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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Should I take him back? We have this chemistry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Ok let me break this down for you in its simplest form, if possible. Me and Sam click. Theres always been this chemistry which we both find difficult to gain from other relationships. Theres almost an oxymoron persona between us; love is always f...

Why them and not me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I'm confused. I've known this guys for 5 years. We never physically hooked up until 2 months ago, but were always good friends. We also live 3 hours apart. Before we took it to the next level I introduced him to my 2 best friends and he hooked up ...

Shall I be honest and tell him when I fancy other people or simply keep him happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is pissed off I keep telling him I fancy other men. Now. We have got a bit of a history. We've been together 3-4 years but I cheated on him quite a few times but recently I made a vow I'd stay faithful and he forgave me for straying in ...

One day I'm the girl he's going to marry, the next day he's stand-offish!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I am quite hurt and confused and would really appreciate any advice! Me and my boyfriend of six months broke up about a month ago but during that month we have been in contact every day, talking meeting up and even going away on a trip together! For ...

My ex has a twisted logic to justify our broken relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I've recently ended my relationship with my ex because she was seeing this other girl behind my back, but when i was breaking up with her she's been saying all these things like "i knew this would happen because you don't want this to work but i do" ...

I'm afraid to like him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - i was asked out by this guy i like, but i turned him down. i tried to make myself believe i turned him down by making up some lame excuse, but the real reason i turned him down is that i'm scared to like him. i have never had a boyfriend before and ...

Help me with my relationship, please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Well i am 25 and have four children, three from a previous relationship, and yes i started really young, But i need someones help, my fella is a gambler and goes to the pokers five days a week, now just to be clear, he doesnt spend my money and he ...

My partner wont divorce his wife!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over 2 years now I am 52 and he is 62, i was married when i was 19 and left my husband 5 years ago, this is my first proper relationship since then, I was wary at the beginning about going into a relationship, but ...

How do I trust someone who doesn't trust themselves

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I've been having a rocky time with my partner lately about trust issues and that. We have been together for about 2 months now and we both feel attached to each other. There is major trust issues between us. I've made mistakes whilst I wa...

My boyfriend suddenly doesn't trust me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend has been acting like a little strange lately. Like he's a chill sorta dude but lately he freaks out about the littlest things! Like on my myspace i change my mood status a lot and for one it said "talking on the phone with ----" and ...

Sister-in-law is showing she's very insecure by flirting.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - My sister-in-law has asked me out for what I thought was gratitude for taking care of her child some time ago. We have gone out twice. The last time instead she floored me claiming relationship problems she's having with my brother. That he's in ...

Is sending jokes with sexual innuendo to other females a sign of something more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Do you think that sending jokes with sexual innuendo by email or text to another woman is a sign that my husband is having an affair? One of the text jokes he had already sent to me and I said how funny it was then caught him out forwarding it to ...

Will he ever be serious with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dated a guy three years ago and although we live in different countries we've stayed in touch. When we dated there was a huge amount of chemistry, we couldnt keep our hands off each other. I didnt feel important to him, i never met him on weeke...

Am I wrong? Is he? Is my relationship over??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Last night I came home to my man and told him that I was considering taking a pole dancing fitness class with a workmate who asked me to join her. It has always looked like a bit of cheeky fun and I really wanted to do it. He didn't like the idea, ...

He said he's not ready for a girlfriend right now, but he also told me he'd never let me go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - ok so im 15 and theres this guy ive been in loge with since december.. hes 16 and tells me he loves me too. first he had a girlfriend and we started talking and were like best friends. then i started to like him more than a friend. i just figured it ...

Is my 43 y.o. boyfriend obsessed??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Is my boyfriend obsessed?!?!? Ok. I think my boyfriend is obsessed with his ex wife's kids. (they aren't his kids, just hers). They dated for 2 months, got married, and he left the her after 2 weeks. (she was stealing meds from his mother and just...