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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

When does friendship become more than friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Okay, I have a question. Say a woman is married and she has a good male friend (we'll call him Mr. X) that is also friends with her husband. Mr. X and the woman are pretty good friends, closer friends than he is with her husband, but she and Mr. X ...

What would you do if you found your 40 husband in bed with a girl age 18-21? Help me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girls blonde, young everything he would like and i even found texts on his phone where he told her she was hotter than me, and would prefer h...

I fear my husband isn't attracted to me anymore and is having an affair! Is anyone like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I'm a housewife since our son was born 5 years ago. Taking meds to get preg for 2nd baby.I'm tired most of the time(due to medicines i think)I'm overweight and I know my husband is not attracted to me though we have sex twice a week. I'm scared o...

He won't let me around his children!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months. I love him and he says he loves me and wants to marry me someday, but here's the thing... he has 2 kids. Now, the kids themselves are not the problem. I am more than willing to come in and fulfill ...

Should I confront her about this or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - Hello there, Ive been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. Lately im getting more worried that she doesnt love me like she did. First of all we did not have sex yet, she is 16 and i am 18. But lately her sex drive has been lower than usual...

Why on earth did my now-married ex add me as a friend on Facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - what can i do ? i did post about this earlier-as a recap i split with my fiance 6 years ago we havent spoke since 2005 the other night i get an email requesting facebook friendship from him so i accept and go on his site to see hes married and ...

His woman "friends" from the past keep coming out of the woodwork!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for one year now. Since then quite a few of his female "friends" from his past keep coming out of the woodwork, still. Some turned out that they had once been more than friends but because he calls them all friends, ...

I have been cheated on before and now I think my new boyfriend is cheating too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Boyfriend trouble..... Not sure what to do/think....................? I have known this guy that I am now seeing for almost a year. We just recently started dating almost 2 weeks now. I am 28 years old and have a 9 year old daughter. He is ...

I lost feelings for him after he kissed someone else... help?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - hiya, ok well i've just left high school this summer but about a month before i left i went to my best mates birthday party and met this really cute lad called *tom* whos in my year but i'd never talked to him before, anyway we got on really well ...

How can I convince him that I'm telling the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy on and off for 6 months now. Recently, he called me from another number, and when I asked who it was, he told me to guess. Not realizing it was him, I called him by someone elses name and now he won't drop it. He ...

He says he wants to be with his family but calls his mistress every chance he has!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - help me! i was with my ex husband for 37 years and during that marriage he had a mistress for 30 years . when he left me the last time i got the divore . he had left me 3 times before! i believed the words of god (only on to him) and look what ...

He has a girlfriend, so I'm trying to see him as just a friend...but I REALLY like him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - There is a guy I've recently met that I REALLY like. We are very similar, we get on so well together etc etc and the chemistry is amazing. The only problem is, he has a girlfriend. When I first met him, it was online and he was ambiguous about his ...

I think this guy might be trying it on with my girlfriend...or am I looking too deeply into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 July 2009 (M) - i have a question for you...i had a thing happen aweek ago and it still bothers me.. my girl of 2 years has a friend who is terminally ill and isnt doing to hot these days.. well two days before my girl goes to visit this sick friend at home..her...

Husband wants to stay in the family home while continuing his affair

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hi there I would really appreciate people's perspective on my situation. I'm dealing with a lot of emotional pain having learnt that my husband of nearly 21 years has been seeing another woman. Admittedly our marriage was a struggle wi...

Is he my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - so i was at a party and i was talking to this one guy who i have a mutual friend with and we have hung out together a couple of times but never alone. so he texted me while i was there and said we should hang out with out all these people around and ...

Is this controlling behaviour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Hey guys! Question! My grandmother just passed away and I've been having a really rough time. I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting because I'm going through all of this, or if this is how a normal person would react? Anyway, my boyfriend keeps ...

What does he mean by saying "you know you owe me"? I'm freaked out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - Me and this guy had a huge crush on each other. He is very popular and handsome. All the women wants him and he has slept around so many times. We met at work. Anyway, things didn't work out especially since I found out he is married. We didn't ...

My boyfriend told me he fantasizes about other girls all the time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - my bf told me he thinks about having sex with other girls all them time. He said he would never go with them or leave me. He said he loves me very much and wants to be with me forever. He said he sees girls everywhere and thinks about having sex ...

This 22 year old virgin wants this guy SOOOOO BAD!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

27 July 2009 (F) - I've had this friend for two years. We get along well and have a lot in common. Last year we had met up with another mutual friend and were talking about dating. He had stated that relationships are just not for him and that he just can't do the ...