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writes:My BF's best mate told him that when we came to visit him, my BF 's exgirlfriend cried and cried that he didn't go see her. Would you expect that of a 50 yr old woman who says she's just friends with your BF? What would you think was going on there??? Should I ask him to distance himself further or what? Isn't this odd behavior for a woman that age? She broke up with himIt was 3 yrs ago but they occasionally hookup over that time.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 November 2011):
 just because SHE still feels this way does not mean HE does.... asking him to distance himself from HER will do what?
do you NOT trust him?
as for her behavior... did you witness this or did you HEAR about it?
I am 51 and I was crying on Friday over something....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 She obviously cares very much about your boyfriend and she was upset because he never took the time to visit her. Maybe she was just having a down day and she got upset easily who knows. My guess is that she has stronger feelings for him than friendship. Talk to your boyfriend to see how he feels about the situation and tell him how you are feeling.
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reader, kate28 +, writes (13 November 2011):
It sounds like she is definitely still interested in him. I would ask him what he thinks is going on with her. If he's in denial about her interest I would perhaps explain to him that you're concerned about her interest and tell him that it makes you uncomfortable.
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