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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

When trust is breached how do you get that back or should you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a wonderful man but lately we have hit a bump and I can't seem to rebound from it and furthermore, I'm not sure if I should. We were at the stage where we were getting engaged, moving in together, etc... It should be said now that up to this point... (658 words)

I still have feelings for this one guy and I can stop thinking about him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - OK. so I know i have asked alot of questions recently but I am so confused. I was going out with this one guy and I loved him like heck. Several of my friends were saying he was going to hurt me even though he said he wasnt. And he hadnt. I was forgetting what all my friends ... (152 words)

Is it normal to bicker over our wedding plans?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I are getting married in september and were both stressing and bickering over plans and money,is this normal?...please help x... (31 words)

Are there other girls out there like me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be a strange one. Im a 19yr old female. Im what my bf calls borderline nympho. I'm able to have multiple orgasms very quickly (within minutes). I've really truly squirted as well, not pee, but a strange fluid. Is this normal? My boyfriend tells me its... (96 words)

I'm wondering why she calls and tells me all these things because I still care about her a lot ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i dated this girl for over 2 years and i can't seen to get over her.okay this is how it started we first started dating and she asked to to come her friends b-day party with her so i agreed and went but it was the biggest mistake i ever made because it just ended messing ... (395 words)

Any romantic proposal tips please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, this is DocDell, I am planning to ask my girl to marry me, and well, I just kind of need suggestions, Ideas, of how I should do it, or where I should do it, anything is appretiated.... (38 words)

Am I in the wrong even though I didn't know he had a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want peoples opinion on this please. A guy went down on me after we kissed. After this had happened I found out he had a girl friend. I had no clue before the act occured. I hold my hands up to acting "slutty" but other than being slutty, am I in the wrong as regards to th... (96 words)

Is it possible that I caught an std years ago and wouldnt know it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - this is a long one but i really need some advice. my fiance and i have been together for about a year and a half now. niether one of us have been with anyone else as we both believe in being completely faithful. but i tend to get these yeast infections that no matter what i try ... (249 words)

How do I help my shy love feel comfortable with me (we met online)?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend online, WE LOVE EACH OTHER SO MuCH it was love at first talk, and we are going to meet each other finally, this friday. He said that he thinks he's going to be shy when we met. How do i help him to feel comfortable with me? ... (56 words)

How can I help him move on? How long should I wait for him? We have such good times that I do find it hurtful he's holding back despite apparenty having long term plans for us...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hoping for some insights into my guys head!! I have been with my man for a year, and although we live a fair distance apart we talk everyday and spend weekends together unless he's working. He is very affectionate and pays me lots of compliments and we have great fun together... (338 words)

He does not treat me well after I lied about my past, which discourages me in my effort to change...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My bf has issues because I've lied about my past, because I knew he'd dissaprove of it. So I lied, and then I told him, and of course he started judging me and now he doesn't trust me. I understand why he doesn't trust me. We've had numerous fights and break ups, because I hate ... (393 words)

I'm a virgin and worried my pubic hair will put her off. What can I do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm just 17 I'm a virgin and i feel like i have too much pubic hair. I'm scared that when the moment is right she will see me and be grossed out. my question is, is this a problem? and is there anything i can do about it?... (49 words)

Ex girlfriend keeps calling when I back off for a few weeks, am I reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

- Can you guys pls help My G\F dumped me 3 months and said let be friends. I agreed. I have tried not to chase her but every 2 or weeks she initiates contact to say hi and catch up. Then I don't call her and 2 weeks later the same again Am i reading too much into this? Why ... (87 words)

He asked me to offer him oral after anal sex, what do you think?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I let my sexpartner do anything he wants when it comes to SEX. I enjoy anal sex with him and he is my only sex partner out of 5 years. One day he wanted to pull out after anal and put it in my mouth. I told him NO WAY thats nasty. Really which one is the worst, Doing anul or ... (85 words)

Where is a man's "G-Spot"?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can someone tell me in a FULL DESCRIPTION where is a man's G-SPOT (in details)... (15 words)

Does him keeping a photo of his ex mean he still has feelings for her? Am I being totally irrational and jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whether I'm being totally irrational and jealous but I think my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex. It wasn't a very serious relationship and it ended because she was kissing other people. I worked with him but we weren't close. We got together around ... (218 words)

Confused about sex and orgasm. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, when me and my boyfriend have sex i don't really feel it that much after it goes in and hes not small so idk y. I "cum" a lot though so is that why???? I never really make any sound either, except one time when we were doing it fast and hard. Please help, is there somethin... (65 words)

We're trying to make it work after his affair, but he spends his days dreaming about little Miss Perfect!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 20 years has been having an affair with a much younger woman he works with. He thinks that he is in love with the other woman and although he's apologised and said that he's sorry it is obvious that she continues to occupy his thoughts. I have told him that I ... (103 words)

I'm hurt now and confused about my boyfriend, does he really care and love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend go to dubai bcoz of him family, i love him so much... i care about him family i always help i dont care how mauch i spend money to help them.. but how can i make sure my bf is he really love me or he just treat me nice bcoz he need me to help him family?? but i ... (114 words)

My mum grounded me after she found out I lied about my bf. I have an interview tomorrow and want him to come with me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i posted a question about my mum findin out I lost my virginity and with her grounding me and not lettin me see him for a while cause she believes i should have wait and that i've throwin it away and that she cant trust me cause i lied to her. so thing is i have an interview ... (146 words)

My wife doesn't enjoy sex - how can I make it better for her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I am married for one year. My wife is very sexy and loving.But the problem is she feels lot of pain during intercourse.I haven't done yet full insertion because she screams in pain when I try to go into her full.So far I have to content with oral intercourse.Even there I had ... (72 words)

She says the affair "just happened" what does it mean?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife had an affair. We have tried to talk about it, and she said 'it just happened'. What does this mean. Is she putting it down to the hand of God. I've pressed her on the point but she maintains it just happened. Explain please.... (46 words)

I'm online cheating - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

- hey all i have a really big problem and the longer i leave it the worse its going to get. i started dating my current bf bout a yr ago, we soon fell in love and started a serious relationship i had been hurt in the past so i was warey but he made everything seem better. hes... (239 words)

Follow up question - The disappearing act has reappeared...now what?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So I posted my situation on here last week: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/whats-with-his-disappearing-act.html And, after several weeks of not talking, my disappearing act from that post has reappeared. He called last night and this is basically what happened: he ... (1175 words)

His drug use is destroying me but I want to stay to help him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello can u help me i not sure if im in a abusive relationship as i suffer from anxiety and depression i have a child with my partner of six years and iv deciced to end it but i keep questioning myself that im doing the right thing he likes to keep fit so he uses steroids and ... (199 words)

Is there any way I can stop my pubic hairs growing back so quick?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there any way I can stop my pubic hairs growing back so quick? I have to shave and moisturize twice a day! Waxing isn't really an option I'm afraid, and laser removal is way out of reach. So if I carry on shaving, is there any way I can stop the little buggars coming b... (61 words)

My ex bf did drugs, he beat me and he lied. So why do I still feel for him now that I have a new bf??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well, i was with my ex for about a year and a half, he cheated on me,beat me, lied and does drugs, when i was with him i became depressed and never ate. but i fell in love with him and there wasn't nothing i wouldn't do for him. my family absolutley hates him. But i started ... (257 words)

Still in love with him, how do I get him to let me be his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F) age 51-59 - My boyfriend broke up with me after dating for a year. We had arguements like up couples do. It's been four months since the break-up. I was devastated because I didn't know the real reason why we broke up. I asked him on several occassions to talk about it so I could see if we ... (260 words)

I want to be with her but she is unsure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago. She was really into me before we were going out and i wasnt too interested...but then when we started going out i grew really fond of her. We broke up after only 8 weeks. We were both really stressed at the time about ... (207 words)

WHy did I sleep with the ex bf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I did a stupid thing last weekend. I was visiting my old city for a fest and stayed with my ex boyfriend and slept with him. I feel so stupid now. I am disappointed that to him it really was only a one night stand. He cheated on me many many times and I know he's not the guy ... (78 words)

What could this severe pain in my lower stomach be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. My sex life with my boyfriend is really good at the moment and we've been trying out lots of new positions. I really enjoy it but lately after sex I've been getting really severe pains in my lower stomach. The pain is really bad and usually lasts for about half an hour - ... (187 words)

What is the possibility that I can get pregnant in the pool?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex in the pool. We used condoms when we were in the bedroom. My question is: Does sperm die in the pool and since he was inside me, what is the percentage rate on possibilities of me getting pregnant??? I am very fertile and I get pregnant easy.... (51 words)

My parents don't want me to see him, he has a one year old son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with this guy who has a 1yr old son and my parents are totally against it because the baby's mom is very dramatic. My parents are forbidding me to see this guy because they think they only doing what's right for me. Really, what should i do?... (51 words)

My friend keeps pushing me over the edge and I don't know if she's worth having as a friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I hate to be a backstabber and talk about my so called friend,but I need to.We've been friends since the 2nd grade, not the best of friends. We usually have arguments all the time. She makes fun of the way I talk. She says I talk and act like a white girl. I'm Af... (466 words)

Don't men enjoy going down on their ladies?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need a little advice about oral sex. I always thought that men loved to give oral sex to their ladies, but recently discovered that my husband of 8 years may not like to give it. We are both 28 years old. I make sure I always shower first and that's become my way of ... (280 words)

I'm feeling neglected by him, he has to attend AA meetings after getting out of prison.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age - I'm hoping I can sum this up in a short. I have been with my Fiance' for 7.5 years and I love him to death; 7 years and 2 months has been while he was in prison, but I've known him for 25 years. To make a long story short, he has to attend AA three times a week and aftercare 1 ... (174 words)

What could he be thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was kind of in a strange situation and don't really know what to think of it. While my husband was deployed, i went to go hang out with this friend of mine. I guess he was more like family of family. I have known him for a long time, but we were never really that close, so ... (477 words)

I'm confused as to what 'oral sex' means!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - When people talk about oral sex, what is it really. is it unprotected sex or what? im confused please help!... (21 words)

Is it cheating? If so, how do I deal with something like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently did something so stupid, I literally threw-up an hour after it happened. I never, in my wildest dreams, thought I would be the one to do something like this; I think it's down-right wrong and makes someone look and feel insecure about themselves and their own ... (349 words)

I think I'm in love with best friends cousin,how am I suppose to tell him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im having a problem I hope someone can help me with.Im 15 still in school and I met this new girl in my school this year.She is very sexy and spanish,the only problem is she is my best friends cousin.My best friend is also mexican and he is very close to his cuz.Me and her have ... (173 words)

I've left the teacher who meant everything to me, and my life is falling apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It was my last day at school yesterday, and i've had to leave this male teacher behind who means everything to me and has done for the past 18 months. I feel so drained and tired, it's as though my life has fallen apart! I know it has only been a day, but i've been comfort ... (87 words)

I'm disgusted that he showed me a pic of him wearing my knickers!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started seeing this guy, and he's great. We get on really well, enjoy spending time together, and the sex is fantastic.... we're really open about our sexuality, and we're both very comfortable in the bedroom, despite only being with eachother 4 months. Every... (175 words)

Why is he backing off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been seeing a guy for 7 weeks. i have worked with him for 6 months and before we got together we became really good friends. we have had some lovely times together but lately he has backed right off. i don't know why cos last time i saw him we had a great time!... (56 words)

I'm a virgin and only want sex but can't find a girl that will accept that

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a virgin and it seems to me that im only attracted to women becayse of the sex but i cant find a girl to be with nthat accepts me the way that i am. ... (38 words)

My friend is too much, but she needs me. I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend and I find her to be rather stressful. I am a very positive person but she is a very negative person and I find she is draining on me, my energies and my positive vibes. She calls me every day and every time she whines and moans about everything...the smallest ... (347 words)

'Mam I just started my periods'. I just can't bring myself to tell her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok so i know most of you have heard about this situation before but i really do need help on this one. Getting to the point.....I started my periods a while back and i never told my mam coz i just cudnt get the words out, i managed fine as she had already stocked up for me ages ... (168 words)

Does anyone have any experience of taking norethisterone pills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, Im just wondering if there are any women out there who have taken norethisterone pills before to delay periods. Im going on holiday in a few weeks and its too late to start taking the contraceptive pill as it won't kick in this cycle. I have looked elsewhere on the internet ... (81 words)

I'm worried about putting on weight if I take the pill. Are there ways to avoid it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having to go on the pill, due to heavy periods and unbearable stomach cramps. However, I'm concerned of the side-effects... Apparently you can gain alot of weight, i'm not prepared to sacrafice my pain for that!!! I'm tall and fairly slim, this is the way i wanna stay. My ... (93 words)

He stares, but he never smiles. What is he trying to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i really like this guy but i can't undrestand wether he like me too. for somedays i looked at himhe noticed it but didn't react to it. After some days i notice he has begun to stare at me. But he never smile . we both just look at eah other like an eyelock. what is wrong with ... (71 words)

My friend is after my girlfriend! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - one of my friends is hangin out wiv my girlfriend and puttin his head on her lap and being very obvious about it wot am i meant to do ... (33 words)

I am confused about where this relationship is heading. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing a guy for four months. Because of his job and the fact we live far away we have both decided that to go out properly would be a bad idea. Thing is that i am beginning to feel a bit used as we are not going out yet and ive really fallen for him. I would like us ... (249 words)

No affection from my husband. I am ready to tell him to take a long walk on a short pier...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age - I am so frustrated and angry. My husband of 20 years will only give me a peck on the cheek. I try to kiss him and he pulls away. I flirt with him and it is like I do not exist. I tried to dress up for him and I may as well have been a lump of clothing on the floor. I don't ... (121 words)

Am I...genuinely a good guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This is gonna be a very long post, so I seek your patience and understanding. Let me provide some background information first. I am 24 this year, moving into the last year of university in a tough course and doing reasonably well. I am the only child in the family which, un... (820 words)

I pay all the bills. He buys the food. Is he using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age - I have been dating for almost 3 years, He has a 14 and 21 year old. I have a 16 year old. my boyfreind has been living with me for 2-1/2 years. I pay all of my bills he buys the food he wants me to cook and thats it. he owns 160 rental properties in the area and says he ... (133 words)

Am I too scared to fall in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

- I'm falling in love and i'm scared... I've known this guy eight months and I have really fell for him. He knows I like him and he likes me too I know that much! I'm just scared i've been hurt so many times in the past i've been cheated on, lied to, and used. But with him... (233 words)

Should I go against myself and be a FWB, and enjoy myself with him and be heartbroken if he finds true love elsewhere, or do I cut my losses and run?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 and recently began chatting online to a really great 37 year guy. We got on really well, and after about a month, we met up. And got on really really well. I stayed at his and we had a great weekend together. (yes we slept together, I wanted to, he wanted to and ... (610 words)

I'm feeling a bit uneasy about him, any advice on how to cope with it?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have been with my bf for 21 months and things are great, he treats me well and we love each other very much. I only have 1 problem and i need some advice on how to get over it. I go out with the girls every second weekend or so and get drunk and have a good time and it... (248 words)

I don't know if we're staying together, breaking up, working on it or what! Feedback, please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 28 year old female in a relationship with a 36 year old man for a little over a year now. He has 2 children, a daughter 3 and a son 14. He also had been previously married to his daughter's mother. I have no children and have never been married. When we first started out ... (499 words)

Any tips on being a good Muslim wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, does anyone know any tips on how to be a good muslim wife? thanks.... (15 words)

Has my husband blown me out for his son? AmI being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really confused, my husband and i live seperately, are still married and still love each other very much. At weekends when my children 15, 12 and 10 go with their dad, i stop over at my hubbys house, we watch Dvds, curl up on the sofa together and i usually stop the night ... (183 words)

Is he building a friendship or looking for more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy through a male friend 3years ago.he stays in another part of the country.he's visited me twice. ever since then,we ve been communicating but d communication reduce 4 a while.but recently,he often calls me durin d day 2 ask about my welfare.he has also develop d ... (132 words)

Can a muslim where a scarf to cover her hair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,im really passionate about being a hairdresser and beautician but i was wondering if your a muslim and you want to wear a scarf to cover your hair,can you?thanks.... (29 words)

Is having sex with prostitutes a bad idea when you're a beginner like I am?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - is having sex with prostitutes a bad idea when your a beginner like me? ive only ever had sex with prostitutes because i cant get girls any other way. they have no interest in clubs, pubs or any where else, there always horrible to me and call me names in rare cases they attack ... (361 words)

How can I improve communication with my girlfriend? Right now it is all a physical relationship, but we need to learn to talk to eachother!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

17 June 2008 (M)

- I've been with my girlfriend about six weeks. Without doubt, what's best about our relationship is the physical aspect. When she is in my arms we seem to melt into one another and my mind floats away. When we wake up together naturally entwined I'm at such peace that nothing ... (246 words)

My best friend has a boyfriend and I want one, too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

17 June 2008 (?) age - My best friend has recently gotten her first real boyfriend, and im really happy for her and i love seeing her cuddle with him cause hes really sweet and a great guy, but there together for all of recess and lunch all the time! now its not that i dont get enoguh time together ... (195 words)

My 40 year old partner has a 21 year old 'friend' that he wont give up and it makes me really unconfortable!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner of 6 years has just finished a Law degree and uni. In his last year he bacame close friend with a girl on his course. She is 21 and he is 40. She has a boyfriend with whom she lives. I looked at his mobile in November of last year and found that while studying a... (466 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm only with him for sex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there a way to decrease a persons sex drive? I'm horny all the time and it's causing tension with my boyfriend because he thinks I'm only with him for sex, I want to prove him wrong.... (37 words)

I recently found out that at the beginning of our relationship my husband was still seeing his ex. Now, even though that is in the past and he is all mine now, I cant seem to forigive him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeease someone help me. I desperately need advice, help and some perspective. I got married last month. Before we married, my husband and I were seeing each other for little over a year. My husband is younger than I am. He is 25. My husband was in a ... (737 words)

I like my cousin. He has a girlfriend. I have a boyfriend. So...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 14. ok so i have this big problem. i like my cousin. i know that he like me too. we have kissed already. but i have a boyfriend. and he has a girlfriend. wat should i do?... (39 words)

Something I might regret later?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i have a thing with this guy; were like really close and all but he wont ask me out cause i'm moving in august =/ and we have phone sex sometimes but now that we started to hang out more we get more "physical" . if you know what i mean. i really want to . but it almost f... (91 words)

My man isn't romantic. He just doesn't get it! What do I do?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - DEAR CUPID. my man is not romantic. he is too stiff 4 me. i try many ways to change him but it just inclined a little. he just doesn,t get it. i try giving him pleasure but he doesn't take it to the extent i presume.wat do i do?... (49 words)

My sister's boyfriend kissed me. What should I do?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 years old. i have a sister that 18 that talks to this guy thats 21. he treats my sister like his own sister. he gets her anything she wants. a couple of days ago he went to my house to see my sister. he told me to stay outside with them. then suddenly my sister left us ... (188 words)

My paranoia about her male friends broke us up. Now I really want her back.

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17 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - About 5 weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me, telling me that my paranoia about her male friends and my possesiveness were the reasons, we've only ever argued about that in a relationship of nearly 2 years and have otherwise been totally happy. She told me she wanted some ... (322 words)

Should females tell their male partners the truth about their sexual past?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I read loads of questions about this and seen it myself with a freind, Should females not tell their male partners the truth about their sexual past? if they're going to freak out what's the point? My workmate once boasted to me about how many b/f she had and one night stan... (87 words)

What about sex in a pool with a condom?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Does chlorine actually kill sperm? And what's the deal with having sex in a pool with a condom? Is it possible and is it safe? And is sex in a pool even worth it? I really want to do it but I can't see it happening with a condom on..... (50 words)

Would a man get this involved if he just wanted weekend fun?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, looking for a male pespective probably more than anything but all advice/comments welcome. I have been with my bf for a year now ( we're late 30's)and live an hours drive away. We have wonderful times together, great sex life and laugh a lot but because of work patterns ... (316 words)

What do you think about a guy who dumps his girlfriend because his friends do not like her? Is this not wrong?

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17 June 2008 (F)

- How important is it for guy's friends to like their girlfriends? If your friends do not like your gf, would you dump her just because your friends do not approve? I can understand if a guy dumps a girl because his friends don't like her due to her treating him badly, or so... (191 words)

How do you spot a guy who wants to use a girl for sex? Also, why would they pick a hard target??

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17 June 2008 (F)

- I always thought that if a guy was gona use a girl for sex that he would try sleeping with her on the first date and if he didnt get anything, he would turn away and she would never hear from him again. But now I'm thinking maybe guys who use girls for sex, try a bit harder? Is ... (192 words)

I want to have an affair but I don't know where to look for someone else?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been having problems and he never gives me attention. I want to have an affair but I dont know where to look for someone else. Any advice? I cant go to a bar becasue I am 18.... (42 words)

My sisters husband forced me to have sex

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i lost my virginity at age 12 with my sisters husband. i dident want to but he forced me. know i dont know if to tell my sister wat happend. wat should i do?... (34 words)

I know he's not single anymore... but my mind is sort of foggy about this

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Over the spring break I began hanging out with an old friend and we began talking on the phone and texting and what not. I began to like him and I was going to tell him but the thing is, he's my friends ex so I never really told him. About a month and a half later I find out by ... (310 words)

I haven't played soccer in a while and have no idea what to expect

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm planning to be on my varsity soccer team at school... I haven't played soccer in a while and have no idea what to expect...I feel like I'm analyzing it too much and it will be fun, but I'm really nervous. I'm not sure what to think. any advice?... (53 words)

My period's been on for 3 weeks and the doctor finds nothing wrong!What's happening to me?

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17 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Is what I have the opposite of amenorrhea(absence of menstruation)?My period started last year in June and has never been irregular until May 23rd.That was 18 days after my last period.My mom saw nothing wrong. I told my mom on the 5th that my period has been on for 12 da... (122 words)

He has a gf but I got attached to him when he came on to me when drunk

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a good friend from a class. He has a girlfriend and I never ever thought of dating him or even liking him in that way. We were only friends. Then one night he was supposedly, very drunk, and he started texting me saying how he wanted to have sex, ect. I didn't really ... (163 words)

I'm not ready for sex but should I have let him do it between my boobs?

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17 June 2008 (F) age 26-29 - I'm still a virgin but my bf really wants to have sex with me. I'm not ready but I do love him so last night I let him talk me into having sex between my boobs (boy is that messy). Will a guy be happy with something like that or is he just going to want more? He seemed happy ... (75 words)

Should I call him, to see if he's sorted his head out yet, or should I leave it longer than a week?

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17 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - its been a week since i broke up with my boyfriend, and it was a strange ending, don't really know what went wrong. i haven't heard from him, but i talked to his mother, she said he has stayed in and kept to himself. he hurt me really bad when we broke up, and said some hurtful ... (98 words)

Is there any way you can tell your boyfriend loves you?

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17 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Is there any way you can tell your boyfriend loves you? I know i love my boyfriend and im pretty sure he loves me but is there any way you can tell for sure so im not just assuming it. thxx for any opinions!!!... (46 words)

Do you think it's okay for a 19 year old to party till late or travel to a different city with friends?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to know your opininon for the following question 1) Do you think its okay for a 19 year old to party out with her friends until late in the night (say about 3 am) 2) Does she have the right to plan a trip with her friends to a different city? Aren't 19 year ol... (68 words)

Help, I just don't know what to do anymore!

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17 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I've been depressed lately about a lot of things. In my home, everyone keeps to themselves. I don't see my friends a lot because they live across town, and my relationship with my girlfriend is definitely weighing on my mind. My girlfriend doesn't want me to meet her ... (223 words)

Is he just biding his time with me?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I live together. Sometimes I think he talks to other women or isn't as interested in me as he says he is. He gets distant and I feel so uncomfortable. Some days he is so loving and other days he gets distant. Is he just biding his time with me? He talks about ... (67 words)

Sex or money??

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, would you rather have a person that has good money that can support you but suck in bed OR have a person that pleasure you so good in bed that you can't help but be with them but they ask you once in a while if they could help you with a bill or do you need some money for ... (62 words)

Guys, why do you flirt when you're not interested?

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17 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Can any guy answer me one question? Why do you flirt with girls if you dont have any feelings, other than a friendship, for them?? I swear every guy does this. Is it a way to give yourself confidence or what?? Because in the end you hurt the girl by giving her hope she has ... (94 words)

Another girl bought my boyfriend an expensive Birthday gift and I feel jealous!

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17 June 2008 (F) age 30-35 - My bf's birthday was last Thursday. I didn't have much money, so I bought him 3 sets of cheap guitar strings. He needed guitar strings, and he really doesn't care about quality as he always ends up breaking them anyway. He himself doesn't like buying expensive ones... anyway. ... (358 words)

How can I pleasure him more in bed?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have good sex. I just want to please him more. I'd like to return the favor in bed. I just want to know better positions and moves he might enjoy more. Can any one help me please. I hope I don't seem to despearate I would just like to pleasure the one I love ... (60 words)

I have recently fallen for my neigbours wife after knowing her for over 20 years!

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17 June 2008 (?) age - My neighbor and best friend married a girl 22 years ago. A few months before the wedding I chanced across his fiance on the beach. We sat and talked for 4 hours. One of the topics was that she and he could never "talk". Over the years, whenever they've had problems, and ... (413 words)

I can't seem to find a girl, please help!

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17 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ive always had trouble with girls for as long as i can remember. i have no social problems, but everytime i talk to a girl or anything, it just never works. i dont see anything i can be doing wrong, the girl just never likes me. im starting to think its just because im not ... (98 words)

I came home late for the first time and now he's mad at me!!

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf is so mad at me because I went out a few days ago and came home very late...like 6am! However, it was very innocent. My friend and I went to a club. Where we went the clubs don't close til 5am. And also this is my 1st time ever staying out that late. Him, on the other ... (90 words)

I let the love of my life go and didn't even realize it.....

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I let the love of my life go. I knew there was a better opportunity (work) for him and decided to take myself away from the situation so that he would go and realize that he really did love me and want to be with me forever. HUGE MISTAKE!! He now has moved on and doesn't want... (118 words)

I'm 14, should I write to convicted felon?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I am 14 and I have a very close friend of the family that has been convicted of a sex crime about a year ago. The girl on the internet was posing to be a 13 year old girl. The same age I was. Anyway. I look at him as my brother. And I guess he looked at me as his sist... (221 words)

Do gentlemen prefer blondes?

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17 June 2008 (?) age 41-50 - In a guys opinion, do you like blondes or brunettes more?? I know every guy is different but since blondes are less common than brunettes do guys find them special in any way because of that?? or do you guys prefer a girl with some other color of hair?... (49 words)

I think my friend wants some space, how can I let her know I understand that?

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17 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi people, I want to apologise to one of my best friends. She means a lot to me, we worked together all year at uni and we seemed to form a very strong friendship quickly. During this time we went out a couple of times for lunch etc. We talked on msn everyday without f... (196 words)

First time sex, any tips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

17 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and we both love each other more than anything. We do everything for each other. We're both virgins, and recently, we decided to have sex. But when we tried, he didn't really know what to do / where to go in.. and whenever... (105 words)

Confession from my Ex has left me wondering if we can make a go of it again?

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17 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey All, Just in need of a bit of advice.. 2 weekends ago i went out on a night out with some friends, into the night i bumped into an ex - who i dated for 5 months. we were in love, but we just didn't continue the relationship as he was going through a bad time and i was alwa... (309 words)