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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Can anyone help me on this one. Ive being going with a guy for 5month, yet he still keeps me a secret. None of his family know and Im sure that only one of his friends know about me.When he is at his parents house he does not text me, even when he is in his local pub on his own he will send me a couple of texts then stop. He was in the local pub last night but he couldnt even say to me come round and have a drink, infact he didnt even tell me he was there! I just happened to walk past and saw him, he was on his own watching the footie.We had a good weekend together we went out on saturday night and a nice day on Sunday we went for a walk on the beach. This is how good it could be! He never makes plans to see me so its the same every week wondering when I am going to see him.Ive talked to him about seeing me more but he just says 'i know i should be, its just i am busy or shatterd, but I love you'. He also lives really close to me too, like 5min walk.He spends most of his time with a 65year old women as he looks after her pigeons but he is at her house nearly every night and when he is there he doesnt text me either. Infact he lies about when he is there, and this is really annoying me.What should I do please help.
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reader, MamaBear +, writes (30 March 2011):
My suggestion is to find a guy who is at least available. Maybe not 100% of the time, but one who will make a plan or let you know what to expect. You have no idea what transpires with the "old lady and her pigeons" that you mentioned. Maybe it's a grandmother and maybe the birds are his. But, move on and find someone fun, more interesting and alive!
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