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My ex may have cancer; I want to be supportive, but not in the way she wants - what can I do for her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - I just broke up with my girlfriend about a week ago. Just a few days later she went to see a doctor in regards to a lump inside her vaginal area. After doing so, they are doing extra tests because they are worried that there is cervical cancer. Now, I know we are not together... (297 words

I'm not sure if he sees me a friend or girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i fancy a guy in the same year as me, hes really nice and we are good friends we are both the same age (18) but im not sure if he sees me a friend or girlfriend.... whenever i put myself down he always says something nice, like ill say im ugly and he says no have confiden... (145 words

She's pregnant with her ex and I'm going to prison in July. How should I tell her I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - HELp!!! I've known this girl for 14 yrs. we've been pretty good friends. In the past 4 yrs we have lost touch. she's had a boyfriend then and I was married. My wife cheated on me so we are going through a divorce and around the same time my friend's bf cheated on her also. I... (160 words

Should I leave him, he a child with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - am in a relation ship for the past six years i do love my bf there isn't anything i would not do for him u see we have a long distance relation ship and everything was going well i would often save up for my vacation and spend it with him you see where he is he is illegal ... (332 words

I found out my fiance of 14 years has just slept with his cousin - can they be charged for incest??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - i have just found out that my fiance of 14 years, has just slept with his cousin - who he has been re-united with after 20 years. i am very hurt and sickened and want to know if they can be charged, by Law for Incest. Please advise... (50 words

My question is, is my friend wanting more or just being flirty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - My issue is with a male coworker. I don't know what to think. I initially worked with the company, left, then came back 5 years later. When I was there initally, we were good friends and joked around alot. He even came to my wedding reception with his wife. When I came back to ... (380 words

Does he truly want us to be friends or just seeking "benefits" again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - there is this guy who i hooked up last year. i considered us to be friends although i had only known him for a week he was always really nice to me. i liked him but found out that he only wanted to have sex with me but i didnt let him. i guess he got mad and stopped talk... (156 words

Why does this happen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - i am a man in his 20s and was wondering why whenever i feel the horniest before sex i perform the worst?... (22 words

Are chavs victimised?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - are chavs victimised do you think?... (6 words

Jerry Spriner moment, sisters ex run off with brothers ex, what do we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - This is so twisted it is Jerry Springer deserving, but we hardly look the part.... 2 years ago my brothers wife D, divorced my brother for the second time. She took the 5 year old son with her and moved 8 hours away to her parents in Missouri. The oldest son refused to go an... (232 words

I need to be with him as he is always in my mind but he is not single...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - There is a guy that i am totally in love with, first thing i thik about in the morning, last thing at night and all throughout the day. I know what i feel is real and it is not going to go away. He has a girlfriend but i think he likes me... What do i do because i need to be wi... (94 words

Once we were inseparable, how did it turn out to be this bad in the end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Oke.. I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago.. We have decided to stay friends.. but he just isn't being a good friend.. Whenever he calls me.. He normally talks about sex.. and sometimes even wants me to "talk dirty" with him, whilst he masterbates on the p... (221 words

I get horny during my period. My boyfriend won't...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone quick question when im on my period i get super horny and i want sex but my bf wont have sex with me bc im bleeding how can i convince him 2 have sex with me? plz can anyone tell me what 2 do he wont go into the shower with me when i want sex bc he doesnt want our ... (96 words

It's his ex. And it's his ex. And it's his ex again. I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Argh, I am so confused and there probably is not answer, but maybe someone can share something? I began dating my boyfriend casually, we live in separate cities and so communicated alot through email and sending things in the mail and stuff. He was still very involved with hi... (1005 words

My friend has an eating disorder and I don't know how to help her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - A friend of mine has been struggeling with an eating dissorder for 3 years. Ive known her since grade school and it hurts me to see her this way. The only thing is she doesen't know that I know. Her Ex boyfriend (current at the time) came to me because he was worried about he... (151 words

Now my best friend has a boyfriend she treats me like crap. I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - My best friend has now got a boyfriend and she now treats me like crap. I just dont know what the hell to do. When me and her are together were happy and laughing and enjoying life and university but then when she gets home and gets online to talk to him suddenly its like im ... (204 words

Bi-BF! What do you think I should do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - ok so... i meet this amazing guy and hes relly nice and everything, but then he tells hes bisexual and that he wants to have a three some- whilst hes been 'done' by another guy and hes 'doing' me!! i no it sounds strange but the thought turns me on... though all my friends say ... (70 words

How can I convince her to stay with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Where I live circumcision is uncommon and most girls think it's disgusting. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months now and we had talked about having sex soon. I know that she will find my circumcision disgusting, and I'm worried she might tell other peopl... (103 words

FWB, but now I'm falling for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hey Um I have a question about emotions and sex etc. I have been friends with a guy for about a year, we started sleeping together a few months ago and both agreed there were no emotions involved and it was JUST sex. I have been happy with that but recently Im worried that... (154 words

I don't feel anything any more, good or bad.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - How do you know its over and move on? We have been married 20 yrs 2 teenage children. And I am alone... For 20 yrs there is a constant accusation of there being someone else which there never was. He is the type to show affection and I have tried to tell him I need more ... (245 words

What can I do to recive more attention then what he is offering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age - Iam a 44 year old attractive woman. I am in my secound marriage, and the marriage is going to be 5 years. I dated my present husband for a year before we married. He is also 11 years older then I. Over the past 5 years I have seen a decress in our sex life as well as he giving ... (595 words

What should I do since my mom won't listen too me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - Recently my mom has had the city inspecter tell us our grass what too high-wich caused stress on my mom then our car has gotten all messed up and shes stressed out about that.And she has been snarling at me so much and using it as a exuse too be pissy. She never listening too ... (124 words

My friends keep pressuring me and she's not worth the wait!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I've been talking to this girl that I met online for more then 4 years now, and practically our relationship is maxed out. But she lives in a different state, and I've never met her. Yet we really really want to meet, we don't talk anymore because there's too much suspense ... (209 words

Will my second time hurt as much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have lost my virginity recently, and i found it quite painful. Im going to have sex again soon, so i was wondering if my second time will hurt?... (29 words

How can I know for sure if my boyfriend is just testing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - How can I know for sure if my boyfriend is just testing me? We have been together 3 1/2 years and have a pretty good realationship. We've discussed having a threesome, swapping or even allowing eachother a weekend to ourselves to do what we want. In all honesty I'm inte... (345 words

How can I live with him happily when the nightmare of him cheating is still is fresh in my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - When my husband and his ex(a woman he had sex while being married to ME)sketched a smile in between them I was watching.This made me go mad and the horor once I was terribly sick of it started rewinding in my mind.I still hate him for this reason.He having sex with another ... (116 words

How do I tell my boyfriend how to give me an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, well i have lost my virginity back in april just gone and have only ever had sex twice with my boyfriend at that time, he never made me orgasm through sexual intercourse but i had slight orgasm when he rubbed my clit and gafve me oral sex.... i know i can experience full... (133 words

Should I ask my msn friend out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - im 15 years old im incredibly shy and i really like this girl.i met her through myspace and ive metup with only once im not sure how she feels about me though.we talk alot on msn and text alot too.how can i tell if she likes me?and should i ask her out?... (54 words

Why do girls always say I only want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've been reading a lot of books about relationship, confidence, how to think positive etc... Those books changed my life. I've became more social, self-confident and more of a people person. I seem to be getting the wrong idea out though. I invite girls over for diner t... (255 words

Is surpressing your sex urges bad for your health?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi My husband and me are having some problems in between us.It has been a month or two since he does not satisfy me sexually.When I need the urge to have sex I just swallow the thought.Would this cause any problem to my health?... (45 words

We had a fight and now he has gone-what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone so this sucks me and my boyfriend have been dating for alomsot a year and this has been the worst fight weve ever had bc he wanted a blow job and i wanted sex so i threw a fit abt how it wouldnt b fair tht he got off and i didnt so he started to throw a fit abt it ... (263 words

Mum pays more attention to sisters boyfriend than she does to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm so angry and hurt!! My sister is sick, she got some stomach virus from her bf. We share our bedroom. The thing is, she was very sick, and so was her bf. They've been dating for a month tops. And he's much older, she's 21 and he's like 31 or 32 I don't know. And just a... (371 words

Why are woman attracted to players?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - Why is it guys that cheat and womanise, become even more attractive to women, ain't it kind of encourage other guys to cheat? are women reaping what they sow?... (29 words

After you lose your virginity does your cycle gets thrown off course?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've heard that after you lose your virginity your cycle gets thrown off course, I was wondering how long is too long though? It's been 36 days since the start day of my last period, and 19 days since I lost my virginity. My periods usually range from 24-30 days which is fa... (82 words

How can some guys be so cruel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - How can some guys be so cruel. I know this girl who was telling me about an incident that happen three years ago. She said she went to look for a friend who was working in a mall. she said both of them were walking looking at pictures and she said she didn`t realized that the ... (247 words

My friend has gone a bit 'metal' and I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5796 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, i'm really worried. i started college and met this guy (as a friend) he seemed really nice. call him J. we ended up being quite good mates.recently though he told me he liked me more than friends. i didnt feel the same way at all and told him this, because i was just sta... (162 words

Should I let my wife sleep with other men because I sleep with other women?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - Actually i like sex and i am having sex with many girls. one day my wife has seen me during sex with another girl. that time she did not say anything but right now she has also staret to have sex with her male guys. she do the sex in front of me and i am unable to say to her. ... (95 words

I'm pregnant with his baby and it's illegal. How to tell my parents without them turning him in?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, this is an extremely complicated issue. I've been dating my bf for 2 monthes now, and we've been having sex. We ended up having unprotected sex and I've found out that im pregnant. The thing is I'm 17 and he's 25 and in North Dakota it is illegal for an adult to have sex ... (99 words

Sexual position and pains.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - HI..When my boyfriend and I have sex in most positions its great..however when he enters me from behind i always get a really sharp pain and have to switch positions..any ideas as to why this happens? Thanks! ... (37 words

I want a baby but I have no boyfriend and am only 12.

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - i want a baby but im only 12 years of age. im a single,im good with babys i baby sit my cosin 2. i feel like im ready, but am i. how can have a baby without a boyfreind.... (41 words

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - ive been on cerezettte pill now for 9 months and have been wit my boyfriend for almost a year we r brilliant 2gether and hav talked ahead off rselves. althogh i 4got to take my pill 2 days ago n had unprotected sex twice that nite and am now worrying could i b pregnant ?? ... (64 words

Is this real oral sex (or just cheating)?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - hey If a girl give you oral sex in condom is that a real oral sex or not.... (18 words

I am so confused. He thinks we should take it slower. What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age - I have meet a very geniune guy,we have been communicating via the internet, sms and phone calls, we got on very well, as we live far apart,5 months later we arranged to meet, the entire weekend was like fire works, two days later, he travelled all the distance again and we had ... (127 words

Why did we break up? Does he really feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Let me give you some background first. We met and spent everyday together and because of our jobs we moved to different states. We talked everyday and rarely fought. My boyfriend of 5 months and I broke up yesterday. He told me it was because he didnt love me anymore and he ... (256 words

We are now at the stage where we just don't have sex, my wife says she cannot explain her lack of libido; I do not know how to save my marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi I am a 29 year old man and i have been with my wife for 5 years married for 3 of them. We have a little girl who is nearly two and we both dote on her. Just after we were married our sex life appeared to change dramatically, I understand that the honeymoon period normally... (476 words

I don't understand why she left everything... I need your help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - this weekend my girlfriend and i broke up out of the blue. we have known each other for a while but have only been together for a couple of months. i met her at work and a few months later we started being intimate with each other. you see she had a boyfriend at the time of 9... (1064 words

Spotting, but I'm not due for another 10 days. What's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F - Today on the loo, I noticed blood in my knickers or 'spottin' which was a browninsh colour. I am not due on my period for another 10 days. I last had sex 1 week ago and noticed I bled a little afterwards. This was unprotected sex. My last period was normal and I have recently ... (114 words

I can't trust him. Do leopards ever change their spots?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, i need some advice on what to do. i have this boyfriend, we've been going out for about 18 months, and its not exactly been easy :( he cheated on me right at the start of our relationship, i forgave him. then he told me he was still in love with his ex, but that he didn... (396 words

I'm desperate for sex with my boyfriend - how do I approach him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi..am going to meet my boyfriend with a surprise visit in coming few days...and the guy i'll be dating is very busy these dayz...and don't even have time to sit and rest even...however..i know once i reach him....he won't deny for a date with me.atleast for few hours But th... (114 words

If she likes me, why won't she go out with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - i really like this girl at school and she's told me she really likes me so when i asked her out she said no so im a bit confused.Why did she say now after she said she really likes me?... (40 words

She sees another guy as well as me. Should I put up with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Well, I'll just start off by saying that me and this girl have had a very long history (went to highschool together/played in a few bands together) and have known eachother for about eight years. Well the other night she came over to my house so we can play guitar together ... (354 words

How can I come to accept that he lied to me about his age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 23 and my bf and I have been together for 5 months now. I've always thought he was 38 but some weeks ago I discovered he is actually 42. I had my suspicions so I took his ID while he was asleep. Then I wrote a note and left. When he discovered this he was a... (309 words

Is a compromise possible here? I love dogs - he doesn't.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi I have a great relationship with my partner, but there is one huge thing we disagree on- dogs, and as time goes on, we realise we are both not budging on the subject! I have always had a dog since i was born, i was raised around many animals both of my parents are anim... (411 words

I don't want to play his games, but I love him. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married to a wonderful man for 7 years. He is a great husband in all areas, except one: he wants to swing/have an open relationship. He's had them before with previous girlfriends, but didn't mention anything about it before we were married. He has even laid out ... (97 words

Is it to late to say, I have made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I split up with my boyfriend after a year because he always put me down and I was fed up with the arguements.. He was really upset and said he would change if I gave him another chance but I was unsure and so had to think about it. I'v now realised how much I miss him but when ... (93 words

I am only 12, but look much older. Should I tell my 21 year old girfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - i recenty met a 21 year old girl and we really like each other only problem is im 9 years younger than her(i look a lot older than i am)should i lie about my age or should i tell her that i think we should just be friends until im old enough.If i should tell her i think we ... (68 words

Not sure if I amd with my B/F for the wrong reason's!! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, we live together. I constantly have doubts whether he is the one for me. I do not feel as though we have a deep connection and am envious of other people's relationships. We often argue over silly things and i feel as though i try to ... (176 words

Should a break up be over something big?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - How do you 'know' when its over in a long term relationship? Is it a bad idea to break up because of a loss of the spark/feeling attracted to other people (i.e. normal kinds of relationship issues) or should it be something more substantial, i.e. lots of arguing, grown apart ... (103 words

Can I forgive my husband, for the awfull thing he did?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - This is the most bizzare situation I have been in and I am in the brink of loosing my mind. I have with my husband now for 9 years ( 2.5 years married) we are about to have our first child together. Unfortunately during blood work the doctor told me that I had an STD. I never ... (106 words

Really bad crush! please advise.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5797 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay so i've loved this guy for 3 years now and i don't think he knows and he won't care either. What am i supposed to do? i look at his picture and cry all day long.. i can't take it anymore.. its like suicide.. i love him.. what am i supposed to do?... (54 words

Am I still a teenager? even though I am 20

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - i just turned 20 and a lot of people call me teeny(as in teenager).So i was wondering are you still considered a teenager if your 20?... (26 words

Is he using me to get back at his Ex? I don't know what to do, please help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F - Hi, about two weeks ago I started going out with a guy my age (we're 17). Things went pretty quickly from day 1, but we still haven't had sex due to us not ever really being alone together. This doesn't bother me. Anyway. He's not exactly popular with the ladies generally, and ... (252 words

Should I stick with my boyfriend of 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend of two years has been withdrawn from the university. i'm presently serving at an oil company. my parents are trying to reject him for his problem. we want to get married but i'm scared he can't take care of me or i'll become a liability to him. should i leave him ... (56 words

He says I should turn a blind eye to his cheating, is he right?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - i have been with my bf for 3 years, i knew he has been cheating. we have discussed why do men cheat? and he answered that man can have sex with other women but not having any feeling for them, so i should not get upset. as long as he is nice to me, it is okay for him to cheat ... (340 words

Went on a date,we were intimate, its been two days and no word, is he interested?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met a guy, weve been on a kinda date. talking lots , drinking wine and end the end of it we got intimate. The night was amazing, we got on with lots of things in common. He would make references to the future like when u see my flat... and il take you to xxx one day etc. ... (198 words

What's the recipe for living 'happily ever after'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Can I ask if any of you had broken up with someone for some reason. Moved on...then met him/her again after a while and decided that he/she was the one for you? Did you guys live 'happily ever' after that? Note - u're the one who did the break up... (50 words

Should I trust the Rhythm method?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have recently decided to come off the pill after years of being on it because I am trying to adapt a more healthy lifestyle and dont like the idea of all these stuff interfering with my body's natural system. When my husband and I have sex he always pulls out (even when I was ... (181 words

Is he letting me down gently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy who i 26 and im 31 we work together...he has come out of a long relationship around 3 months ago and i think he still has feelings for her because she ended it and he has anxiety issues..im also coming out of a relationship but its my choice... Anyw... (232 words

What is Karma..? Can someone please explain this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi guys, this my sound like a silly question but, can anyone explain to me what Karma is, i knew this guy in the past and he use to say this to me, sometimes two people are ment to be together no matter what, its karma, faith....an unexplained feeling... can someone cla... (67 words

Everytime I have sex it feels like I want to pee!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - i don't know what's wrong with me.. every time i have sex. it makes me want to pee, it's strange i know , but does anyone know what's wrong with me? i have tried going to the loo before... but that doesn't help... please help... (45 words

We broke up 3 months ago, I saw her last night and now I can't get her off my mind...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi All, my ex girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. After the first 4-6 weeks of feeling horrible, I started to be ok, still sad, but I was coping well I thought. I found out she'd been on a few dates with another guy, and after the horrible 2 mins of thinking about it, I ... (216 words

Family problems coming between my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ive been seeying my boyfriend for the last 6 months, hes the most amazing guy and we have always had such a close relationship. Just recently ive had family problems which have been really upsetting me, its put me into a bit of a situation where im upset alot of the time.. ... (145 words

I want what me and him have to last but I can't go on like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok.. So I'm talking to this new guy who will go by Josh, and I mean he's really nice and sweet and everything.. But he seems over-mushy (babe you're so cute,I miss you,etc.) And at first I loved the attention, but now it just seems fake and the words have lost their value. ... (74 words

Have I made a mistake getting married?

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5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for less than two years, its been a rocky road to be honest, i had my doubts prior to marriage, but just put it down to nerves. My husband is the quite sort and does not like to socialise that often, i love to meet people and socialise. The thing that i... (172 words

I'm inexperienced and there's an older man on the scene!

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5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am so confused right now...I am 20 years old and have never had a real boyfriend , kiss, or anything! It is driving me nuts because I have recently met an older man he is 28 and he has more experience then me and we have been hanging out and talking on the phone everyday and ... (91 words

I broke up with my BF a month ago and still feel sad. What do I do?

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5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm in my 11th grade..Broke with my bf 1 month ago..During the days of our relationship we thought we'd always B one..!!But fate changed everything...its been a long time since i haven't spoke 2 him nor text ed him..my heart still feels the pain of my breakup...I'm not able 2 ... (90 words

How do I eat out my girlfriend?

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5 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - I've been dating my gf for over a year now. I want to eat her out but I don't know how to do it. lol can anyone help me?... (29 words

Is there a best way to break up?

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5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I want to break up with my boyfriend but I'm not sure how to do it. can someone tell me the best way?... (23 words

Is taking a shot on an old love worth the risk?

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5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am 25. My ex and I broke up about 2.5 years ago (January of 2006) we were together for 2.5 years. He did drugs (mostly weed and towards the end some pills here and there) and lied to me about them often. At least that is what I assume now but I caught him lying about 3 ... (562 words

How do I spice up giving head?

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5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - What can I do to spice up giving head? I try to switch it up with a hand job, sucks, licks, anything. But i find i get bored after awile. What can I do that will get me to enjoy pleasuring my guy? An then make it not so long. Once I'm bored i just don't feel like doing it anymo... (71 words

Is it true that what you say drunk is actually what you think sober?

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5 June 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is it true what you say drunk is what you have been thinking when sober?... (15 words

How can I get a boyfriend?

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5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - How can I get a boyfriend? I flirt with guys who I like and they flirt back, I know that a lot of guys like me so how do I get one of them to be my boyfriend? I don't know why no guy has asked me out yet. I talk to lots of guys and I like 2 guys and well I talk to one of them ... (138 words

My mind's in turmoil, I'm madly in love with an older man!

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5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old female doing UG course in a college. I am madly in love with an old man who is 65 years old. I call him uncle. I know him from childhood and he is very close to our family. In the college I am an introvert seldom mingle with oppo. sexes. Having almost n... (176 words

Just started dating a week ago, and found out she doesn't want any more children! Should I break up or try to change her mind?

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5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - Me and this girl started dating a week ago, and i do like her alot and would love for this to continue for a long time, but she already has 2 kids which i am fine with and will treat them like my own, except i always wanted a child of my own, with my DNA. But i just found out ... (122 words

Can we overcome this? He has issues with my past and my self confidence is low...

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5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I'm having a lot of doubts here. Me and my bf have been having problems. We've been together for almost two years, and we're mostly happy. But for ayear or so, there have been issues. It's about my past. I always had this "feeling" that he'd be upset when he found ou... (580 words

How do I get us started?

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5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok so me and my bf have been together for a year now and when were alone were very intamate(culding,kissing,making out)he has fingered me we have talked about having sex and both of us want to how do i get us started?... (42 words

My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!

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5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with relevant info on the ... (997 words

I blocked him on facebook but I'm still worried about my safety! Should I notify the police?

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5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - alright so there's this boy who was really socially awkward so I tried to talk to him every now and then to help him out of it. Then he asks me out through facebook so I say that I'm not interested but he hunts me down and tells me in person, I tell him straight that I don't ... (188 words

Is there any way I can stop my jaw getting sore during oral sex?

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5 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - This is a little awkward to ask, but what the hell I suppose. I really enjoy giving blow jobs to my boyfriend. I love that I can get him off that way. But I always find my jaw gets incredibly sore after a while, so I have to stop, and that's no fun for anyone. Is there any way ... (76 words

We're getting married this year, but I'm getting cold feet as he is not very affectionate, should I marry him?

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5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi, i've been with my fella for 7 yrs and we are getting married this year. I've started having second thoughts though.. can you fall out of love with someone and become just friends???? Because that's how we are, we don't do anything couple like, he doesnt like to kiss, ho... (112 words

I'm still a virgin, my new boyfriend wants to have sex, I don't know what to do , any advice?

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5 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I'm Amber. I'm twenty-six years old and I have a question about something in my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and he's a really great guy. I think I'm in love with him and he's always telling me how he cares about me. He asked a while ago ... (133 words

How can I improve my relationship with my ex? It is still so awkward!!

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5 June 2008 (F - Oh dear, hoping some people can help me out here. I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. I felt really bad about it and tried to let him down as best I could but it was hard as I think he is a good guy. We are on a committee together and I assumed we could be on good terms bu... (161 words

I don't know if I should continue to be friends with one of the girls!!

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5 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have 3 best friends. I am going to call them Hannah, Mikaela and Kelly for the sake of this otherwise everyone would get confused. One of my best friends,Hannah, has started being self centered and all she cares about is her millions of relationships. Mikaela, Kelly and me ... (126 words

Why am I always horny? Any advice?

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5 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Why do I get horny a lot I always feel horny and always wanting to send pictures of my private to girls Any advice for me?... (29 words

Should I cut my ex out of our kids lives?

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5 June 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hey, just wondering if anybody had any advice for me. I split with my ex last year and now she's starting playing silly games. She arranged to take the kids out on Sunday (I look after them) and I'd made 100% sure with her that it was fine for her to see them because I'd arra... (275 words

My ex girlfriend of two years wants to come back after seeing someone else... what should I do?

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5 June 2008 (M age 36-40 - my girlfriend that i had for almost 2 years started acting funny for a few days, so i ask what was wrong and she said nothing. she was going to bars after work for 4 hours and not call me or answer the phone. stay at work late and it seemed like she didnt want to be around ... (139 words

Teenage years...am I progressing fine?

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5 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi my name is Danny :) and i am straight:) I am just looking for some advice on sexual activites/things, ok heres the stroy; 1) Me and one of my freinds (a boy) talk alot about girls cause we are both 14 and it come naturally i think to all boys of that age, he is goin to be... (403 words

Are my pubes too long?

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5 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - How do I know when my pubes are to long? And how do girls like pubes long,trim or shaved off? Any advice for me?... (27 words

My girl friend is pregnant!

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5 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - I am 13 year old boy and i have a really big problem. i am dating a 15 year old girl and several weeks ago we staying at my house. its a long story but at the end we drank a bit and i was drunk and really horny so i had sex with her, i didnt use a condom and now shes ... (107 words

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