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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Not sure why we broke up but he wants to be friends. Should I stay in contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello everyone, I'm feeling very confused right now. My boyfriend of nine months broke it off a little over a week ago. I knew he'd been having a few doubts after attending some of his friends' weddings, but we had decided to talk things over and try to work it out. ANyway, one ... (406 words)

Pain during intercourse...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - why do i have lower pain during intercourse? its so painful i have to ask him to stop sometimes. it really sucks and i feel so bad for him what can i do?... (33 words)

Should I stay with this man for the sake of my daughter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My relationship is a mess and I don't know what to do! We've both done stupid and horrible things and I feel so bad. I have a child with him which makes it worse. His dad died and because he was depressed he slept with a woman while i was 7 months pregnant. I think that messed ... (244 words)

Are there treatments to help me thicken my hair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F) age 18-21 - Hello, this is rather embarrassing... I'm a young female, and as far as I can remember, I've had a little quantity of hair. My hair is shiny and healthy, it isn't brittle or frizzy, it's shiny a bit thin though, but it still looks nice. However, as I have such little... (176 words)

His wife told him to leave , should I leave my husband for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am so confused and really don't know what to do. I fell in love with a married man and started having an affair which ended after just 2 months because we couldn't see a future (as we are both married). We both told our partners and agreed that we would try and make our ... (156 words)

We are newlyweds, shouldnt he be phoning me while on business?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband is currently away on business/leisure for one week. He hasn't phoned me once in this time. I've sent him long emails and he only responds with short emails back. We are newlyweds and I am home alone while he is away. It feels to me that he doesn't care about me, ... (118 words)

My wife is troubled by her stretch marks, what can she do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a question for my wife.she has had 2 kids the youngest is 5. She had to have c sections with both. the problem is she has strech marks that she wants to get rid of. The c section scars are hiden but her belly is were the problem is. She is very pretty but she feels shes ... (73 words)

Could he secretly like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - When we're around mutual friends, mostly girls, we're mean to each other and play fight and tease each other. We flirt too. When we're alone, we're much nicer to each other but still flirt. When I talk about other guys I think are cute around him, he gets pretty annoyed. When ... (125 words)

My boyfriend is very arrogant and over confident, how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, My boyfriend is very arrogant and over confident , i do find confidence attractive, but hes too much so. I've tried telling him that his bragging puts me off a bit, but he doesn't think hes much of a bragger(he brags about everything!!) How can i get thr... (68 words)

I'm 12 and don't know how to finger myself.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - hi, im 12 and i am very horney i have tried to finger myself but it hurt so i just cross my legs and it feel nice , i but i feel like im not normal baeace i cant finger myself is it normal? help me plz... (50 words)

My boyfriends penis looks a bit wierd!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - ok, ive got a really wierd question: my boyfriends penis looks a bit wierd, if were facing each other, and he pulls his foreskin back, the side of his penis thats facing me has this peice of skin that comes from near his pee hole down and just blends in to become his foreskin... (159 words)

I've really fallen for my boss!! What do I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've really fallen for my boss, however, if we get together it will result in him losing his job. He's quite a lot older than me, however, i really really like him, i'm infatuated with him and he's in my head all the time. He'll make comments to me, such as, that my legs are... (84 words)

How do I go about getting a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - This is going to sound so strange... I'm sixteen and I've never had a real boyfriend. I had a girlfriend for about seven months late last year/early this year which is now a complete train wreck (I think I'm bi), but I haven't kissed a guy since I was thirteen when I ... (176 words)

What is he playing at??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - there is this lad who i am very very close friends with, although i have never i any way made out as if i like him as more than a friend. however, about 2 months ago, when i was drunk he came onto me, i said no, and we carried on as normal, then i went home and everythi... (422 words)

He's changed for the worse since we had our child, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been with my husband on and off for 5 years and we lived together most of that time we are young i moved in with him after i turned 17 and he is 2 years older well we got married about a year and half ago when i found out that i was pregnant. We have always had our ups ... (173 words)

I'm dating a virgin for the first time, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I've been dating a girl for three months now and I can see this relationship lasting for much much longer; definitely the best one I've been in so far. Something weird happened the other night however: she told me I was the first guy she ever kissed. I believe her as she's ... (168 words)

Why am I still bleeding? I've had sex three times...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - why am i still bleeding when i've had sex three times as the sayin goes the first time u have sex your sposed to get your cherry popped but im still bleeding. why?... (33 words)

I don't trust her...But I like her a lot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I've been with my gf for about 2 months now.. I'm a quite edgy person, I like to know whats happening a lot. Well i saw a msg from her mate saying meet up with me and flirty stuff. We met up with him and I questioned her couple weeks on when I found out...She tells me... (82 words)

I like him and his best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - ok so thier is this guy name jean carlo and i like him and his bestfrend but then jean carlo txted me and i told him if he could give me al;bertos number and he sed y so then i told him i liked alberto n then hes like i cant believe you like my bbf if i liked u so much so then ... (102 words)

Did he sit with me because he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Sorry if this is confusing. :P Last night I was at a carnival with a bunch of my friends, and we were in line for a ride thats like the tea cups. In front of me in line were two of my friends, we'll call them John and Mike. Behind me was another one of my friends, we'll c... (203 words)

We were together for 4 years, how can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - how can i move on? i have been with this boy for 4 years. we've broken up an d made up often during our time together. the last time we broke up, i didnt bother. i thought we were best friends still. but last night he told me has met someone else, and he likes her compan... (287 words)

Is it bad to keep painting and repainting your nails?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (?) age 16-17 - Hey everyone I don't know if any of you will know the answer to this question but every question I have asked so far has been answered so maybe I'll get lucky and someone will know this one I like to paint my nails alot and I like to change the color everyday to mac... (96 words)

How can we spice up our sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i want my man go crazy over me? give some advice on how to spiece up our sex life.... (19 words)

Is he really in love or does he just want something out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - A guy that I know says that he's in love with me but I don't really know if he's actually in love or he just wants something out of me. Basically after I told him I didn't like him he said it was okay and we should be friends, but he's always trying to talk to me or something ... (117 words)

Whenever I'm chatting or having a laugh with a boy he always gets jealous. How does one deal with the partner's jealousy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My question is fairly simple really, how do you deal with jealousy from your partner? My boyfriend is a bit of a flirt and a charmer and although I get a bit jealous when he is flirting (they always tend to be blonde and prettier than me, bummer) it doesn't really bother me ... (300 words)

I have Asperger's Syndrome so can't read body language easily, how can I tell if a girl finds me attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I'd like some help with a little problem I have, since I have a form of Autism (Asperger's Syndrome) I have a little difficulty understanding body language. My question is this, how can I tell if a girl finds me attractive or if they are flirting?... (46 words)

Has he lost interest in me, since I feel we do not spend as much quality time together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi. My boyfriend is confusing. Ever since, I had a agurument with him in the last 2 weeks it feels he doesn't want to spend quality time with me anymore then he used too. Well, he still calls me frequently [even, when he has no money on his phone] and I still see him but,... (287 words)

Husband's stress and burnout caused our marriage to shatter, we are living apart whilst he recharges his batteries. Is there any hope for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Not Sure If You Can Help But Here Goes........... I have been with my husband for 19 years, we have been through quite a lot of things in this time, 5 miscarriages,a serious accident,to name just a few. Since Oct 07 he started to gain extra stress from his job, he kept com... (355 words)

I have Asperger's Syndrome and find it difficult to spot flirting signts... any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 208 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

It is certain that the classical symptoms of pregnancy manifest in every woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - ive gotta question(or 2!): when your have sex, and u fall pregnant, is it certain that you'll get the symptoms of pregnancy (nausea, sickness etc.), and what are the symptoms?!... (31 words)

I'm scared of some of my family members!! Why am I acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am afraid of some of my family members. I don't know why. When I hear the doorbell ring or know that some of my family members is coming to my house I go straight to my room. I can't even greet them, because i'm scared. Next Tuesday my parents arranged a family get together ... (76 words)

Can anyone explain the dreams I've been having?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i am in a long term relationship (10 months)and am completley in love. recently i had his dream about my friend (we will call hm dave) who i know through my boyfriend, and my best friend, who i will call kate. who in my dream split up with her boyfriend and got engaged to dave. ... (112 words)

How can I make her see that we'd be perfect together as we share the same interests?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I fell in love with the most beautiful, talented, amazing girl in the world and well she dosn't fell the same. I love her more than anything in the world. There was a time when I thought that perhaps she loved me and it was the best moment of my life, I was so inspired to write ... (199 words)

I feel like I have never been single and had a chance to date around. I no longer feel attracted to my BF, so what can you suggest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. We were high school sweethearts and I love him very much. When we graduated we moved to college together, and are currently living in an apartment together. I always thought he was the guy I would marry, but lately I've just ... (220 words)

Why is my life like this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi,I'm 24 and have never had a girlfriend. I've only ever had sex once through an internet advert as well and the whole situation is really getting me down. It's made a whole lot worse by the fact that all my friends are in happy relationships and that I'm the only single one ... (463 words)

Girls (and guys) have you ever been used?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - has anyone ever used you to get sex when you really liked them and you thought they liked you too but all they wanted was to get in your pants? and if so how did you get over it? ... (41 words)

I think my teacher is flirting with me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I KNOW THERE'S LOADS TO READ HERE - I DIDN'T PLAN ON THIS BEING SO LONG BUT I REALLY NEED ADVICE HERE AND I'D APPRECIATE IT SO MUCH IF SOME OF YOU WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO READ IT AND OFFER YOUR VIEWS. THANK YOU! This is going to sound like the usual question from a student ... (1632 words)

How can I get over the co-worker I had an affair with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am married and had an affair with a co-worker who is single. Commitment was out of the question for both of us. It was suppose to be fun and easy, however he abruptly ended it. I see him just about every day so it's difficult not to think about him. I am now experiencing ... (65 words)

How can I tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I've known this boy for a real long time and as a tomboy, I was able to stay really good friends with him. Now that we're in middle school, I think I have a crush on him. I was just wondering how I could drop hints for him to know that I like him. I'm not really sure of his ... (92 words)

I discovered that being a jerk does not make girls like you.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I screwed up big time. A few months ago I read on some website that girls only like guys who are complete jerks. So I decided to be a jerk to a girl that I liked in hopes that she would start to like me. That was really stupid because now she sees me as just that, a jerk. She ... (76 words)

I want him to love me more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I love a guy, he also loves me but he has a friend(female) whom he cares more than me because she was already in his life before i came. That girl is divorcee n has already a kid, he says she's nothing but a very good friend of him. He says he loves me a lot but doesn't care to ... (123 words)

How can I cope with my spoiled autistic boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my partner for 3 years now and hes a great guy, hes got aspergers which is a form of autism, People with Asperger syndrome can find it harder to read the signals that most of us take for granted. This means they find it more difficult to communicate and ... (250 words)

My Ex want to be friends with benefits - what do I say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I need a couple of opinions. Lets say your ex boyfriend told you that he had sexual dreams about you. And then he insisted that you do a FWB thing and hook up. Whay would you think? ... (40 words)

I don't want to get pregnant but don't understand how it works...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i have three kind of out there questions. first can you get pregnet from swalling a guys sperm? and: if your taking birth control and your off of your period but still on that certain color can you get pregent? and: if you can if you continue taking birth control after ... (74 words)

My Boyfriend broke up with me when I needed him most...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - my and my ex have been together for about 2 years when suddenly 2 weeks ago he broke up with me because he thinks i cheated on him and that i wasn't treating him well. i just found out the day before we broke up that my grandpa was in the hospital with 3 anorisms( they are ... (149 words)

How do I get rid of this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Ahhh! My friend is driving me nuts! She is so two faced and I dont trust her with anything, but behind my back she keeps calling me fridgid and flirts with my boyfriend (who tells me this) For example today they met with a few friends and she was stroking his crotch and saying ... (211 words)

He wants to split up for uni - how do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend of 4 years has just told me that he no longer wants to go out and just wants to be friends he says this is because in 3 months we are going off to seperate universities and we decided around a year ago that when university came we would have a break but keep in ... (144 words)

I love him but he's not making it easy to stay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's note: I have combined your two questions into one.] a yr and a half ago my boyfriend cheated on me. I left him for that period we recently decided to try again. the only problem is he works 7 days a wk. then goes out drinking calls me accusing me of cheating... (173 words)

What is going on with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i dont know what to do i have been with this guy for 8 months and he seems to have less and less time for me as the relationsip goes on?? he says he is bussy in all because he works, skate boards and is tying to open hit own company? he will not let me go to his house becaus... (242 words)

My reputation is in ruins because I cheated - how do I face everyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - ok well,im only 14 but me and my bf where going out for nearly 7 months, at the begining of the relation ship wasnt very faithful to him, he found out about a few of the times that i cheated on him soon after it happened. and then for the next few months everything was fine, b... (476 words)

My ex can't get over me and I pity him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey,actually there is a guy,we both were in a serious relationship for three years . six months ago i told him that i am not intrested anymore in you. but that guy is still intrested in me.he keeps calling me and irritating me.the reason for my breakup was that he was ... (83 words)

He's not as affectionate... does he still love me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Alright, I am back everyone! :) I have a question. What are the signs that your boyfriend is not as interested or in love with you anymore? In the beginning my boyfriend was sooo happy with me, always holding me close, telling me he loved me, couldnt wait to marry me, etc. I ... (172 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me because of his friends. It's the third time. Should I take him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Well my boyfriend broke up with me cause he gave up loving me cause of his friends. He broke up this past thursday over the phone! He recently texted me and said he is getting strong feelings for me and he is going to try and see if he can make up everything and win my heart ... (113 words)

The only person who actually listens to me is a Dutch girl on the Internet. Will it ever work out with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - i've got talking to some dutch girl on the internet. we do the webcam and microphone thing all the time and i think she is the best person in the world because she is the only person who actually listens to me. the problem is i dont think she likes me as much as i like her...i ... (72 words)

What should I weigh?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok just wondering here. I'm 17, female and about 5 ft 4 - 5ft 5 ish i'm not to sure which. I'm just wondering do you know what the average weight is for someone of that age and height? Because from being about 14 i was about 9 stone and the doctors always said that was ok. Now ... (243 words)

Why does she not like this as part of me giving her oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - What is the role of the vagina in cunnilingus? My wife has taught me the techniques that give her pleasure in oral sex. However I have always been puzzled by the fact that she seems to get no particular pleasure from me insertng my tongue in her vagina (which I like to do!).... (53 words)

We're waiting for the divorce to complete. How do I get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - After 15 years of marriage, my husband told me that he didn't want to be married anymore. Now, it is important to mention I did something very wrong a cople of years ago. I deceived him and basically committed a felony. He was crushed. He cites that the reason that he left ... (168 words)

Is it because I get tired to quickly that I'm not getting properly aroused?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about ten months, and I love him alot (even if it's not romantically it's as a best friend). However, whenever he tries to finger me, i only seem get partially aroused. He thinks it's because I'm anaemic and I get tired quickly. I am ... (86 words)

Was he really just trying to use me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

- I am wondering my ex bf was trying to use me for sex when we were together. I really feel like I need to know whether or not he was with me just for sex (although I never gave into the pressure) or was there something more to it? He put alot of pressure on me for sex from the... (512 words)

He's letting his appearance go to pieces! I don't want to sound like his mother, but....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When my husband and I met 7 years ago. He was muscular and fit, not a fashionable dresser but clean cut. Now post 6 years of marriage he hates hair cuts and his hair gets fuzzy, hanging in/over his ears and unruly. He prefers to wear jeans and T-shirts (of which I weed ... (243 words)

How can I cope with the fact he doesn't have feelings for me after all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey ok i need your help to get over this because i've got to the point now where i can't cope with it anymore. How do i cope with the fact he doesn't have feelings for me after all this?? I'm sorry if this runs out to be very long i juts need some honest opinions and so you ... (965 words)

My friend said she would try to find a partner for me, but I'm feeling more and more uncomfortable. Should I end this friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I got to know this 21-year old girl in a forum over the internet a few months ago, and as she needed someone to offer her tuition, I agreed to teach her for free. And so, I would meet her regularly over the weekends to either give her tuition or to hang out with her. Grad... (441 words)

This lad says he's in love with me and wants to kiss me. We are going out soon and I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hii x i am 13 there is dis lad i av nown sice i woz 4 and he just recently told me dat he woz in love with me !! i meen i dnt even no wot love is !! he told me on msn dat he really wanted 2 kiss me ! we are goin 2 the cinema soon and i need some advise ! please h... (86 words)

I've met someone new and I need to break up with my boyfriend. What should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F) age 22-25 - I need to break up with my boyfriend of 3 years. I have met someone else and want to pursue things with him but I am not sure how to go about ending it. I have never done this before. I know its going to really hurt him because he doesn't think there is anything wrong. I kn... (220 words)

Is it possible to have sex without protection and still not get pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - is there a time when you can have sex without protection and stil not get preg?... (16 words)

My boyfriend and I are compatible in almost everything, but he is not very affectionate and has a much lower sex-drive than me. I start wonder whether this is really what I want in life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of eight years is not affectionate and will only kiss me before sex (less than once a month, he has a much lower sex drive than me!). If I try to initiate affection he recoils. I do love him very much and he always makes me laugh. We are compatible in every other ... (151 words)

She broke my heart and it took me months to get over her. Now after 9 months she texts me out of the blue and my wound reopened, what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear All..I have a major head masher...my ex and i split 9 months ago. It was messy, she told me i was the best, we made love, i kissed her as she left for work etc....then that evening, i was dumped...my heart laying bleeding...anyway, Its taken me month upon month to try and ... (126 words)

How do I sort things out with the lad who's heart I broke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i screwed up big time with a lad i like. i was goin out with this lad called ste and i decided i liked his mates brother. he had little experiance with gurls and i didnt mind as i liked him alot. after a while i thought things were goin very slow. i was on msn to my ex ste... (404 words)

He behaves strangely...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - IS MY GUY BISEXUAL OR GAY ? Dear friends, Please advise whether the following hints would make my 20 years senior guy a bisexual: 1. He stopped having sex with his ex wife, when she asked to have sex with him one night, but "he was too exhausted, just couldn't do it. ... (1099 words)

He no longer wants me now I'm pregnant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Im about 8 months pregnant and my boyfriend hasnt touched me at all during the pregnancy. At first i would ask him why we're not having sex and his anwser was "i dont want to hurt the baby" even though my doctor has told him its okay, he still wont do it. And when i bring it up ... (108 words)

How do I know if he's lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Very confused, need some help please. So my man is a tow truck driver so he works all the time. The problam is that he does impounds on the week end and is gone until about 3 am, sometimes when he gets home he smells like alchol and when i ask him why he just says that him and ... (108 words)

Should I be mad or worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I have been seeing this guy for nearly three months and everything has been great. he told me from the start that he was going on Vacation back to his home and would be gone for a month and I was cool with this everything has been great and he recently left to... (139 words)

My boyfriend and I are both really shy around each other. Does anyone have any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - dear cupid, my boyfriend and i have been going out for over a year now and we are both still really shy around each other. can you please give us some tips on how to overcome that shyness? ... (46 words)

Not in public? How do you deal with that?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend told me he doesn't like public displays of affection, how do other people deal with this? ... (18 words)

My girlfriend has started rejecting me lately but she doesn't say she wants it to be over. What is going on and how do I handle this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Okay, here goes nothing. I've been in a serious relationship with this girl for about a year and a half now, and I've been completely honest with my feelings for her. I've told her how much I love her and honestly think that she's the one for me, and up until now I've had no ... (422 words)

When do you know it's really over and it's time to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is a really general question but I don't feel I can get all the detail of my troubled marriage down in this post. It is long and complicated and I am almost tired of thinking it all through. My question is "When do you know its really really over and that now is ... (125 words)

Does this girl likes me, by any chance?

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8 June 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Uh well there's this girl who I met through a writing website half a year ago. So as an extension of collabing story with her (and along with the other 3), I got her email and we start to chat through msn. She's always appearing offline, so it's her who always messages ... (953 words)

I am pregnant and he acts like nothing changed!

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay, I'm 8 months pregnant and my boyfriend acts as if nothing has changed. I mean, we're still together I guess, and he stays at my apartment usually but lately..it's as if everything else is more important to him. I''ve always had a perfect body [ not bragging or anything... (272 words)

Creeped out when coach looks at me!

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Last winter 07-08 I had a basketball coach (I was 13/14 yrs old). I think that he liked me and now that I am playing for my high school team I saw him there watching me. What should I do? Should I be scared or just ignore it?... (51 words)

We fought and stopped visiting - now I think he is seeing someone else!

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8 June 2008 (F)

- I have a long distance relationship with my bf. I visit him once or twice a month. We are planning to move in together when we find a place, but it is taking longer than expected. Last month I had a fight with him about his phone calls with his ex. I got really upset to... (273 words)

Crush on Teacher and now I'm moving to new school!

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have this problem. I like my social studies teacher, but now it is summer vacation and I am moving on to high school , and I'll probably never see him again! In class I would always get nervous when Ia was around him, my hands would get sweaty. Now that it is summer, I hav... (93 words)

I am getting too possessive and paranoid - Help!

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I've come to realize that my behavior is rather neurotic when it comes to being in a relationship. And along the lines of that 'you can't love someone else until you love yourself' philosophy, I don't really think I can be a good girlfriend until I get over my own issues. ... (471 words)

Stuck in uncertainty - where is this going?

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and "Joe" dated for almost 4 years. He broke up with me a couple of different times, until it was final. A few months later he starts talking to me again. He said he didn't want to be in the relationship anymore because it wasn't fun any more and all we were doing wa... (203 words)

Fiancee is abroad and spending time with another guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

8 June 2008 (M)

age - Hello, This is my first post. I am emailing about my relationship with my fiancee. We have been together 5.5 years, and engaged for about 9 months now. She has been living abroad on a scholarship (grad school) for the past 4 months, and has 5 months left to go. I v... (403 words)

He thinks my sisters picture is me - Help!

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I'm a 24 year old female who has had a rough life I've been using my sisters pictures as passing them off that that's me for about a year now. She knows about it and thought it was funny. Now I've met a great guy who I'm totally in love with he knows the real me bes... (116 words)

She is not sexually attracted but loves me?

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been dating a girl for two years now and just the other day we were having a fight and she told me she wasn't sexually attracted to me at all. What should I do? She says she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me.... (54 words)

How long to wait for him to change?

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - HI, I am a 20 year old in love with a 26 year old guy. We have been together since the last 2 years. From the beginning it has been like our relationship started by him telling me that dont expect any commitments of marriage. This is my first relationship with a guy but h... (749 words)

How to get over my soon to be ex-husband?

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do i get over my soon to be ex husband? My husband and i have had a 13 year relationship. On again off again most of the time. We got back together in 2004 and married the next year. The marriage lasted only a year. He wasn't ready and he had some alcohol/drug abu... (284 words)

What are the first sypmptoms of pregnancy?

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - What is the first sign if you're pregnant? What are the symptoms?... (13 words)

Late period after stopping contraceptive pills?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 212 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been on birth control for approximately 10 years. I did not take any pills last month..right now from the date that I started my last period, it has been 32 days. My question is, by not taking my pills, would that make my period this late? ... (48 words)

Are you still a virgin after fingering?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

8 June 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have one question. If your boyfriend fingers you through your jeans, does that still make you a virgin?... (19 words)

Why does he bait me and how do I stop it?

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8 June 2008 (F)

- I almost started a relationship with a guy I worked with through volunteer work. I found out he was married and stopped things in their tracks. I still see him at the volunteer meetings. It seems I cannot win with him. He told me he wanted to speak with me at the last meeting ... (170 words)

Hot for teacher!

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8 June 2008 (?) age 16-17 - i know this question is gonna sound PSYHCOTIC(however you spell it....lol)but here goes..i have feelings for my teacher and he recently "found" out....my question is should i confront him about it one day afterschool (since this will be my last week of school)when hes alone or ... (105 words)

Do you think he messed up my relationship?

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hello. I'm just weeks away from being 17, and I'm a little confused. There's this boy, "Brian", that I've known since I was 8 years old (my first kiss and everything!) and that I'm now interested in. We tend to drift apart for awhile and then re-connect as if we never left each ... (213 words)

I'n not sure where we're headed -- do you know?

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8 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit worried about my relationship with my gf, I really dont know where it is going. i'm kinda thinking about that i would like to have children, but my girlfriend has no interest in these things. i kinda think that if i'm gonna want it one day, it's best to do it sooner ... (348 words)

Please help me with my body-image issues!!

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8 June 2008 (F) age 18-21 - Him I'm 19 y/o. I have a stupid problem, and feel so down about it :( The problem is that I'm very sensitive to the images in the media. So I feel very down about my body. I'm average I guess. I'm not really thin, but I'm not overweight. It's just I see these women with... (482 words)

I need some help understanding orgasms - help me please?

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey all bascially im just want some help. i always read about how when females have orgasms its really powerful and stuff. i used to think i was having an orgasm but recently im not so sure anymore. My friend was telling me how sex is so much better with her new bf n i was li... (137 words)

Separated wife dated and I can't deal with it! Help!!

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8 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - why cant i get over my wife dating someone when we were seperated? weve been married for 13 years, i had some withdraw problems 2 years ago when my mom died then we grew apart and she accused me of having an affair. after months of fighting my wife said she wanted a divorce ... (152 words)

I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm confused; can you help me?

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8 June 2008 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship with, and am confused of his feelings for me. He has been very preoccupied and busy with work lately, but I keep thinking he is making excuses not to spend time with me. I can be very paranoid/neurotic and last time he wasn’t contacting me ... (533 words)

My wife has an aggressive and a submissive side. Is that normal?

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8 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife... a quandry or a paradigm... she loves sex and is agressive in bed... but, she is submissive and either wants me to enter her from behind when she is bent over our bed or on her all fours in bed... what do you make of that? ...it's cool with me, but she r... (133 words)

If I ask, will he?

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8 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We're attracted to each other, we've flirted but I think he wants me to make the first move. If I tell him I want to have sex with him, will he turn me down?... (35 words)

What happens after a year?