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writes:Boyfriend trouble..... Not sure what to do/think....................?I have known this guy that I am now seeing for almost a year. We just recently started dating almost 2 weeks now. I am 28 years old and have a 9 year old daughter. He is 23 mature for his age and plays in a band for his profession. I recently just received a phone call from a girl claiming to be his girl friend and wondering what the hell is going on. She said she has seen the text messages that we have sent to each other.And she heard him and his best friend talking about me. He told her that I am just his friend and nothing more but we have been sleeping together. I really like this guy and I just got out of a relationship with a guy that cheated on me. I am not sure what to think. If anything at all. I asked him about it and he says he is not seeing anyone and hasn't for a long time. He does not know this girl or know of the phone number that she called me from
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Run as fast as you can......where there is smoke there is fire.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (27 July 2009):
 i think you should remain calm, and try and find out if the girls claims are true.
maybe u should fone her (discreetly) and ask her private questions about him that only someone close to him would know,
this might help clear some doubt for you.
but then again, i would say trust is important in a relationship and take what your bf says as true,
but then for your own peace of mind as its happened to you before, i would do detective work before believing the girls claims.
good luck!
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (27 July 2009):
 With bands, it's a weird thing, because any groupy can claim to be doing stuff with him. But how did she get his number? I think that you should meet her in person and ask her to give you intimate details about him, and then you will know or not whether she is telling the truth or not. Then you both can confront him, and if she was telling the truth, let him go.
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (27 July 2009):
Im not sure what question your asking as i believe the answers are there, please dont believe it when a guy tells you these things he doesnt really have an option yet hes still resulted into lying his way out of it.
What reason has this girl got to lie? What can she gain from it? You might like him but surely not enough to accept this from him. You have a child to think of, put both of your needs first, he obviously hasnt, id say to him something along the lines of when you grow up and take responsibilitie for your actions let me know.
Dont stick around waiting for the guy that deep down you know is the wrong one.
Best of luck
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