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*ekomus
writes:I met this girl about 2 months ago at a gym she works at. Since then, we've gotten to know each other. She's really nice, easy to talk to, and seems to be pretty much awesome. She also knows my good friend that works out at her gym as well. For about the past month, I've asked her a various times if she's wanted to hang out. Most of the time she seems unsure and says "maybe", which in girl means "no". Normally, I would get the hint and move on, but she keeps sending me signals. For example, she'll say "we should hang out this weekend", but when I invite her out, I get shut down. Also, she basically told me she thought I was cute. And, whenever I talk to her, she always plays with the flower in her right ear, as if to bring attention to it. What do all these mind games mean? Does she like me? What should I do about it?
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reader, yekomus +, writes (24 June 2008):
yekomus is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help. I kinda thought that's what I should do. If she says "we should hang out this weekend" should I reply "sure, call me"? I figure I should stop taking initiative and let her do it, maybe play a little hard to get? I hate games but there's seems to be no way around it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): I agree with the other advice givers. Back off this girl (Notice I didn't say Lady) a lady would never string a gentleman along. If she wants to date, great!! If not, the she needs to truck on down the highway, and work her game with someone else. All my prayers are with you!!
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