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My girlfriend wont go to the doctor about a potential STD! What can I do?

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Question - (30 March 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2011)
A age 30-35, * writes:

my gf about 6 months ago had sex with another man during our break up and just now she notced red bumps on her breast where this other guy had licked before and she thinks it could be an STD the bumps are itchy and no pain and she won't go to the doctor till summer cause its to costly and she is to embarrassed to go what do i do?

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (6 April 2011):

largentsgirl89 agony auntIt could just be a skin irritation from new laundry soap or a bra that doesn't fit right, but if your gf is unsure of her STD status then she should def get checked just in case. Most places offer 100% privacy to minors and won't give the information out to anyone.

She needs to get checked. Needs to. As for the bumps on her breast I am unsure as to what those are for sure, it does sound like just a skin irritation, but only a doctor is going to know for sure.

If she is old enough and mature enough to have sex then she should be mature enough to know that she has to protect herself and to do that she needs to be screened. I know it can be embarrassing, but these are trained health professionals and they aren't going to judge your gf. They will more than likely be happy that she went in.

How is summer coming along going to make the cost any lower than it would be now? IF she has something serious it needs to be treated as soon as possible.

GOod luck to you and your gf.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2011):

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the right breast around her nipple they only become inflamed after a shower she slept with that guy 4 and a half months ago and the bumps appeared 2 or 3 weeks ago

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (30 March 2011):

largentsgirl89 agony auntWhich breast are the bumps on? IS it a lot of bumps or just a few? How long ago did she sleep with the guy and when did the bumps appear? How long after she slept with him did the bumps appear?

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