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My ex is coming back around Christmas, and I am not sure what to do.

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Question - (17 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so my ex and i havent talked in like 3 months and he's comming back around not to long before christmas. the second time we dated i realized that i had fallen in love with him. when he finally called it total quiets i was heart broken and i wanted to hate his guts. after a while i finally convinced myself that he was a worthless piece of garbage, and no guy is worth crying over. well when i found out that he was comming back all the feelings that i had for him came flooding back and i realized that even though i hate him i still love him and when i think of him i think of the god and bad moments. im afraid that when he comes back that i'll either start crying, or i'll so something that i'll regret doing. i havent dated since him, and everytime i try and get the currage to move on i end up sycking myself out and thinking that they will say no and when i do that i think of my ex and how he rejected me. im not miss skinny-minny, or have the biggest boobs or hane the best looking face. i even wair glasses. i just dont no what to do? i love my ex but i know that i wana move on cuz i dont wana keep gitting hurt.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010):

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thanks for ur guys advise. i decided to eraise everything that i had that has to do with him an i got rid of everything he ever gave me. im 100%% over his sorry ass an i dont plan on ever seeing or having anything to do with him ever again.

THANKS GUYS!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009):

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thanks "Ask oldersister" for the advice. i wish i could avoid him durring christmas. u see he is only 15 im 16. his mom dated my aunts husband at the time they were seperated. he had there kids most of the time and my ex's mom, sister, littlebrother, and himself fell in love with the children so there comming up to visit them andgive them presents and my aunt now has all 3 of the children cuz my uncle killed himself. my aunt also happens to live with me. so i kind of have no possable way to aviod him.

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