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writes:I am 22 and in a happy committed relationship to a wonderful man. However, I keep dreaming about contacting this guy that I used to work with. Nothing ever happened between us but there was intense flirting between us and there was an intense sexuality between us. Sometimes i really just want to talk to him again and feel those strong mysterious feelings again. What is going in?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 June 2008):
 I guess that, like you said, you want to feel "those strong mysterious feelings again", because that is very, very nice.
We all have feelings for people we shouldn't have feelings for. We're just human and were made to feel attraction for others. If your relationship is great, recognize these feelings as that, feelings only, and move on. If it is not, and something is missing, think what you will do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): Ok, i know where your coming from because i also felt like that with one of my ex´s a while back. You need to stop and ask yourself, who do you love? Sometimes your brain might tell you something while your heart tells you another. If you love the guy that you are with now, stay with him. Try to stray away from this "work friend" and focus on your relationship with the one you love.
On the other hand, if you are sure that you have more feelings for the other man, then go to him. You can´t love to your fullest potential until you know there´s no one else but that one man that can fulfill your every need.
Also, ask yourself, what if your man was having the same thoughts about another woman that he works with. Would you like that?
I hope everything works out for you! Keep strong and follow your heart! You don´t know what you have until its gone.
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