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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

She doesn't think I love her as much as I do, how do I prove it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - Hey, um okay. I reaaaalllllyy love this girl. My girlfriend. We've been together for almost 7 months. Everything is going great except, she doesn't think I love her as much as I do. So what can I do to make her see, theres no one else for me? I love ...

His ultimatum: Get rid of my online friends and date site profiles,or he is going to leave!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has given me an ultimatum. Either I get rid of my on line friends and Date Site profiles,or he is going to leave. I have been on them for 3 years and enjoy it. I feel a bit like he is telling me what to do. Which shall I go ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to make our relationship official on the social network

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't want to make our relationship official on the social network. He's the son of a pastor and the same age as me and he says the reason is because he doesn't want his church members to know. But his family knows! His family doesn...

I feel like a used rag!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - i really need some honest constructive advice. over two years ago i met a guy at work. i had come out of a dreadful relationship and my confidence was low. i work hard at work but am always given a hard time for it so this guy seemed to like me and ...

Should I wait? How can I know if he is a liar or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - hello there. i met a 53 years old man at work and i started to go out for lunch break with him - the relationship got stronger and we started to go out for valentine and after one year i asked him to marry me. he started to divorce since 3 ...

Shall I just keep silent or shall I voice my insecurities about his Boy's Night Out ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My bf cheated on me 2 years ago, we argued it out and said we'd give it one last go. Since then it's been fine, and I am steadily starting to build up trust again. However, he mentioned going to another part of the Uk for a lads night out. He's h...

Is it possible for an addicted womanizer to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - hi cupids, please i need your advice on what to do.i'm 25yrs and my man is 46yrs old.weve been together almost 4yrs. We even have a boy of 2yrs.this man is caring,kind and the quiet type.last two days,i met one of his relatives and this lady told me ...

Why would my boyfriend consistently and deliberately lie to me? What benefit does he derive from lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - hi there ive been with this man for almost 2 years now he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever but the thing is he never opens up to me at all never once. i always open up to him. He denies things that are true like he will deny s...

Mother found out I'm gay. Now our bond hasn't been the same since. How do I fix this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - This mostly applies to people who came out to their families....i need help trying to have a bond with my mother recently i brought my boyfriend over to my house told my parents he was just a friend who was going to sleepover.. well in the middle o...

I keep striking out with the ladies, need help! is being 40 pounds overweight a factor? What needs to be done?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - so in my interaction with the ladies, I've heard this line WAY too much: "you're such a great guy, a girl would be real lucky to be with someone as nice and real as you are." All the while I'm thinking, "if i'm such a great guy, then why don't y...

Since the birth of our son he's changed. I want to work things out. How do I cope if he continues to want out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I been in relationship for five years an just had a baby now my boyfriend says his feelings for me have dropped and he don't want to be in the relationship no more and he cheated on me with 19 year old when I was 8 months pregnant I just found it o...

Dumped by text. Why should I do the right thing? They all betrayed me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I got dumped by text and cheated on. Then for some dumb reason everyone took my exes side. Then I ran into the two faced sheep and they ignored me. Why should I do the right thing? They all betrayed me. What makes them think that it won't happen...

Eleven years together. I am seriously clucky for children. He wanted children. Now his mind is closed to the idea. what can I do?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I'm feeling extremely maternal at the moment and it's causing problems in my relationship. I'm 28, almost 29 and I've been with my boyfriend for 11 years. We've only been living together for just under a year. I know. Things have moved slow ...

Why did my girl friend not try harder to talk this through? She wants space. And different things. But could more discussion help?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been together for a little more than a year and a half. We do everything together, We are both living at my parents house, we work together (because my family has been friends with the GM of a company, so it was a easy job)...

How can I learn to trust? Still paranoid about being cheated on/screwed over in future relationships. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My ex dumped me by text out of the blue. I only found out I was being cheated on after the breakup. Everybody knew but me. That was a year ago, but I'm still paranoid about having future relationships....

He wants to stay home. I want to travel. How can I modify my thoughts or behaviour to better cope with our differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - Hi Guys, My boyfriend is not keen on going on holidays, ever. Not even to our beach houses (ie. its not cost that's a factor). I would love nothing more than for us to be able to go away, interstate, maybe overseas, but it just seems like it won't...

She went from a stripper to an online web-cam model. Am I being unreasonable being uncomfortable about her new job?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

13 November 2011 (M) - My brother and I were eating at a restaurant and I spotted a beautiful girl. I gestured to my brother to look at her and she noticed that. As my brother and I walked out to my car, she came outside and my brother urged me to approach her, which I ...

She is the one. I want to be honest with her, but I'm ashamed of my past. How can I be honest and not lose her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I guess this is a question about dealing with my past and its potential consequences on a relationship. It is also about how much you need to tell about your sexual history. For just over a year now I have been going out with this girl and sh...

Trust! Is there anything I can do to not always assume the worst and have faith in who I'm with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this girl for only a little over two weeks now, but we instantly hit it off. Maybe we moved really fast, but I've pretty much been over at her house non stop since we met. I'm pretty crazy about her. My question is this. I've been...

A guy my age? Or one much older and working? The guy my age is really nice and sweet and very gentlemanly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I really like this guy but recently started talking to him less because he works and i play basketball and the piano. Okay to get more to the point i like this guy but he is much older than i and we started talking less and this new guy i met like...

How could he change so quickly? He says I'm an awesome friend but he thinks thats all its going to be

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend just broke up with me out of the blue. (yesterday he was talking to me about going to his dads for dinner and making christmas lists, and the next day i saw him he broke up with me) he says that he feels like nothing has changed betw...

Could we get back together after a short term relationship? Should I try to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I was dating a great guy for seven weeks, and we broke up about a week ago. We were exclusive very early on (he brought up the conversation). We live two hours away from each other which was difficult, but things were great. There was chem...

His ex cried that he didn't visit! Should I ask him to distance himself further or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - My BF's best mate told him that when we came to visit him, my BF 's exgirlfriend cried and cried that he didn't go see her. Would you expect that of a 50 yr old woman who says she's just friends with your BF? What would you think was going on ther...

At what point can you no longer justify a relationship? marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - At what point can you no longer justify a relationship? marriage? There is this old saying that love is not enough, how many of you believe this? For example, i have witnssed a couple risk their children's lives by driving dangerously beca...

I never played him. how can I get to be the girl I was (with self esteem) before I met him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - dear friends... i need some advice... i broke up with my bf 5 months ago and can't get over him. our relationship had it's problems and i decided it was time to end it. the thing is, i started to regret my decision... so, i asked him to get b...

I'm concerned about the DVDs he's watching as a means to get an erection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

13 November 2011 (F) - I've become a little bit concerned about my husband in the past few weeks [well, 3 actually]. He's spending a lot of time at the gym and online, and in his room are hundreds of magazines with pictures of shirtless men! Also included was a D...