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writes:I really like this guy but recently started talking to him less because he works and i play basketball and the piano. Okay to get more to the point i like this guy but he is much older than i and we started talking less and this new guy i met likes me and is my age. They are both really sweet and nice to me but i feel guy one sees me as a little sister rather than a possible girlfriend, but i have liked him for about a year.Now guy two is actually a couple days younger than me and is really nice and sweet and very gentlemanly but i dont know whether to go ahead and take a chance with guy two or to try to reconnect with guy one again. Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, heart245 +, writes (15 November 2011):
heart245 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks and he is quite a few years older than i am (close to 4 years) but i guess i will get to know guy 2 better and see how it goes from there and well guy 1 has already started talking to me more without me texting him first but until i am older i dont think i will make a move with him so thank you :) oh and another thing you say that u were 13 when your boyfriend was born so that is a greater age gap then me and i guy i like but other than that thanks again
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 November 2011):
 at your age, i'm voting for guy 2
because lets say you are 13 and guy 1 is 16 that's a big difference at your age
and when I turned 13 my boyfriend had not been born yet.... (he was born a few months after I turned 13) so it's no big deal that guy two is a few DAYS younger than you are.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 November 2011):
 How much older is the older man?
Stick to getting to know the guy your age, that wont harm you. If you have lost connection with the older man then just leave it be as it is, things happen for a reason. A girl your age is usually more compatible with a boy 2-3 years older, but a boy your own age could be a good match too as long as he is nice to you and treats you well.
When you and him get older you will both work anyways, so it shouldn't be about money or having a job yet or not.
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