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Archived questions from: 30 March, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We recently seperated and now she only contacts me for money!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - OK ladies i need your help. me and my wife had a big argument over a month ago. we recently seperated. according to her this is just temporary and she just needs time. now the only time she contacts me is for money. It's only been four days and im ...

Why do girls hate me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - i feel like i have no friends today i went to give a book back to my friends in free hour at school and they were just playing around. there were my "girlfriends" there girls that are friends. i asked them if and how much they liked me and they all ...

Can a man give up porn after 10 years of regular use?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have huge issues about porn which date back many years ago which turn my stomach and I don't feel I can discuss here. I have explained all this to my boyfriend of two years and told him I cannot have porn in my life and if he wants to watc...

I sometimes feel like a slut because I have had 2 ex-boyfriends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I have this problem.. well the fact is that its hard for me to get an orgasm. I have had 3 partners including my boyfriend. I had my first boyfriend form the age of 15-17 and the second was a person whom I liked, but he just used me for sex a cou...

Girlfriend doesn't want me to go on holiday...but I don't want to lose her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Hi, Having a bit of trouble in our relationship and need some advice and help, here goes... Firstly, we have been together for almost a year now, until recently we were very happy and I am over the moon that I am with her. I never want to leave he...

Why does this otherwise nice guy turn into a jerk with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - perhaps this is a more general question: I know this guy from work, and I see him talking on all kinds of social networks, and I know some of his friends, and he is a really good person, two lovely children who adore him, but with me he was a total ...

Does he still care for her or am I just being needy and jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 5months now and our relationship has turned sort of sour because I've been too needy and I am totally aware of the fact. Im too insecure and Im always wanting reassurance however i think this has started because ...

She runs hot and cold. Does she care or is she playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I've been going out with this girl for a while, maybe a month. And well, we're kinda like real close and we do what couples do, we've done stuff and all. But sometimes when we meet, she seems to like act a bit different like she's not as close as ...

I'm sending him this breakup note. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I need some external advice because i am a mess and i do not want to do anything i regret later. I used to go out with this guy and we were really in love. Then he just pulled back and we decided to stay friends. The problem is even that he liv...

Do I need space? Or am I subconsciously pushing myself away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two months, after an on-off relationship for two years. I am 28 and he is 26. The timing was finally right for us to be together, and we are so in love. He is the one, we already have plans for the future ...

Why am I attracted to someone I hate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I'm a 15 year old boy and have discovered I'm attracted physically and emotionally to this boy i hate! I'm not sure what to do about it and could use some advice! I have been bi for 3 years now....

I'm so negative and it's ruining my life. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. So it's time to get this sorted once and for all. I have no idea where this came from, but I have a paranoia problem. I am not very confident to start with, I am a short guy. I have just grown this paranoia, if I see peopl...

We've been married a year and it's not working out. Any suggestions on how to fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - my husband and i are separated. we meet up every couple of days but nothings changed. he is still nasty to me. treats and talks to me in a horrid manner. its the main reason we separated. weve only been married just over a year and things have never ...

My BF teases me about not being as worldly as he is, and it make me feel inferior.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I feel inferior to my boyfriend coz he is very much social. He has got a lot of girlfriends, and he goes out with them. I feel hurt when he is doing this. I have discussed the problem with him,but he says that it's all coz am not social. And also he ...

Is this true love or true guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - How do you know when you cheat on someone after being with them for 4 years that you really love them? The fact that one could cheat on their partner after being with them for so long, makes one question if it is really "love" you feel for them. ...

Have to see Ex-BF tomorrow and not sure I'll be able to control my anger. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Your Open Question: How should I act when I see my lying cheating ex boyfriend? ? My ex boyfriend lied to me, cheated and dumped me. I knew something wasn't right cos he said he doesn't want a relationship. I found out he was sleeping with s...

Boyfriend just can't seem to get the hint. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is very quiet and shy, i ask him by text if he wants to kiss me and he either does not answer or reply's 'dunno' i really want to kiss him so bad! he doesn't even get the hint when i lean forward, what should i do?...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to appreciate me sexually... is he just being friendly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I know I should be asking him this but wanted your opinion on it. Its about my boyfriend, we been dating for 3 months. I just don't feel like he likes me, sexually. He does do a lot of nice things for me like a friend would do, like help me if ...

Should I feel guilty because I sit at a community table talking politics and local government with these old men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have never done anything in all of my years of marriage that is unfaithful I've never even thought of it to be honest I've always loved my husband even though he has been mentally and emotionally abusive to me for the entire marriage. In our home ...

Torn between my best friend and my current boyfriend, how do I manage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I am really confused !! i don't know what should i do with my life !! 1st my boyfriend , 2nd my best friend. Help Me Please !! My boyfriend had changed his treatment with me , because like he say i don't show him that i love him ,he says when i s...

How pornographic material affects relationships

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I want to weigh in on the debate that keeps coming up. My partner used to want me to imagine other girls during sex and I was never comfortable with this. In the end I agreed to try it out to help please her. I was always thinking of her though. I...

Is she losing interest or scared of been hurt again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few month now and we were completely loved up, we couldnt get enough of each other, she was upset i was there for her, id stay with her all night just to get her smiling again. Before we got together ...

Friend said rather insulting comment to me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - First of all thanks to couple of people who replied to my problem yesterday. (boyfriend looking at other women) I was talking to a male friend about my problem with my boyfriend, and my male friend who is 64 years old turned around and said ...

The sex is just not happening!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - What happens when sex just doesn't happen? We "try" to have sex but I am too large (according to him). I don't know what else to do. I have contemplated leaving as we have been together for 10 months and maybe twice have had successful sexual ...

Is there a way to stop this unwanted attention from his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I'm currently 16 years old, and I got asked out last September for the first time. We did not talk much for the first 4months as I was shy. After getting into arguments, I decided just to go for it and now we are closer than I have ever been to ...

I'm not quite sure if I like her or not but I find myself thinking of her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Theres this girl i met at a friends barbeque a couple of weeks ago. Since then shes texted me, given me her number, asked me how my day was, called me at night and talked about her life, complimented me over the phone, laughed alot and listened to ...

I don't want to walk away and he says he doesn't want to lose me but he's doing everything he can to lose me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Should things be improving in a relationship when its nearly 6month in. I only see my bf a a couple of nights a week and its only for a couple of hours. It feels like a long distant relationship but he only lives a few mins away from me. He never ma...

Why does this guy take all these pictures of me and want more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi All. I have a strange question to ask.I am a woman in her mid 60's i am fit and not unattractive,i excersize every day. well lately this young man he tells me he is 42 has struck up a conversation with me and walks along with me.he seemed n...

How do I handle a man who thinks its funny to wind me up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - HI I am in a relationship with a man and have been for about 7yrs, we get on fine most of the time but what i am finding annoying about him is him saying I love tormenting you because i love the way you bite back;I'm beginning to feel he has no r...

She says her feelings for me are more of a brotherly nature

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4675 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Help needed with a relationship :( Hi! I hope you can help me? We have been seeing each other for 2 years now, she has bipolar and is married with 2 kids. She does not get along with her husband anymore, they sleep in seperate rooms and have ...

My boss is absurd and I want to quit my job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I want to quit my job cos the boss is really getting on my nerves. he does things that are absurd. I do the cleanings in the office all alone and instead of the boss to appreciate it, but rather he made me regret of doing it. one day, I swept his ...

How do I accept that this isnt going anywhere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. So I'm 30, female and recently met this perfect man of 27. We met at weekend in a bar bout 3am. Went back to his, didn't sleep together, had fun though. Straight away I thought there's something about him, his perfect for me. I ...

Why is she behaving like this with her new guy when she never did with me? And will she ever come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Alright so im new to this but here we go. I dated a girl for a month treated her very well as all my friends said always was there for her. I always sent good morning text's. I left her video messages on her facebook. We didn't get to see each other ...

Do I wait for him to leave his girlfriend or just walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (?) - Hi everyone got a bit of a issue and would love all opinions on it. I started a new job about 6 months ago and I met this guy there which I got along with great straight away. We were always flirting and he got a new girlfriend who lives on the...

My guy spends more time with an old woman than his gf!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Can anyone help me on this one. Ive being going with a guy for 5month, yet he still keeps me a secret. None of his family know and Im sure that only one of his friends know about me. When he is at his parents house he does not text me, even when he ...

I think our roomie is flirting with me, should I tell my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - hey everyone im just wondering if anyone else views this situation the way i do.. so here goes, i live with my fiance and a friend of his that is a guy. we have all been living together about 6 months or so. at first i wasnt very comfortable a...

He feels the situation is ok because we are not married yet, apparently I need the 'wife' status first before he helps me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - My fiancé and I were going to get married this year. Then he got a job that involves being away from home for 4 to 6 weeks at a time. He’s been doing this for 5 months now. He only gets paid at the end of each contract. I’ve got to manage our home ...

40 year age gap, is it worth the envitable heartache?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 27 and dating a man who is 68. We have been together almost a year and some of our friends and family know but I do often question my sanity for dating someone so much older. Before starting this relationship I had a few longer ones with men ...

Why does he say yes to talking to me online when he always falls asleep?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I Feel like I am going crazy! I am in a long distance relationship with an amazing man for a year and a half. He has to kids, owns his own business and drives four hours to come see me almost every week. I am an assistant in a busy salon, am full ...

She is turned off by sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Me and my fiancee have been together for 2 1/2 years. In this time we have both gotten good jobs, and a nice apartment. We go out on dates and enjoy spending time together as a couple. The problem is, she is totally turned off by sex. To the point ...

Will my gay best friend ever want to date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I know this is so dumb... but my one and only friend is gay and I really really like him and really wish he wasn't gay. He's everything i want in a person and I know he admires me and loves me, except he's GAY!!! has anyone ever heard of a gay gu...

I never ask for anything from him and all I wanted was to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I really really really wanted to see my boyfriend today only for like an hour or 2 and I asked him threw a text if he was ok with me coming over? My real reasoning is cause I wanted sex but I figured I should be nice about it and ask him just if we ...

Porn and hurtful google searches found on my boyfriend's computer......I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, so I need some advice, I recently found some things on my boyfriends computer that really confused/upset me. Some background: ~We met at University and have been dating for 21/2 years now. ~I am his 1st girlfriend although I ha...

My girlfriend wont go to the doctor about a potential STD! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

30 March 2011 (?) - my gf about 6 months ago had sex with another man during our break up and just now she notced red bumps on her breast where this other guy had licked before and she thinks it could be an STD the bumps are itchy and no pain and she won't go to the ...

My long distance boyfriend broke up with me for family reasons. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I've dated for boyfriend for 9 months now, 6 of which he has lived on the other side of the country. It's a two day drive to get there, so we normally just fly back and forth. I'm still here in the city in which I've been born and raised. I'm ...

We have very different sex drives! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - im in a same sex, long distance relationship. my girlfriend and i have been together for 1year but only get to see each other every other weekend. my problem is that we have very different sex drives! i have a low sex drive and consider sex onc...

My boyfriend has become distant; will this change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - ok me and my boyfriend had a fight the other night cause i didnt trust where he was when he went drinking and he text me the next day saying hes not happy anymore so i went round to his and he was in a kind of mood/trance type thing looking totally ...

His Laziness is Ruining Our Relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I am 22, my boyfriend is 26. We’ve been dating for almost two years, and the life of our relationship is wonderful. He’s a great guy, very caring, in touch with my emotional needs. We have that chemistry everyone talks about, he makes me laugh, and ...

I've known him for 27 years and don't know if I'm on the right path...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have know my boyfriend for 27 years and been with him since 1999 (11 years) We now have an 8 year that he adores. He is also very supportive to my older teenagers. I have been having doubts about the relationship as I do not feel he is total...