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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hello there. i met a 53 years old man at work and i started to go out for lunch break with him - the relationship got stronger and we started to go out for valentine and after one year i asked him to marry me. he started to divorce since 3 years and the divorce issue has not been settled up till now (4years). he works at UN and he travels for work missions a lot. His mission at my country has ended on 2010 and since then i went to visit him once and and he came two times with a one year break. my dilemma is that everybody around me tells me that he is just with me for emergency sex and not for love and the evidence that he has been divorcing since long time and since then too many excuses have been raised up such as financial settlement with his Ex or that she is postponing until their 17 years old son leaves home. last reunion he requested me to wait for him one year only. and he told me that he has no one in life and for his future except me.he is older than me 19 years. i asked him at his last reunion with me that if nothing will happen to let me know and not to keep me waiting and at this time he asked me if i have any person at the mean time that i think would be suitable for me as a husband. I said none. how can i know if he is liar or not not - should i wait. please advise me
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 I don't think you should wait no, I think you will be let down and hurt. It sounds like he is using you. Trust what those closest are saying to you, they can see that he is using you for his own selfish reasons and they are warning you so you do not get hurt. You know what it wouldn't surprise me if he was still married. Men like this are very good liars. Stay away from him you deserve better.
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