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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The girl I love is leaving soon, how do I let her know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Look it's a really, really long story filled with pain and suffering - something I feel I created - but 2 weeks today I know I'm going to be going through a world of pain I know I can't handle. You can call me weak about it, but I'm insanely infatuated with someone and she'... (166 words)

I love my husband but want my builder

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Im confused! I am 21 and have always been very headstrong! 4 years ago i met a married man who i instantly fell for. I found out he wasnt happy in his marraige and made a play for him...it worked and i am now married to him! He worships the ground i walk on, he keeps me... (193 words)

Tempted to stray now my Bf is far away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm very much in love with my bf. We have been in a long distance relationship for about almost a month and a half, and before that we were practically living together. I just recently met a guy who i think i might have a crush on. I'm not going to pursue him because i don't ... (78 words)

17 weeks pregnant and we are over the moon! But I don't want to make love any more...but we are having big arguments over this...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 17 weeks pregnant with my firt baby and me and my partner are over the moon ablout it, the only thing is i dont want to make love any more,its not that i dont love my partner because i do very much, but were starting to have really big arguments about it because he wants ... (85 words)

Why do women like to tease men about sex??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age - Why do women like to tease men about sex? Why not just be open to their needs instead of making it such a big deal!!!... (25 words)

My partner has a split personality, will he ever change?? What should I do??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner of 5 years has a split personality. He is a paranoid, possessive boozer. I love him to bits when he is Hyde. He is the most kind, loveable, generous, entertaining, knowledgeable man. Whan he is Jeckel I hate him with a vengence. If he doesnt see eye to eye on so... (135 words)

Have I done the wrong thing by shaving my vagina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - i shaved my vagina have i dun the rong fing ive bin doin it for about 2 year and always wanted to no have i dun the rite fing... (29 words)

Older guy and a younger woman on a rebound...can it work when their families are in different countries??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

- Last year I started chatting to a man 7 years younger with the intention of friendship. He was distraught with his wife leaving for someone else, and I had left my husband so basically we hung out together, cried together etc. and we found that time just flew past as we were ... (370 words)

Do you think it's the right decision/necessary for me to know details of his affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been very contemplative about this question. I have so many questions in my head all the time that all I do is just think about them. A part of me says that I do want to know EVERYTHING (times, places, who they were with, who knew, what it felt like, what positions t... (250 words)

I have not told my mum that I started my periods and I've a school trip soon...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok so i need a bit of understandment help, a few months ago i started my periods and i never told my mum, because i just couldnt say anything really. but i am going on a school trip soon which includes an overnight stay...she has got my washbag thing ready for me with things ... (112 words)

I just don't know how to tackle him on the issue of our small age gap to find out if this is why he has become so quiet...!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya Im new to all this but I just wanted an outsiders opinion on the situation. Well theres this guy (I'll call him S) and me and my friends have started to hang around with his friends quite a bit recently and we've been having the best time the past few weeks. I've always t... (267 words)

I'm confused, I ask her to spend the rest of our lives together and she says I don't value her, what's going on in her head???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend 5 years and we have lived together for about 3. We have a daughter together. I recently asked her to marry me and she said no and said it made her feel like i didn't value her. I'm confused, i asked to spend the rest of our lives together and she ... (91 words)

She broke up with me for her ex. She broke with her ex 3 days ago. Upset!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple of days ago the girl i liked finished her boyfriend and wanted to be with me, we hung out and did alot of stuff kissing and we would stare into each others eyes. I fell for her and today just 3 days after she broke up with him she was different, like the whole day we ... (183 words)

My GF will not have sex until she is married. I don't want to cheat on her but I have my urges...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is a virgin and will not have sex until she is married. I respect her and her wishes. But I want her so bad it's killing me! I don't want to cheat on her but I have urges what should I do?... (45 words)

I always bathe or shower before as I am afraid of not being clean; it takes the surprise element away though. Any idea?? Who feels this way, too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 years old, married with 2 adult (21 and 17) children. My husband and I have a great sex life...we have sex at least once a day...I have found myself enjoying it more as I get older. I have had the same pre-sex routine for the last 20 years though. I always bathe or... (111 words)

My former date displays affection towards me in front of our friends, what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, just need a few opinions from you all. If you were all out in a group of friends and the guy you like willingly holds your hand in front of all your friends, is this a sign he likes you aswell. He also kept giving me hugs and kissing me on the forehead and on the ... (138 words)

How can I make myself pretty? I've very low confidence.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel ugly, have low self esteem and no confidence how can i make myself pretty? ... (16 words)

Is he really my Knight in Shining Armor, or just some hoax? He has a shady past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started seeing a guy a week or so ago. We used to be friends a few years ago when I was dating one of his aquantances. For those of you that are interested in the zodiac, I am a Pisces, and he is a Gemini. We spend almost everyday together and we talk on the phone oft... (262 words)

My 6 year old caught my husband and I in the bedroom having sex, what do I tell her??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my daughter who is 6 years old walked in the bedroom while me and her dad was having sex and said what are you doing and what i do and tell her?... (32 words)

I want to have sex again even though I know he used me in the first place. We're 15, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've lost my virginity to this guy, who dumped me straight after. now hes asking for more sex even though i know he does'nt love me. i have more feelings for him than he has for me, though i dont trust him. hes aged 15 like me and i know he has already taken another girl's ... (74 words)

Period problem! Normal to sometimes have a thicker, darker period? I'm worried!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some advice. My periods are usually pretty regular, for example if i had a period on feb 21st, i'd probably have one around march 22nd or 23rd. Now, during feburary I took the morning after pill. It was all fine, no sickness. Then in march my period didn't co... (173 words)

My ex won't leave me alone - I love him but can't handle another heartbreak!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What is going on with my ex? I told him never to call me again because he hurt me beyond belief. He called every day for a week and finally called me at work. I picked up the phone, not knowing his new work number because he moved, and he wanted to know what my deal was. I told ... (234 words)

Found out my fiancee is still married to another guy! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my fiance is married! She gave me some lame story of how she and her ex got married overseas and neither did anything to get a divorce. now we're scheduled to be married soon. do i leave her for lying to me or try and work through this? ... (48 words)

Dating my bf out of sympathy but like another guy. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a few months ago and he really likes me I ended dating him out of sympathy and well I met his friend a week ago. My mom doesn't want me with him and she has met his friend she likes his friend and so do I but he is in love with my best friend and she really likes ... (100 words)

I'm 18 pregnant, want to keep it but want to go to uni...what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 have just done my a-levels and have found out that i am 7weeks pregnant, i really want to go to uni and i dont know if i can or not now?. I am definitley keeping the baby, because i dont believe in abortion and my bf wants me to keep it also, i agree with this. But i ... (78 words)

My wife and I are at odds, over her continued contact with her ex and his family? Any input?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife had an abusive alcoholic father, and unsupportive mother in her teens. As a result, she moved out right after high school, and got married to this guy she was dating for only 6 months. Well, they were only married for less than 1 year and were seperated when we met. ... (333 words)

I felt nothing when we had sex...what should I do??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my bf is 22 and i am 17 we have had sex and i felt nothing what should i do he is 8.5inches long and 3 inches thick what should i do since i felt nothing?... (37 words)

Is he playing with me or does he really like me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - well thier is this guy name john and he use to always hugg me and grapp me around my waist and cuddle me and my frend always use to get mad but now its been a weeek and he doesnt do it no more wat does tht mean like yeahhh im confuse like he would ... always do it and now thier ... (179 words)

I want to loose my virginity! Any advice?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

20 June 2008 (?) age 26-29 - k i really want to loose my viginity and i kiss my arm and pretend a boy is actually dare but how do i get a boy that is right they all call me ugly but i dont think i am and im hated off all the girls giv me sum advise plzz im 14 x... (56 words)

My husband doesn't kiss me, and hasn't in months!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband does not kiss me and has not kissed me in months, he also does not say he love me and he does not have an interest in oral sex(when performing it on me) what should i do and do you see any love or likeness here?... (48 words)

I can't get this fling out of my mind! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - o.k this is my problem i can't seem to shake. I met my girlfriend 4 years ago she said we should take things slow as she'd just come out of a relationship. So we decided to be just friends and see how things go. We moved on to sexual relationship, then she tells me about a one ... (232 words)

Could I be pregnant? I gave him a handjob (he hadn't ejaculated) then touched myself...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday I gave my boyfriend a handjob, then I touched myself. He hadnt ejaculated at this point, but is it possible I could be pregnant? should i get the morning after pill? He also fingered me himself after this... (39 words)

Why is the gas bill being sent to me?? Our divorced will be finalised by august...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - havent seen my abusive ex in 7 months, since he damaged my property and was fined by the police for criminal damage. the cop involved also told him to stay away from me, not an injunction or anything just a verbal warning. then i filed for divorce and he didnt acknowledge the ... (133 words)

My boyfriend can turn to be very abussive and I feel it might be me with the problem... is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I really don't know what to do and my BF tells me it is me who has the problem - so i thought i would ask some advice. We have been together 4 years but it has never been an easy ride. He has had major depression episodes and lacks self confidence, doesn't speak to his f... (271 words)

More advice is needed...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i--thought-love-was-supposed-to-be.html i need some more advice please. i mean we've tried so hard to stay together but as things are so much better than they used to be i'm still up and down about our relationship. if that site do... (86 words)

I moved in with my lover and I think I should talk to his wife to tell her my side of the story... should I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i was having an affair with a married man for about 2 years. we were gonna move in together but then he said that he wanted to work on things with his wife and left me. not even a month later, he begged me to take him back, a few months after that i did. we moved in together ... (150 words)

Should I wait untill after his birthday to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to break up with my boyfriend. We have been together over a year. His birthday is in 5 days. Should i wait until after? What is the best thing to say? I would really like to stay friends.... (40 words)

I feel as if I am at crossroads in my marrige...all advice really appreciated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 6 years, this is my second marriage I'm 41 my hubby is 40.My first husband was controlling and aggressive and violent. One of the reasons I was attracted to my second husband was the fact that he was undemanding, kind, considerate caring etc. Although... (385 words)

Fallen for my bed buddy....what should I do???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I started seeing a bed buddy about 2 months ago, we're both single and we started meeting up for sex. The sex is fantasic the problem is ive developed feelings for him! Ive been hurt in the past and have stayed single for 2 years coz i didnt wanna let anyone else get close, i... (213 words)

I'm falling for an older married man....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23-year-old graduate student falling for a guy 15 years older than me. He's my coworker and we both work with a large consultant organization overseas. I am new to the job (as of a month) and due to travel, have had to spend tons of time with him. We became close ... (297 words)

How should I act around him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

- i like this guy we been on a few date but yesterday he said he not thinking about a relationship with me until we act more like friends and he told me to take down the pics of us 2 off myspace and he told me to stop calling him my bf to be even though he asked me to call him ... (127 words)

I want him back so much!! What do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - up until last week i had been seeing a married man for ten years we were perfectly happy and i loved him to pieces and accepted the situation, recently i took up golf and started getting some new girlfriends to play golf with, this was great cus it meant instead of sitting at ... (193 words)

I'm in a relationship, but I think its failing...any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - For the last 4 months I have been in a relationship however in the last 2months my girlfriend (And best friend) has been "Off" with me, certain things have been buging me, for example she says things like "I hate love" and "I don't trust anyone" on top of this she has been ver... (101 words)

How do you go about finding someone...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - How does one go about finding someone? I know I'm ready to find someone but I don't know how. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Like where can I meet people and how do I go about talking to them?... (40 words)

How can I make an honest effort in saving my long-term relationship without telling him the fact that I was seeing someone else behind his back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I need advice on how to deal with the fact that I had an affair and whether to fess up to my man or not. I was a total slut; I was seeing another guy for 8 months so no, it wasn´t a brief fling or one drunken mistake, I was completely sober and aware of my actions so I´m not ... (850 words)

Started the pill and still bleeding after 10 days straight. Is this common?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, I started taking the pill (Yasmin) for the first time ever, on wednesday last week, on the first day of my period. It has been 10 days and I am still bleeding. Is this common? Should I be worried? My periods usually last for 7 days at the most. I decided to go... (119 words)

Man charged with sexual assault to me, I feel sorry for him and am scared.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This isnt really about relationships but i value everyones advice on this site and iv always came here in the past with troubles. so im hoping you guy can help me now. A good few months ago a man who i new from a rival store to the one that i worked in came into my store as... (572 words)

How do you sleep when your partner isn't there?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Not really a problem, just curious. This spring my girlfriend took a trip to see her family and she had been preparing her luggage and I noticed she had put in some t-shirts of mine. She frequently wears them as night shirts but there were from my used pile I noticed so I put... (278 words)

He flirts and he seems interested. Is he serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey! there is this guy.let me call him X.well,X and i live in separate ocuntries but we talk via mail,msg etc everyday.he doesnt call me often and neither do i. our families know each other and i used to think of him as a n elder brother..but does he think of me like a li... (179 words)

Will antibiotics and alcohol make me ill?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) - Quickkk! I've been on antibiotics since yesterday morning, i went to the morning and got some pink tablets from it as i have an inflamed toe. But the thing is its my birthday today and im going out tonight with all my mates to get absoloutely bladdred. Is that ok? As some p... (126 words)

We're always fighting but I don't want to leave.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Guys... ok me an my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now an i do love him very much, but he is always fighting with me over nothin im constantly cryin an am so over it! it always over stupid things like today i was doing his washin an i put the clothes into the ... (131 words)

Rediscovered each other, but we both have partners. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age - Dear Cupid I have been seeing some one who I have been in love with for years but we had only just discovered each other again. He felt the same but we always managed to miss each other through life. It has been going on for 4 months but the pain of the deception to our ... (127 words)

Is it weird that he has so many different fetishes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an ex boyfriend who I see every now and again. He and I are very comfortable with each other, especially in a sexual sense, and have discussed the possibility getting back together in the future. Recently he's confessed that he wants to try out some kinky things with me. ... (144 words)

How wet is normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm a 17 year old lesbian girl. And I am madly in love with my girlfriend. She's amazing and I can't wait to finaly make love with her. We talk about sex alot and tonight she asked me if the wetness I get in vagina is excessive or normal. I didnt know how to answer cause I ... (69 words)

How can I get my parents to trust us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend, we were planning to stay at the chalet for a few nights. we're going to share a bed but my parents were afraid that we would have sex. how can i persuade them?... (37 words)

I don't feel comfortable using new sex positions yet - How can I make him understand?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My name is Amanda and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 almost 4 momths. Everything is going really good we have alot in common but we recently chose to become intimate with one another and all he ever talkes about are these different positions that he would love to ... (144 words)

Crossdressing as sexual vs spiritual... I need help, am at a loss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me. I would like to hear the opinion of crossdressers and transexuals if possible on this matter but any advise would be much appreciated. I am at a loss as to what to do in the situation I am in. My boyfriend of three years is a crossdresser. Ive known about ... (652 words)

Is it possible for a girl to get wet without really feeling horny at all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible for a girl to get wet without really feeling horny at all?... (15 words)

At first I thought it his shyness was cute, but now it's just annoying.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this boy that I'm practically in love with. The thing is though that the other day one of my guy friends and I were talking and he said that the boy I like doesn't 'get it' yet. I mean, he doesn't know what to do when a girl likes him. Like, he flirts with girls all the ... (151 words)

want to know how I could get over him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm have a real hard time get over this guy, ok well we never really dated but it seemed like it, cause he would always look at me with love dovey eyes, overprotective, and talked about me. Now I see that he was a big jerk so you could say I was blinded by Love, I don't kn... (145 words)

Confused and worried about the future finance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) - My fiance and I have been a couple for over 2 years and have been engaged for 6 months. We have a date to get married this December. He and I both divorced with 2 kids each. Mine are 13 and 15. His are 5 and 9. Him and his ex-wife (of 11 years marriage) divided up their kids, ... (253 words)

Can I trust my girlfriend after she's lied to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1994 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I want to ask for outside opinions of whether I should trust my girlfriend. Sorry for the length, but it's necessary to explain. We've been together for 2'ish years now, although we do not live together. One night, we were both at our respective homes, I was doing study ... (383 words)

I can't orgasm during sex, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. Well Ive had sex and my boyfriend seems to cum early... But the last two times we had sex, we were at it for a long time but I got dry... So were gonna buy lube, but the fact is I have never came while haven sex but I can make myself cum.. What do I do to make my ... (68 words)

How do you break it off with someone who makes you feel so trapped? please help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, i have been dating this guy for almost a year and a half, and our relationship is changing. he seems kind of obsessive sometimes and i'm only 17, and he also talks about marriage. i don't feel the same as i used to for him, and i believe it is because i have matured more, ... (127 words)

Why did I dream about sex with a girl? I'm straight!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so basically, I'm a straight 16-year-old girl. But last night, I had this dream where I was me trapped in a guy's body. Then this really beautiful girl walked over and made me lie on my back. Then she started touching all over my back. And then we had sex. What the heck ... (130 words)

How do I get rid of this clingy ex?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do about an ex that A: won't leave you alone, B: you let him get to you and you actually hang out with him, C: you have a boyfriend, D: you essentially cheated on your boyfriend with your ex and you feel like utter horse-shit because of it? I just want this guy to ... (117 words)

Vaginal hygiene - Am I going about it right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I wash my vagina with a scrubie poof thing and soap. Is this bad? Like, is it the same as douching?... (21 words)

I drunkenly told her I liked her - How can I let her down easy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - K, so I'm wondering what to do about a girl who totally won't get the hint. She ALWAYS wants me to call her, she wants to hang out everyday, the whole bit. We hooked up at a party a week ago, I was completely smashed, and while we were hooking up she said she really l... (290 words)

Am I incapable of being in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I incapble of being in a relationship? Whenever a guy I have feelings for starts to show interest I start to pull away from the relationship. It is like the thought of us being together makes me nervous and sick. I have been recently talking to this great guy and he final... (95 words)

Torn between two guys - what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i live next to two cousins and i like both of them however one is using me and the other wants a relationship. now i'm going out with the good one but the cousin who is using me has this thing that attracts me two him and just makes me go wild now i'm in a lot of trouble ... (78 words)

She gave me a blowjob and I didn't feel it - it something wrong?

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20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I got a blow job recently. The problem is that i didn't feel it when my girlfriend was sucking on it. IS something wrong!?... (25 words)

He thinks I'm going to drop him again - How do I regain his trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my best friend and this guy were dating, after they broke up me and him started being really good friends then eventually we started dating. i broke up with him a few weeks later even though i still really liked him because somthing told me that my friend still liked him. now ... (84 words)

7 minutes in heaven - how does it work?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like to know more about this game- 7 minutes in heaven..could someone tell me the rules please thanks..... (20 words)

Why did she change her mind? Does she like me or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently went on a school trip and everyone was in the living room. Slowly one by one everyone went to bed and me and this girl were left. We were lying next to each other on the sofa just talkin in the dark. She put her head on my chest and started just touchin my chest. I... (189 words)

How do I regain her friendship and become un-creepy?

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20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so right now I'm having a chat via e-mail with a girl that I really, really, really like (like she is all I think about night and day.) So over the past few months I've tried asking her out, then sending her poetry, then talking to her. She said I was creepy and that ... (151 words)

How do I ask her out? I'm scared of being rejected!

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20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - there's this girl 2years younger that me, i think she's a great person and really pretty. I talk to her sometimes online and she is really nice. She has been in many relationships and is single now. I would like to date her but i find it really weird and a scary experience to ... (113 words)

Why is this happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I use summer eve after I have sex and I have discharges what does that mean? Its brownish black...... (19 words)

Why did she suddenly stop talking, and how can I get her to talk to me again?

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20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im a junior in high school, and i met this girl freshman year. we were friendly and then she asked me to go to prom with her this year. we started gettin closer with each other by hanging out often and constant texting each other. i told one of her friends that i liked her and ... (109 words)

How can I get over the girl who rejected me?

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20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - going to a party and a girl who rejected me is goin to be there. My friends advise me to avoid her but i know i won't be able to because i will get really annoyed when other guys chat her up and she's dancing with them. Please help i'm trapped i cant get over her!... (56 words)

How do I decide what I want?

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20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not exactly living with my "parents" but I'm considering moving in with a couple of friends, and I'm in dying need of some good advice. Don't get me wrong ..I love and highly respect the relatives I am living with now, because they took me in when no one else... (231 words)

Sex with a new boyfriend - how soon is too soon?

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20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How soon is too soon, to have sex with a new boyfriend? Im just curious to know.... (17 words)

How can I get motivated and move on from this betrayal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is a fairly long question so bear with... I don't know if anyone will remember me, as I asked for some help her last year. Basically, my girlfriend broke up with me after I left high school, and started dating my best friend. That would have been bad enough, but ... (612 words)

He put pressure on me and then called it a 'statement' - What does he mean?

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20 June 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - its me again, i had sex with my sex partner and it was good as usually but it was a little different. He seem to have put more pressure on me and i counldn't really take it but i did anyway i guess thats what made it different (idn)so today i phone him and ask him why he sex me ... (81 words)

Ex wants to see me....good or bad idea??

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20 June 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex wants to go with me to a wedding in my hometown next month. He then wants me to fly back with him to where he lives now and check out the scene. What do you think? Bad idea? Feelings are still involved on my part, for sure. I want to talk about working our relationship... (103 words)

All I want is an explanantion - Why won't he talk to me?!

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20 June 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a relationship with a man that was 47 years old and we dated for almost a year. We had some problems, but not bad enough to where we couldn't sit down and talk about them. He started tripping with me and left me without even really telling me that it was over. I didn't do ... (533 words)

He's apologized - So why do I still feel funny?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I wrote to you guys yesterday after thinking that I had been date raped. (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-was-raped-by-the-man.html) I spoke to my bf about it today and he says that he really didn't realize that he was really hurting me becuase ... (124 words)

How long will it take until I'm ready for sex?

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20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I know you lot are good at answering these, and i could do with a bit of advice Im going to sound really big headed now, but people say im really nice looking, and i do get a lot of interest from girls. Some ask me to meet them, but i get nervous and think they will want... (144 words)

In love with my best friend - But he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

20 June 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major issue, and it's pretty deep so here we go. I'm in love with my best guy friend. The real problem is.....I'm 18 and he's just now getting ready to turn 17. I just graduated from high school and we still talk and hang out but it's a little harder now. Anothe... (183 words)

How can I make her care and not think I'm pathetic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

20 June 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Look this is slightly long on complicated but any help would be appreciated. It's not necessarily an important problem, but I just need some quick advice. There's this teacher (and no I don't love her) but I've always had this soft spot. She's been fantastic and I think she'... (317 words)