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writes:i have a question for you...i had a thing happen aweek ago and it still bothers me..my girl of 2 years has a friend who is terminally illand isnt doing to hot these days..well two days before my girl goes to visit this sick friend at home..her husband comes over with his child to play with my girls kids..funny thing he stayied for three hours..and played with his son and my girls kids.i was working out of town..that day..usually this guy comes by but stays only hour or so..at the latest..any way ..he goes home ..my girl calls and says her girlfriends husband came by to bring there one kid over to play with my girls kids..well i didnt think nothing of it..then my girl goes over to visit the sick girl friend.about 4pm that afternoon..well they start talking and she stays til 12 midnight..well the sick girl friend asks my girl friend how is everything with her kids and her boyfriend me..well my girl friend says great..and the sick girl friend says..my child is doing great,but my relationship isnt so hot these days.i cant physically please my husband..well my girl says iam sorry to hear that..anyway ..later that night my girl calls me at work and we talk ..i asked her when you guys coming home..my girl says now..so she says iam going to get ready now ,i will call you when iget home..well about 20 mins later i get this call and my girl calls up and says ..she dont understand it but her car just stopped and it hasnt done that in a long time ..and she didnt know why it would just stop..well she told me about it..and we just talked about it for awhile i told her what possibly it might be .anyway we somehow got to talking about the sick girl friend and her intimacy with her husband.my girl told me the husband wasnt getting pleased at home by his wife ..and she was sad she couldnt please him because she was too sick..welli ask my girl friend are they sleeping together .my girlfriend said no she also said her husband hasnt been treating her nice.and that he is only with her out of duty..not anything else..i for some strange reason started to think about his visit at my girlfriends house,for 3 hours he visited and now it makes sense..he figures he might get some stuff on the side..like my girl..well this is going thru my head and i said to my girl doesnt that strike you funny that he came over for 3 hours and just stuck around and visit with you..and the kids.. and now your car stops for no reason..i said he could have pulled the distributor cord and thats it..i told her one time i had that done in fun to me ..but it stopped the car..its funny though i told her it happens now ..i said do you see what iam saying this guy might have done it..to keep you there..my girl said no her husband wouldnt do that..and even though they are having extra marital problems.he wouldnt do anything .or would i allow that to happen..my girl didnt get mad at me usually she would yell at me for even thinking that and she would be mad at me for a good hour for even bringing that up..she acted like she didnt even hear it..well then she says iam tired lets talk in the morning ,,i said i have to get back to work but i will call you in the morning ,,my girl yewned and said iam so sleepy..night dear ..i asked her if your going to stay there tonight where will you sleep,,my girl said in the living room..across the way from my girl friend..then my girl said goodnite..well that was the last i heard about that ..but my girl knew these people 6 years before i came around..and they are younger than we are..my girl said one time that her sick girl friends husband is a real nice guy..real nice..and that she liked him .my question is do you think that anything is happening or could i just be thinking to much about nothing..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): I would watch this guy. I think you seem very keen as to how people can be. My husband has this gift where he sees pictures of people's lives when he meets them in his head, and those pics are usually right. I didn't ask him about this question, but yeah, I think you should watch this guy.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 i understand your concern ofcourse but whether his after your gf for a bit on the side or not you should trust your gf not to do anything.im sure your gf wouldnt do anything to hurt her girlfriend.obviously keep an eye out for whether your gf is acting strange or anything is out of the ordinary like her keep staying out or something and u might find ur on to something but for now i wouldnt worry until you have general facts
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