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Archived questions from: 10 July, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

She slept in the same bed as a guy who has a crush on her, said nothing happened, should I beleive her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend went to her friends (friend #1 who is a girl) to hang out with friend #1 and friend #2(who is a guy, and has a crush on my girlfriend) She later texted me saying she was staying the night at friend #2's house. I later found out fr...

I want to help my girlfriend be comfortable expressing her emotions. Any ideas how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - I'm trying to get back with my ex-gf and she recently told me she considers herself an "emotional cripple" and that some of the more serious conversations we've had in the past made her very uncomfortable. I thought we were just sharing on a ...

I vented my frustration with him to my friends, and he read what I wrote! I'm afraid I won't be able to fix this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend and I have been discussing the question about whether to stay together when I leave for college. I found him distant and avoiding when the question came up; he was also answering my texts every 5-10 hours and completely ...

Confused! I want to end it before he hurts me more than the first time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i was with him before, he broke up with me. now, after 7 months we're back together. even though that's what i wanted, i have not been happy. i feel as if i'm the one trying to keep the relationship alive. i've displayed some angry attitudes toward ...

Am I just a disposable girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Last night marked the most uncomfortable, heartbreaking conversation with my boyfriend. I just graduated from college and have been feeling awful because I cannot find a job to save my life. Naturally, this sadness and frustration made me want a ...

A question about trust and lawnmowers...

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10 July 2009 (M) - Once again this might not be the most appropriate site to ask this, but here goes! A family friend, whom I'll call Joe, does some work for my elderly mother, for pay. Joe is about 45 and while not the smartest fellow has always seemed honest. ...

I constantly feel ugly and I'm scared my guy will leave me for someone prettier

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5404 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i constantly feel ugly(whether its the fact that m on the chubby side or that i tend to break out with acne due to stress or that every day seems a bad hair day to me!) and i am scared my guy wil leave me for someone prettier. We have been together ...

My boyfriend is going on a holiday...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - Hi ... Well ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 3months now and i love him to pieces and his everything i want, however he went on holiday with nine of his mates, he come back and then the next day on facebook was aload of picture...

I want her to desire me again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

10 July 2009 (M) - ok so my wife and i are 20 and our son will be 1 on july 12th we got married march 27, 2008. we have always had a very intimate relationship. but within the past 5 months she just doesn't seem interested in me anymore. i have asked her why she ...

Barriers in our Love

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

10 July 2009 (?) - Hi, I am really in love with my girlfriend of 3 months.I have given up alot for her and she knows that and she loves me like crazy. But my mind keeps saying there will be barriers that will keep us apart and there is nothing I can do about it. I r...

This is beyond crazy! I have developed a twitch. I have thrown up multiple times at work from the loads of anxiety! HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - It was a coworkers last day today and our boss took us all out to lunch. I had to make sure that I sat next to all women because my boyfriend would otherwise be angry. I was on gchat with my blackberry the whole time in case he needed to check on ...

Madly in love.... but afraid of marriage! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I have been with the same man for 3years and I am madly in Love with him, there is no doubt in my mind that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. The only problem is that I fear marriage. I trust him with all of my heart, I just am afraid of ...

Shouldn't he be the one to make the effort to win my affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5406 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for three years, we lived together for one of them. He's going to graduate school in Maryland while I'm staying here in Oregon. He says that he needs time for himself to grow and mature, and thinks that we're way too young to ...

I've known him a week. How do I know he loves me and isn't just after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - i started dating a man i hardly knew since a week. we both spend time together and also on phone all the time. he too calls me whereever he is. he cares for me. but i dono if he is in love with me. we have already made out and stuff too soon. this ...

He doesn't hit me but he spits in my face. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) - ok ive been married 16 yrs i realy feel my husband is honest, maybe it me ,anyway he has 2 single friends and i mean very single. every day he gets off work he stops in a bar. its a slum bar, i mean. i go sometimes with him but the bartenders wera ...