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writes:I feel inferior to my boyfriend coz he is very much social. He has got a lot of girlfriends, and he goes out with them. I feel hurt when he is doing this. I have discussed the problem with him,but he says that it's all coz am not social. And also he has a good world wide knowledge, but am not up to his level..he teases me very badly for these..i get irritated..these often leads to a fight. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011): He is putting you down, which means that he doesn't value you.You should never put up with this, not for another second.He thinks he is superior to you, and reminds you of that, which is not what a good relationship is about.Good relationships make both people feel better about themselves, you will know that you are with "the one" when you feel better about yourself when you think of him, are with him, and when he talks to you or about you.By the way, he isn't superior to you because of these things you mention, he is just different. He puts you down because of his own insecurity about himself, it has nothing to do with you.Good luck, find someone who loves you.
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reader, VioletSparkle  +, writes (30 March 2011):
https://www.justgive.org/how-to-give/giving-resources/ideas-for-volunteering.jsphttp://volunteerguide.org/volunteer/fifteenminutes.htma couple of ideas :-) but if you like cooking, that is also an interest, just act upon it ;-)
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reader, VioletSparkle +, writes (30 March 2011):
I agree with the previous comment, and also what about going to a cool trip, maybe to volunteer or I don't know what your interests are, and if you don't have too many interests, maybe get some? Who cares about "his" world knowledge, are you satisfied with yours? If you are not very worldly but still satisfied with it, then maybe you need a less sophisticated boyfriend, and you can leave this one with all his girlfriends.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (30 March 2011):
 That's pretty rude of him. Not only does he pick on you about your feelings, but then teases you because you haven't been fortunate enough in your life so far to be "worldly." Sounds like a jerk. I don't think I'd stick around for that crap. Find someone who treasures you, not someone who belittles you.
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