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*ncleBen
writes:Okay I have never used this before so here goes. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years and our sex life is good.but I know my girlfriend does things on her own, and and she goes through multiply orgasms! Using her own techniques. Is this normal? Do other girls do this as well? But when we're having sex she just can't achieve the same? Is it me or what? I want her to feel pleasure but I just don't know why she can't go through what she does on her own when she's with me.please help.
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reader, AuntyAunt  +, writes (4 October 2012):
 I honestly wouldn't worry about this at all. Many women achieve multiple orgasms through masturbation and don't get the exact same results from sex. She just knows exactly what she likes, she knows her own body better.
You could always just ask her what she likes if you're so worried? But I really wouldn't be, it's completely normal.
Best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2012): I wouldn't worry so much about it. The thing is she knows what's going to work on herself more than anyone else. You could ask her to show you how she likes to be touched or just accept that she knows her body better than you do. Either way, it's nothing you're doing wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2012): HiThis helped me so I can recommend trying some of the ideas in it.and maybe ask her to adapt her proven successful techniques but allow you to be part of what she does?http://www.dearcupid.org/question/spicing-up-your-sex-life.html
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