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We hooked up twice and now he ignores me

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Question - (29 January 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, *if3sucks writes:

hey there,

so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel horrible for hooking up with him since he has one but for some reason i just cant help myself when im around him, im just really atrackted to him its like i cant pull myself away, but anyway my problem is that the first time we hooked up it just felt so special it always does with him but a couple days after we hooked up he texted me and said we can never hang out again, his gf saw pictures online and didnt like them and told him to choose either her or me and he chose to stay with his gf, but the second time we hooked up he is the one who got ahold of me and told me to come to this party and while i was there he kept looking at me and pulling me towards him infront of our friends like it didnt matter that he had a gf and then the next day he ignored me and has been ever since, does he like me at all? or what does this mean?

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A female reader, lif3sucks United States +, writes (30 January 2012):

lif3sucks is verified as being by the original poster of the question

lif3sucks agony auntthank you everyone,

just wish i could find someone that i mean the world to them, it sucks being alone but thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2012):

To be honest He is using you. Him and his G/f have a fight he goes out and parties with his friend invites you to take along parades you in front of his friends to show them that no women can control him. I say Ditch the Meat Bag and find yourself some one that is very special not just to you but to your heart, And soul

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A female reader, babyparis United States +, writes (29 January 2012):

babyparis agony auntI think he's trying to have his cake and eat it too but it dont work like that...

A friend probably told his gf that you two were close and she made him choose again. If he keep stringing you alone he dont really like you as much as you would like him too.

I say leave him alone and have fun else where!.

-I wish you nothing but the best...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2012):

I'm sorry but he only likes having sex with you, nothing more. He chose his girlfriend over you, and then contacted you when he was horny again, so he could get off. Honestly he is worth it he is playing you, because he knows he can, He is only concerned with himself. He isn't showing you any respect and he isn;t showing his gf any either. As hard as it might be, if he calls again ignore him, you deserve better and so does his gf.

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A female reader, shrodingerscat United States +, writes (29 January 2012):

shrodingerscat agony auntNo, he doesn't like you. He knows that you like him and will have sex with him, that's why he keeps you around. You're his piece on the side. He doesn't respect or care about YOU or his poor girlfriend.

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