with my best friend for like 2 years and a couple weeks ago he told me he felt the same way so we started going out. so we've been fooling around and he can turn me on without any effort and even make me sqeal without trying (sorry for the visual) ... (171 words

I have a crush on a classmate but she ignores me...what should I do!??

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16 June 2008 (M age 22-25 - im a 16 year old boy.i had a crush with a classmate of mine.but she ignores me.i dont no whether she likes me or not.please suggest me some idea.... (31 words

Does he still love me?!? What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2236 days ago

16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - I was with this guy around a year and a half ago, and i really loved him. I still believe he is the one for me and lately i have realised i still love him. He is with somebody else, they have been together two months. Me and him were together for a year. He has told me in the ... (95 words

Do people who fall in love quickly also fall out of love quickly??

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16 June 2008 (M - My g\f has dumped me. At the beginning of our one year relationship she was all over me, almost clingy and more or less in love with me straight away. Now after a few weeks of arguing she has dumped me and just gone cold, just like that. I can't believe how it's gone from ... (88 words

How can I get my relationships with my mum and boyfriend back on track?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - My problem involves many things, my relationship with my boyfriend, my relationship with my mother and glandular fever! Right, i am with my boyfriend for four months but yesterday there was a bit of a row between us. We were supposed to see each other, we hadnt for 4 weeks ... (281 words

I can't be with her due to my background and my family...what do you think of my situation??

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16 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - Towards the end of 2006 i met this amazing girl through a friend. I just thought she was really cute and there was something special about her, we started chatting and flirting online at first and then one day we were both out at a club at the same time. We started dancing and ... (1027 words

How do I know if I love her or just want her for sex?

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16 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - how i know if i love her or just i need her for sex?... (14 words

The affair with a married man emotionally messed me up, should I end it with him?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - I was recently dating a married man....even though i developed strong feelings for this man...i always knew that it was going nowhere....and I never expected much from him..i do feel like i gave more than what i should...but the point is that we got into an argument and ended ... (124 words

I split with my partner of 4 years as we fell out of love, now his brother and I are in love, will this cause problems for my daughter?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - i have recently split with my partner of 4 years within that time we had a baby girl who is now 2. for the past 2 years we have been having problems and we fell out of love. since then i have been texting and seeing his brother and have fallen in love with him. we both have the ... (128 words

I'm fed up with waiting for someone to find me - what do I do?!??

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Lately, i've completley given up on guys and everything to do with them. I haven't been in a relationship since october, and i've had a few crushes which have turned out to hurt me. I've been hurt by guys so many times, I don't know what to do anymore. It feels like I won't ... (162 words

I want to be able to tell him 'no' how can I do this - I don't want him back in my life!!!

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - okay, i recently got back with my ex who i dated on and off since august...we reached a point in december when we quit talking so 6 months later he contacts me wanting to talk, I was so happy without him but somehow he suckers me into talking to him again. I want to be able to ... (182 words

Help! I Just Dont Trust Him!

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16 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I found out after marrying my husband that he had lied to me about why his first marrage ended,he told me his ex wife had cheated,i found out it was him.He knew before we actually met that i cannot stand people who cheat.Since i have found out i just cannot trust him at ... (106 words

How many people actually stay with their high school lovers?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - i have a very straight foward question. Basically does anybody here think that somebody my age (18)can actually keep with their bf from school? im out of school both of us are at uni....what are the chances of it happening? how many people do u know do keep their highschool ... (66 words

I don't believe that I'm pretty, is there something wrong with me?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - im a slim light skinned girl,and everyone comments on how pretty i am but although i know they arent lying i myself dont believe i am.my boyfriend also says that im gorgeous and pretty but i still dont fink i am.is there somethibg wrong with me?... (46 words

How can I be self-confident?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - i have no self esteem and no self confidence whatsoever although i make friends easily.my bf said me making friends easily shows that i have got some self confidence .is he right? and how can i be self confident?... (39 words

Would you have a problem moving in with a partner if they had lived there with a previous partner?

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16 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I would like to know if anyone would have a problem with moving in with there partner, if there partner had lived there before with a previous partner.... (28 words

I am so confused! please help guys! surely it is wrong for us to like each other?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - hey. random question that occurs all the time in pretty much everbody! basically, i am mid teens and i think i like this guy, even though he is not instinctivly fit or any thing, but he has a really nice personbality an di find it really easy to talk to him, we could talk 4 ... (688 words

I need your help as to how to stop liking him because I would never do anything to hurt my friend

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hiya any answers you give me is appreciated Well i like this lad who is a friend and has a girlfriend who is my friend aswel because we hang in a group. I really like him and i don't know what to do when they are together and im there. But their relationship isn't so great a... (233 words

What should I do? Should I come out to them?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi........ I am a 19 year-old girl. I am in college and live at a all-girl dorm now. I have a lot of nice friends out there. We are so close to each other, yeah we are like sisters. But I secretly hide something from them, I am a lesbian and no one at my dorm knows about it... (303 words

I feel bad about myself - should I confess to what I did?

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16 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok. I'll try and be brief... Long distance relationship, been together 6 years, long distance for 3, long distance ended last month. Ok, a year ago, was out, got so drunk, I only remember bits (though I know sex happened.) Next day woke up, freaked out. Spoke with her, she... (317 words

How do I put on weight?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - hi,im a slim light skinned girl and im currently a size 8.im usually a size 8 and ten at the most but the weight is dropping off me.how can i try to put on weight?please help.... (36 words

My ex and I decided that we be friends, but I realised every time we talk I become sad and depressed.

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16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is what happened my ex and I just stop talking to each other back in December of 2007 and well I look for him about two months later to talk to him and be friends again. Time has passed after five months later we talked about what had happened why neither of us had called ... (266 words

Why still no commitment from him after 6 years?

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16 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - hello I am in need of some help please. I have been in volved with a man for 6 yrs. We met and clicked very well! He is 43 and I am 33. He has NEVER been married nor has children. He has only lived with one woman for 2 yrs. He owns his own house and has a very stable job. He ... (423 words

He has been violent to me will he change?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend over a year now, and we just had a child together a month ago. He the nicest guy I have ever met and treats me better than anyone I know. He is a very easy to get along with, my friends like him, and my family loves him...but there is one ... (119 words

Why would she send me that bumpersticker even though we werent together?

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16 June 2008 (M age 22-25 - im 19 my ex-girl friend that i dated for a few years sent me a bumpersticker saying "iloveyou.don't forget that. ever." on facebook and at this stage in our relationship we talk occastionally. but when i was deleting some bumperstickers i saw hers and idk if i want to delete it ... (106 words

Sex with my older second cousin?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Last weekend I went on a beach vacation with my family and I saw my second cousin who I hadn't seen in a while, who I used to just love with I was a little girl, he's my second cousin he's 40, I'm 20. I've never thought of him sexually before. But I just noticed how he always ... (192 words

Rules to dating a teacher? are there any?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Okay, does anybody know the rules of dating a teacher? like, after you graduate and are 18, can you date them, or do you have to wait, will they automatically be fired if you are thier previous student?... (38 words

I feel like I can't do anything right in my marriage!

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16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - OK so I feel like I can't do anything right in my marriage of almost 2 years. My husband is Iraq and I recently brought my sister to live with me for a couple of reasons but the main reason was to help her get her life together. I stressed to my husband I wanted it to be OK ... (167 words

I think my teacher likes me

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - ok, i know how it sounds, but im in love with my teacher. it is not a crush, and people piss me off when they think they know better how im feeling then i do, just beacuse im 6 short months away from legaly being an adult. My friends see how he is around me and have sworn to me ... (191 words

Were we disrespectful to his family getting home so late?

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16 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok so my bf is so mad at me. Right now he's not talking to me. Ill explain why.... Him and I , our daugther, his brother and gf, their two kids and his mom live in the same house (yeah I know full house!) Anyway they (the brothers) are always out and about. Get ... (262 words

I really like him a lot, but is it worth the possibly of losing our friendship in the end?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Despite all of the drama in my life, (ex boyfriend - new girlfriend) and alot of other things consuming that. I feel like I have opened up a new chapter in my life that I never knew existed. Yesterday, as I was drinking with some friends of mine. My best friend, Whom is a guy ... (193 words

Can someone explain to me why I'm acting paranod if thats what it is?

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16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out about 6 months.....everything is fine......i think. Well im 14 and hes 16, but we've BOTH been through a lot. As in stuff adults go through in later years-things that make us more mature then others. The guy works seven days a w... (356 words

How do I make it up to may bf after he got mad at me?

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16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - How do I make it up to my boyfriend after he got mad at me?... (15 words

Hey Guys! How come you disappear after a few dates?!

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - This is a question for all the men. Why do you guys disappear? Like, after a few dates, few phone calls, emails..then, just vanish into thin air? for all the baffled women out there, whats up guys? ... (40 words

How to extinquish the affection for a married woman..any advice?

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16 June 2008 (M age - What makes a man want to have the affection of another woman when has been married for years? How can the urge be extinguished? Is it really that bad if there is no sex involved? ... (35 words

AI have huge jealousy issues...is it me or the way he behaves?

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16 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am a 21 y.o woman and have been with my partner for 7 months. We were best friends years before we got together. I have a jealousy problem anytime we go out i feel like i have to watch where he is looking an if i see him look at another women i get so mad an i just want to go ... (301 words

I have a crush on a guy but he prefers my sister!

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - hey i had this huge crush on a guy in school very soon we became friends and he started coming home..i thought he liked me but its only later i found out that he has the hots for my elder sister..he had a crush on her since a long time and became friends with me only to get to ... (116 words

Too many fights broke us up!...

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16 June 2008 (M age 18-21 - i have a problem k well my girlfreind broke up with me beacuse i have gotten in too many fights but i get in these fights to defend her please help fast thanks... (33 words

caught my boyfriend of two years cruising for sex at an adult book store. Plese advise!!

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16 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - Last week I was coming home late from work, when I noticed my boyfriend's car parked outside an Adult Book Store- I knew immediately he was cruising for sex. I waited outside the store, and noticed him circling around the building looking for sex. He saw me and he confessed ... (259 words

Two BF's but I can only date one... right?

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16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi everyone! uh okay, i'll get right to it. So i have this boyfriend, and i thought we loved each other. Sounds great, right? But theres a a problem... i recently started working and of course i met new friends and stuff, and im told that this one boy likes me. and tha... (141 words

Trying to reinvigorate my relationship, but what should I do?

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16 June 2008 (? age 26-29 - I was in a relationship with a girl for almost a year and a half, we got engaged and then she found out about me lying about things in our past, she then moved back home, We are not together and i will be away from her in all contact for at the least 5 months, i email her, but ... (127 words

Is he saying that he wants sex and could care less about love?

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16 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - my boyfriend wants to have sex with me. but i really dont want to. im just scared that it will hurt and the word will get around. im just comfortable with it. he says if we dont he will still love me and go out with me but i hate seeing him so sad cuz i wont. does this mean he ... (71 words

How do I build up the spice in our marriage and allow my husband to keep his porn?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - okay i found out my hubby looks at porn occasionally which i don't mind really as long as it isn't excessive we have great sex and i know he loves me i mean i get a little jealous sometimes but i haven't talked to him about it yet i definitely want to so he knows i know and ... (169 words

How should I ask her out?

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16 June 2008 (M age 18-21 - hello i need some advice, i like this girl and would like 2 ask her out the the movies but the only thing is i have not seen her in a long time and also i dont know how to ask her ??? should i take some friends or just me and her as i dont relly no her friends the only ... (103 words

What's an overly clingy girlfriend?

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16 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - how do u define a clingy gf? i was simply telling my bf how much he meant to me and saying things like your the only person that will ever mean anything to me, ur the last thing i think of when i go to sleep and who i think of when i wake up and he told me to stop it coz it w... (106 words

I need some nickname suggestions -- please help?

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16 June 2008 (M age 18-21 - hi i need some advice i like this girl shes not my gf but wat nicknames could i call her and not sond 2 full on lol please help me find some nicknames to cal her we are in our teens help thanks ... (49 words

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