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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I get depressed about my "small" boobs...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - im 18 and just wondering if my boobs will grow anymore or if im gonna have to wait till i have kids or the next stage of my life? im a size. 12A sometimes 10A and i feel like i have the body of a 14 year old. i was a late developer didnt get my period till i was 13 but still...... (137 words

Help me make sense of my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - So i can a little confused. I dated this guy before i left for college for 3-4 years and broke his heart because i was being selfish and he wanted to follow me to school.Now i am moving back intown, and want to catch up. I dont really know many people here anymore. He is 5 ... (323 words


   

My boyfriend is still in love with his ex, but wants to be with me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months now, he was previoulsy married for 6 years with 2 little girls. He is in the process of finalizing the divorce in which he filed for but he is still in love with his ex. They didn't get along, fought all the time but he ... (126 words

Friends boyfriend climbed into bed with me, I told her, but she seems distant with me now...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi Guys, In need of some advice please. The other night i went to a friends party at her house, just a small get together with friends for drinks. anyway at the end of the night my best friend of 15 years and her mum had a full on physical fight, it all calmed down and i helped... (296 words

Teen girl not strong enough to cut contact...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 16-17 - okay, i recently got back with my ex who i dated on and off since august...we reached a point in december when we quit talking so 6 months later he contacts me wanting to talk, I was so happy without him but somehow he suckers me into talking to him again. I want to be able to ... (176 words

   

My mum caught me out trying to lose my virginity!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 16-17 - i've known my new bf for months and we good freinds and have been going out for 2 weeks and i decided to lose my virginity with him am almost 17 and been waitin for right person so i said i was stayin at a mates to my mum well she foned later and knew i was with him and told me ... (179 words

Please help us with our sexy problem...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I, who have been together for a year in a long distance relationship, have not had full sex for 3 months. We had full sex for the first time 8 months into the relationship but it was extremely painful for me. I put this down to the fact that my boyfriend is ... (479 words

In a relationship for no reason, and what do I do about my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - I was 'seeing' this guy for 4 months when he ended it with me. I now have a new boyfriend, but am still hopelessly in love with him. I think i partly started going out with my new boyfriend to spite the guy i was seeing. The guy i was seeing likes another girl more than me ... (92 words

No idea what to do about our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I just broke up a couple of days ago. We have been together for five years. This is going to be long in order to give you all the details you might need to help me. When we got together he was still in Iraq. He had went home on leave and his wife told him ... (384 words

Insanely jealous over the fact he's with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 16-17 - hey everyone Ok i have this problem kinda thing. So i really love my best friend, shes amazing, id do anything for her to make her happy, but shes straight and has a boyfriend and im bi and im in love with her. and she knows all this the one thing she doesnt know is that i s... (162 words

Is marriage worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Really stupid uestion.. But I read a lot of uestions in here, married people having affairs and asking for advice about extra marital affairs.. Why have that extra marital affair.. Is marriage worth it.. My parents separated after 26 years of marriage.. And I'm beginning to... (134 words

Has anyone any experience of dealing with your confidence levels after failing a professional qualification?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - i would like to know if there are people out there who failed a subject while doing a professional course such as doctor,engineering or dentistry???how did it go after that..did it put down your confidence level..i need help..thanks... (38 words

I've just been dumped - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - My ex broke up with me! He just did! I feel awful!!! I'm in such pain!!!!!!! HE seems so conten with the decision... it's just we'd had issues a lot of issues because he couldn't trust me because of my past and because I lied, so that made us fight sometimes and lately he'd ... (313 words

We got back together - but did he only do it for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - Iv got a problem! I have been with this bloke for nearly 3 years on and off. I thought we where very much in love and in the past have split up because of arguments but we both knew we still loved eachover! we split up and jsut recently we have tried to give it another go. At ... (145 words

I'm hurt, heartbroken and confused. I don't want the kids to feel it's all my fault.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi to everyone, im a 43 yr old woman that has been married to a 45 yr old man for 25 yrs, we have three kids together, two of them are rasied and out on there own, the third is here with me, anyway, about a month and half ago, my husband and i had a brief disagreement, and ... (399 words

Do the signs show that he's more than a really nice friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hi everyone....I wanted to find out are these signs of a guy really liking me or if he's just being a really nice friend. Well we've been friends for 14 years and we've both recently broke up with our ex's due to them cheating. We've aint talked for 4 years now and we ran into ... (132 words

He has problems and he's trying not to hurt me. Does he just need more time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing a guy who has been suffering from depression, last night after being out he texted me asking me to stay the night whilst there he said to me he liked me but wanted to protect me from being hurt and admitted he was trying to put me off him he told me he would ... (655 words

I want to tease my boyfriend down the phone. Any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - I want to really tease my boyfriend down the phone. I know it sounds silly but has anyone got ideas?? ... (23 words

Should I go further? I don't want to be a teenage dad!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 13-15 - My girlfriend have been together have been together for nearly six months now and are very happy.We have got as far as me with my top off and her with her bra undone but still have her top on. I want to go a bit further and suggest oral but i dont know how to bring it up i... (130 words

I'm worried about my size. Is it still puppy fat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 10-12 - Hi there, this is more of a health question. I am 12 years old and 13 next year, and I am worried about my size (*hears all the people reading this sigh because this is written at least 50 times a week*) I know i am not fat, but i also know that i have the biggest bust in ... (276 words

What else can I do to get over my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 16-17 - My online ex dumped me a few months back and we have being comunicating now and again. We exchange e-mails on a daily basis. A few days ago, we talked, like properly and it felt like we were "us" again. Thing is I know he's over me and I know that i'm over him but it still hu... (124 words

Bullied. Told I'm ugly. Told I'm worthless. I know I am none of that, but getting over it isn't easy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - Ok here it is. I am 17 and 18 in november. My problem is i was bullied from ages 8 - 15. I was told i was ugly, i was worthless and that no one wanted me. I used to think this girl was my friend but now resent her. i havent seen her in almost 3 years but i now know that she has ... (193 words

Advice on clamidia, please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - I split up with my partner about 6 months ago and we have started meeting up again and having sex. he found out that he had clamidia, so we both got antibiotics for it. however we had sex whilst still on the antibiotics with a condom and it split 2 days before my antibiotics ... (80 words

Can anyone explain this dream?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 16-17 - Right well i had this dream about this boy i like it went like me and him were going out togther and i was famous and i was walking and i saw he had sighed somthing saying i was fake then i was in the toliet then i came out and he was holding a cake then somone was takin a ... (109 words

I want to take our relationship to the next level, but I don't want to ruin it by being too intimate too soon

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I've recently started dating a new guy that I'm really into. We've only known eachother about 2 weeks, but I haven't been this excited about a guy since my first crush. I can tell that we're both very attracted to each other (physically, emotionally, etc.) and honestly, I'm ... (119 words

Why do I still think of getting together with these two when I hate them both so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - In january 2006 I had a few one night stands with a guy who I knew through work. We didn't work in the same building but met at a christmas party. Before this I had broken up with my ex but we had sex for a few months after we broke up. I'm in a very happily relationship tha... (240 words

How do you control jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - My problem is jealousy. I've always been a jealous person, ever since I was about 5. I'm 15 now, and nothing has changed. The main thing that makes me most jealous is when I see my friends having a great time without me. It just makes me feel like i'm not needed or wanted, ... (121 words

I have an embarrassing problem - can you help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 16-17 - Okay, this is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to me. My girlfriend, of nearly a year, and I experimented with oral sex the other day. She was amazing, I have never felt so much pleasure, but the problem is that I couldn't get, and stay, hard. Is this just ... (108 words

In new relationship - should I tell my mum?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - Hi.I go to a school with both boys and girls but with same sex classes. i have some friends who are boys in my tutor and recently the one i fancied asked me out and i said yes but now i have a bf i cant stop worrying. my parents are overprotective of me and not sure if they ... (207 words

I like my teacher, he found out and now he's constantly watching me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - Well theres this teacher in my school who a I Started to like nearly a year ago and well when a told one of my friends she told him at first I thought it was the worst thing ever but now am glad she did tell him cause ever since then hes been lookin at me and watchin me and ... (101 words

How can I deal with this annoying situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 16-17 - I'm SO sick of my Ex asshole-boyfriend asking me to go over his house, too hook up, to be friends with benefits..all this stuff. It's DISGUSTING. He won't stop insisting! I broke up with him because he's just that - an asshole with a huge ego who only thinks about himself and ... (209 words

I'm happily married - but in love with another . .

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I dated a man 5 years ago for a short period of time. I was crazy about him but didnt think he returned my deep feelings. I moved on romantically,and got married to a very lovely person after 18 months of dating. I remained friends with my old date, as he is a wonderful man. ... (173 words

We have different sexual needs. Is this normal? Is it my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (? age 16-17 - My boyfriend is 3 years older than me and yeah he gives me oral and i orgasm but he has a huge sex drive and i just dont seem to.. i'm 16. could it be that i just havent properly developed in this way yet? sex is rarely pleasurable, it hurts a bit even when i'm lubricat... (96 words

My periods started about a month ago. Should I tell my mother?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - about a month ago or something like that i started my peroids and i was a little confused as the colours changed and i wasnt sure wether it was my period or not, but i later found out that it was - i never told my mum because i just couldnt bring myself to do it...i know its ... (109 words

How will I be able to avoid looking like I've been dragged through a hedge backwards?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - hi aunts, ok i just need a bit of advice and reasurance really, but im going on a school trip soonand the boy i like is going to. People say as long as you feel confident in yourself (your outfit) then people dont seem to mind what your wearing...i am obviously going to be ... (103 words

I'm the one that makes the effort - any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - Well, The thing is i have been going out with this boy for almost two months now and it has been great! The only thing is i put all the effort into our relationship. He never comes up to me for a kiss, i always have to go up to him! I feel like i could be missing out on other ... (72 words

Am I the selfish one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi I need help, about three years ago I left my husband of 10years to move in with my present partner who left his partner of 23 years, I have four children from a previous marriage and he had two children with his partner, my husband and I had not been getting along for a long ... (700 words

What was she trying to tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 22-25 - I found out 6 months ago that a friend of mine that i have known for 3 years, that i have always liked, liked me back. But things have moved slow, due to various reasons. I thought things were just becoming clear, that we were ready to actually start dating properly, up till ... (269 words

Am I too clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 18-21 - Im finding myshelf being a clingy in my new relationship. Im trying to take up most of her free time, and I know that is not good on my part. How do I keep from being so clingy so I dont need up pushing her away? Because I have a feeling that is what im doing.... (56 words

All the pregnancy tests were negative, but I have all the symptoms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 16-17 - hiya i didnt see my period for 2 monthes and took all pregnancy tests nd blood test cum back negative but i have all the symtoms.. but now today 15th june i have seen a period but it is very light and im having lodes of pains and feeling faint and dizzy could this still be a ... (68 words

I'm 17. He's 25. People say it's "sick" or just "wrong". Is it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have been seeing a guy who is 8 years younger then me, (im 25 his 17) We have been going out now for just over 6 months, but during this time we have had alot of people tell us that our relationship is 'sick' or 'wrong'. Is it really that wrong for a relationship like thi... (80 words

We're not even engaged yet. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we practically live together. We have done since more or less day one of our relationship. Before we got into a relationship, he was renting a house off his mum but she needed to rent it out to someone else so ... (316 words

Have I made a huge mistake pushing things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years, we have had our ups and downs and had a falling out after he nearly went astray with another woman. we got back together, and things have gone quickly back (feelings wise) to how they used to be. He suggested I move in with ... (192 words

Having a bad time. My life used to be filled with friends and love. Advice please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi everyone, im currently going through a very bad time and i feel really isolated, i will start from the begining, me and my best friend had a huge arguement in march although we talk we are no longer close. my other best friend is moving away in september to the other... (446 words

What do girls find attractive in a guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 18-21 - what do girls/women find attractive in a guy? I'm going out all day with mates including lots of girls so its my time to shine. Any ideas what girls like? I know being funny is one. Thanks... (37 words

Broke up a few weeks ago, I don't want to see him and I'm always nervous I might bump into him. Please advise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - my bf and i broke up a few weeks ago. we went out for almost 3 years and now i am feeling horrible. i know we arent meant to be together cause i have had a lot of problems with him and have not been happy. so i am not regretting the breakup, but am missing the contact and ... (191 words

Risks that come with often masturbating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 16-17 - hello i have heard that when you masturbate a lot and you do it more than once a day your penis could bleed and hurt when you urinate. Is this true? And is there anything close to that which could happen?... (42 words

It's the first time I have seen (via the Net) how my ex is developing as a mother and I'm devastated that we are not together. How will I cope when the baby is born?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - i have been to counciling now for 3 weeks and it seems to be helping but today i feel devastated. I have hardly any contact with my ex who is expecting in november at all now. The only contact is seeing her post new pics on her facebook. It was her birthday yesterday and she ... (155 words

Hairy arms making me self-conscious! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

15 June 2008 (? age - I have really hairy arms. A boy in my Spanish class even commented on it. I have light blonde hair so my arms hairs arent dark or anything, thers just a lot of them. this makes me really self conscious and i find myself hiding my arms under the table a lot. I feel like there ... (88 words

Do I tell the truth to my friend's mother about the necklace my friend shoplifted?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (? age - okay so my friend shoplifted an expensive necklace a week ago and i didnt say anything, but i think her mother is suspicious,and i am going to go to her house in two days when her mother is going to be there and i think that she might end up talking to me about her suspicions. ... (103 words

My friend appears very self centered, causing most arguments in our group. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (? age - Okay so my bestest bud always feels bad for herself, even though she just gets really moody. We are both 15. I have a friend group of four girls at my school and shes constantly bitching to each of us about how she hates her life, and i know that each of the other girls in my ... (165 words

Have a crush on my best friend who treats me like dirt! Am I a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

15 June 2008 (? age - I think I have a crush on my best friend. She treats my like total crap but theres something i really like about her when im all vulnerable, but i know that sometimes she makes me feel really bad about myself. is ther something wrong with me? i cant help it we have been friends ... (86 words

Most friends in my group have boyfriends, I feel like a loner. Any tips for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

15 June 2008 (? age - I just dont know what to do. I feel like a loner and I havent ever had a real boyfriend, just 2 elementary school ones. All of the other friends in my group have boyfriends except for the girls who (no offence) have really bad senses of humour and skin to go along with it. I ... (137 words

True friendship or am I being used by a best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (? age - I have been best friends with this girl for about 6 years, but I feel as if her abilities to look at our friendship is biased. She does not seem to see things from my point of view. I'm 17 and her boyfriend hates me, he even sends me rude text messages! She thinks I'm selfish ... (100 words

Am I straight but curious or could I be gay? Please Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - Well.....I wanna straight to the point. I am in college now. I had been labeling myself as straight, but recently I have a strong feeling to my bbf. Yeah, we such a really good friends. I do love to be around her. She always makes me happy. We both are really close to each ... (219 words

How can my estranged husband be happy with someone he can't even trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have been separated from my husband for over a year and an half. We were married for 9 years and have 2 beautiful little girls. One day he decided that he was leaving. He said he was not happy. The next news I knew he was filling for a divorce. I later found out that he had ... (689 words

He has a girlfriend and isn't bothered about having another, I don't agree with that, but should I remain friends with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 205 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have been friends with this guy during our first year course. Initially, he seemed nice and genuine but as I spent more time with him, I learnt that he has a girlfriend and isn't bothered about having another. This made me look at him in a whole different light because it is ... (95 words

Should my husband be paying more towards the household?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 41-50 - I remarried 7 years ago after raising my 4 children alone for 10 years.I mananged all the bills alone for all that time with no help from my ex.Money wasn't really talked about with my second husband i just presumed he would contribute.In the beginning he didn't contribue ... (282 words

It doesn't feel like i`m in a relationship just feels like she lives with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - i have been with my girlfriend for 6 years. 2 years ago we had broken up for a whole year, cause "I" didn`t make her happy and she had found someone who did. after a few months she left this other person. then tried very hard to be with me again. i reluctantly agreed, for the ... (174 words

Can a guy and a girl really be just friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F - Can a guy and a girl really be just friends? And by friends, I mean more then just talk and hang out in the same group. I mean have a proper friendship. Can they be best friends? So far in my life, at age of 19, I havent been able to have that. Any guy I thought was a good fri... (91 words

How do I get over "just being friends"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 18-21 - Whenever I am interested in a girl and would like to date her nothing ever sparks. I always end up becoming their friend and not their boyfriend. I am shy and have never had a girlfriend before. I feel clueless when it comes to dating and talking with girls. How can I show ... (61 words

Dealing with my first prod -- Help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 10-12 - I am 12 and I got my period today. I don't know how to tell my mom thought. Me being lucky went to the bathroom and did number 1 and I looked in the toilet blood was running downt the drian. So I am not really positive if I had my period. But like 1 hours later I went back to ... (77 words

She more or less ignores me - Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 51-59 - She is waiting to be with her text man. even though they have never met. No sex just text. She writes in her diary that he is what she allways wanted in a man and feels nothing for me, It reads they will be together one day, she has been playing me along like this for 2 years ... (88 words

They're making fun of me - how do I deal with that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 13-15 - almost every one at school makes fun of me because i'm not strong,athletic,or tall what do i do... (18 words

I caught my GF in a lie but she doesn't know I know the truth -- now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 205 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - here's the situation my girl is ling or i caught her in a lie.she doesn't know that i know,she's acting distant towards me.i ask what is the problem she tells me that things at home are changing and that i'm fliping out for no reason.i ask her to talk to me and she tells little ... (162 words

What's happening here? He's got me really confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - my bf and i have been together for 5 years. During that time he has had episodes of behaving very mean and irrational especially if I go away for any length of time. It hadn't happened for awhile and then I had to go away for four days for my job and it started. He says ... (211 words

How do I get up the nerve to talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 13-15 - i'm a 12 year old boy and i'm going to high school next fall there is a girl in school i really like and someone told me she likes me a little but i just can't the nerv to ask her out... (42 words

To shave or not to shave, that is the question...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - do boys like when your vigina is shaved or hairy?? my boyfriend tells me he likes it shaved...but i domt like shaving it...... (24 words

He said he's never doing it again!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - my boyfiend went down on me last night...he said i was the first girl he ever did that to...but he said he would never do it again....he said he only did it to prove to me how much he loves me....i think its just somethin wrong wit me down there and he just doesnt wanna tell ... (79 words

My wife and best friend have stabbed me in the back... Hod do you deal with something like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - I apologize in advance for the long story. There is so much involved, I know it's not as bad as others on this site, but it feels like a tragedy to me :( We had a simple disagreement a couple of weeks ago, laughable compared to some of the other arguments we have had in the ... (564 words

I'm caught up between my best friend and boyfriend - help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 205 days ago

15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - my boyfriend and best friend hate eachother...but for some reason i think its because there attracted to each other...but they are cousins so idk...and everytime i wanna be with my best friend my boyfriend's wants me to be with him and i dont wanna go see him alone sometimes i ... (77 words

Could I be homosexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 205 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 13-15 - I am a 15 year old guy and I am in love with my neighbor he is also a 15 year old guy. When I masturbate I think about me and him having sex he is so beautiful. I only have one problem he is straight I am also straight but latey I see guys my age so beautiful.what should I do I ... (78 words

Is the 3rd time a charm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

15 June 2008 (M age 26-29 - My girl friend and I broke up twice but we still like each other. Should we try a third because I am really feeling this one?... (26 words

Am I bi or just confused and curious?

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15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - hey, i think i might be bi. you see i really really like guys but in the past year i have started getting turned on by girls (i am also a girl) but only certian girls like ones i have known for a while. an example is me and my bff (she is bi) i have known her for about 8 ... (236 words

Does this sound too desparate?

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15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - does this note to my crush sound desparate? You see I wrote him a note saying I like him. Now I'm writing a another note asking whether he likes me back Crush, Hopefully you're not annoyed I'm writing you another note.It just seems easier to communicate this way. Th... (85 words

I'm confused and worried about my first time -- suggestions?

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15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - hey, all my frinds have tryed to explane how it feels the first time you have sex alot say it hurts but some say it doesnt feel like anything. but how do i know if it would hurt me or not? i mean im not saying im going to jump into bed with a guy and hope for the best but is t... (109 words

I've got major issues - can anyone make a suggestion what I can do?

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15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - so i have anxiety. major. my doctor has given me medicine for it, and they sent me to a therapist to help me out. they both didn't work. i went to the therapist once and never went back. and then the doctor doubled my dose of my medicine. i feel like it's not working again.. i ... (201 words

It's like she lives on another planet. Is this abnormal and how do I fix it?

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15 June 2008 (M age 30-35 - My wife of five years is driving me crazy. We're both Christians but she, unlike me, is very devout and has an incredibly attitude towards all forms of physical intimacy. She isn't interested in having kids and does not believe in recreational sex. So in five years we've had ... (294 words

I'm totally confused here! Help... PLEASE??

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15 June 2008 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend almost 3 months ago. The reason I ended it is because I have a hard time with trust and opening up about my feelings. He would try and get me to trust him and open up to him. When I finally did, I felt like he didn't do the same. He told me he had ... (295 words

Can a leopard ever change it's spots?

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15 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, For the past two years i've been involved in a long distance relationship with a guy who could very well be the reason for the word 'player'. In the past I've had suspicions that he's cheated on me and a year ago he even left me for my cousin before they broke ... (252 words

Are these signs I need glasses?

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15 June 2008 (M age 18-21 - When I read I begin to get a headache come on and I need to blink excessively and my eyes sometimes water. The sun and computer screens make my eyes hurt after a while even when distanced away from me. I've begun leaving curtains closed when in my bedroom through the d... (109 words

In love with a guy but his problems are too much...

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15 June 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have a problem, I'm very much in love with my boyfriend who I've been dating for a while. He told me that he had PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) after an accident in which his close friend died. He keeps himself to himself in his own space and rarely speaks to people a... (251 words

Teen love bite drama!

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15 June 2008 (F age 16-17 - I wanted to know if your boyfriend pop up with a hickey on his neck n first he tell you its a burn then he tell you what really happen he told me that his homegirl dared him to let her give him a hicky? What should I do?... (49 words

My girlfriend doesn't want to have sex. Help please!

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15 June 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi, my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with me at the moment. Its been since last sunday that we had sex. I am really frustrated, but trying not to let it show. I asked her what was wrong and she claims that she has no sex drive. 2 days ago she told me that she didnt f... (107 words

Did I loose my virginity or am I just on my period???

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15 June 2008 (F age 13-15 - ok this is how it went down...last night my boyfriend tried to finger me but it hurted so i told him to stop, so we tried again but it still hurted...so we stopped trying...he told me my hole was too tight and it was hard to go in...i went to the bathroom and when i peed it ... (152 words

He's semi-moved in with me but I'm not so sure about it...

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15 June 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have been a relationship for 5 years and resently my bf and I have been staying with each other a lot i.e. he spends about two/three weeks with me every now and then. I have encountered a few problems while he's been with me which have given me reason to be concerned about ... (276 words

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