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Archived questions from: 9 March, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I cant sleep with my boyfriend's snoring!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey readers, I don't know what to do - whenever I spend the night with my bf, his snoring and loud breathing keeps me awake so I can't get to sleep til, like, 5am! I don't know what to do about it. We've been together 6 months, and he knows he ...

I'm 20, married, and have a 2 yr old. I have no car so I'm stuck at home all the time, and my husband doesn't help out at home. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Ok, I am 20 yrs old. I got married when I turned 19 I have a 2 yr old daughter. I’m really confused, I don’t know what I want and I don’t know what to do. I’m not happy, that much I know. I have no vehicle, and I sit in this house with my daughter ...

Is my current relationship lowering my self-esteem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4807 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupid Please read the entire post I had one bf before the current relationship. My ex-bf was extremely clingy type with no self-esteem at all. I broke up with him and he still send me messages. My current bf is the extreme oppoiste of my...

My family controls my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - im 19 and still live at home and i cant tak eit anymore. i can move out and have no where to go, my whole life is being controlled by everyone in the house. My sister gets angry at me over small things calling me and swairing at me that pushes my ...

My step-dad is emotionally abusive to my mother, half sister, and myself. How can I help my mum leave this man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I need advise desperately! This question isn't really about me it’s about my mum. My parents split up when I was 7, and when I was 9 my mum found someone else. He wasn't really the perfect step-dad for me. I didn’t really like him much, never ...

My married lover's wife found out about me, so I went over to their house and confronted him. I told her everything, and now he won't speak with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hiya, I'm Sharon, I'm 41 and broken hearted. I was seeing a married man that I've known since school days. He texted me and called me for years. Then last year it became intimate. He is a lorry driver and I'm a door step collector. Our jobs have ...

Something is nagging me about my boyfriend's past. Should you be honest about your feelings or let the past go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I just have a short question. Something is nagging me about my boyfriend's past. I am aware that he cannot change it, and perhaps I am over-analyzing or exaggerating things. I am not sure if the answer from him would affect my feelings or not. ...

I found photos of my husband at a big fancy party that he attended without telling me! He said he was going to play pool with friends! I'm I crazy to worry about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - My husband went to a birthday party for his friends' wife without me (I knew some of the party attendees, but have not socialized with them in over ten years, not because of a falling out or anything, just because of busy lives). He went to this ...

My Clingy Ex Boyfriend Won't Move On! Please Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Okay so about 6 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. To be honest I should not have gone out with him in the first place, because I only really ever saw him as a good friend, but I was only 16, it was my first long term relationship ...

My best friend took my boyfriend's number from my phone while I was sleeping, and now she's texting him! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Ok I guess I'll just get to the point. There's this guy I REALLY like I even think I might be falling in love with. I will call him “Steve”. I was at my cousin’s house along with three other people (one of which is my very best friend). I showed m...

My boyfriend threatens to hit me, and breaks up with me when he wants to sleep with other girls. He wants me to move in with him. Can he really change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I hope that you can help me. I can't trust my family or friend’s opinion because they're obviously going to take my side. Alright so my boyfriend of a year is asking me to move back with him. I love him very much but he has done so many awful things ...

I don't understand these feelings I am having. I'm don't want to lose my boyfriend, but I don't know if my feeliings have faded. I need some guidance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey. Thank you to the person who answered my last question. It helped me a lot, but I’m still struggling. I’m just wondering if anyone can help... I've been with my boyfriend 8 and half months. I REALLY don't want to lose him but I don’t know wha...

I'm 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend is acting shady!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Today I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to go out and get something to eat i wanted to go to the olive garden i had money and everything It was his day off today and I wanted to see if he wanted to do something instead of sitting around doin...

My girlfriend wants us to stay in different rooms for a month!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - my girlfriend turned round to me as i was about to get into bed last night and said she wanted us to stay in different rooms and not have sex for a month so she can work herself out and that it wont be a problem if i love her. Someone tell me how i ...

She lied to me and I was completely honest with her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, I just need some help and advice. I am m27 engaged to someone I truly love and adore f21. Both of us know each other for last 8 months. I cleared and said everything about my past and she did the same as well. Now 3 days back, i...

My b/f knows I'm falling for my boss. Should I tell my boss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Ok so I am 19 years old and currently married to my partner whom I love but I have started to fall for my boss who is 20 years older than me and he has a girlfriend I am really upset about all of this i do not want to hurt my partner.. He already ...

He doesn't want to marry me because I never let him win??

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

9 March 2011 (?) - I'm in shock and lost for words right now. My boyfriend/fiance of about 6 years off and on finally told me last night that the reason he has been so hesitant on marrying me is because he has worked his whole life on his business, and if he ever got ...

I should move on but I think of him all the time. Should I call him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Not sure sex buddy or more? I was living in Sydney and meet a guy who was nice, and would all ways bump in to him in the most random places and call me at random times,but like me had commitment issues. For months we would hook up on a night out a...

Is he playing mind games like my exes?

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9 March 2011 (F) - Hello, hope you can help me.This may be long so i apologise in advance. I have been with my boyfriend now for just over two months and so far it has been quite a bumpy road... I'd known him for three years previously and we got along well enoug...

I just need a friend, but he wants more..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I don't know how to tell him that i am not intrested in a love relationship,and i just need a friend who cares for me....

Why would he give permission to sleep with another man if he loved me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I feel totally stuck in a rut situation. My relationship broke down recently, we were together 7 yrs on and off with him going between 2 homes mine and his mums, he is 42 and his mum 72. We parted at xmas and have recently starting getting along ...

She's shy and now won't even be my friend, how do I change this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I have a girl in my class. I like her very much. I used to talk to her daily. We just become friends. Problem is that our classmates used to say that we were in relationship. She is a bit shy and doesnt like this, that someone is saying that we are ...

How much space should I give him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my Bf for 4 months, but we were best mates for 3 years. The 1st 2 months were perfect, we went on holiday together evry thing was great then Out of the blue a local girl announced the baby she has just had is his. DNA test been ...

I don't want this guy to move on, but I miss my freedom as I'm only 16!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey, thanks for taking the time to answer this question, as much help as possible would be great. First off, I work with this guy in the same pub. We met this way, and started dating. We then soon got together. I have now been with him for 6...

My fiance dated his cousin in the past, and I think he is still in love with her. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi! I am 24 years old. My fiancee's past girlfriend is his cousin, and as she is his cousin he is still in contact with her. I think they were in a serious relationship and he has not forgotten her yet. I don't feel loved when he says he loves me. ...

I have an intense urge to wear female clothes when I'm having sex with my girlfriend, but she is fed up with this. I need your advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I’m a 23 year old guy with a very normal life. I have been quite lucky with a number of gals I have had in my life and I’m completely straight. But I have this great urge inside to wear sexy female dresses, and this started during my college days. I ...

I feel my teacher is being two-faced, and she will be writing my resume at the end of the year! How should I handle this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi all, any help would be appreciated. I'm from Singapore and am currently preparing for my national exams. Recently however, I've come under fire with my civics tutor as I did not inform her about an upcoming service learning event. To make a long ...

I want more of my boyfriend, but he says we can't fall in love. What should I do to be with him more, make him happy, and keep my mind off of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I have my first boyfriend, and I have taken the initiative to maintain this relationship. There is a 7 year age difference between us. He is charming and loving, but insists that I not fall in love with him and that he can’t do the same for me. We ...

This question is for the guys. What does it mean when a guy says "I never meant to...(e.g. hurt you).)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - What is the meaning of "I NEVER MEANT TO"? I thought I knew the meaning of the phrase, “I never meant to”...but now I realise that I don’t. This question is mainly for the MALES. Guys, what is the meaning of the sentence, “I never meant to...(e....

He forgot so much, so I ended it, but now I want him back.

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9 March 2011 (F) - Help me please, i just did something stupid. Well my boyfriend and I have been together for five years now. Recently, he started giving excuses with being together. He stopped texting,forgot my birthday and I got paranoid. I asked him why and he ...

My boyfriend is still visiting prostitutes - help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years is still visiting prostitutes despite us both going to counselling and him promising it is in the past. He left his email open recently and I saw a contact in there which was written on a piece of paper last year.... ...

I want to be approachable, but how!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - i'm quite a shy person, but when i'm with a group of people that i know well i come out of my shell. i really want to have this talkative, fun personality with whoever i'm with, because if i'm in a group of people where i don;t know so many of them ...

I made a couple of mistakes, but now he won't take me back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I started going out last April after seeing each other for a month. It was amazing and then at the end of November I ended it because I felt that things were going to fast as he wanted to move in with me and said he wanted to marry ...

My girlfriend's behavior is manipulative, mean and controlling and I feel helpless because my pride, respect and self-esteem is being crushed..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - i'm not sure what it is i'm doing wrong. i've been dating my girlfriend for nearly 4 years. she's 5 years older than me but personally, i've never cared about age. gradually over the years, like many relationships, you are either good or you star...

I'm not sure how to take this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - i have been with my partner who is 27 for a year and a half now, he suffers from severe anxiety so every now and then he likes to be alone as he gets frustrated being around the same person for too long. today in the car he told me, "sometimes i w...

Is it worth patching back with a emotionally abusive and a possessive bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - She's in a relationship with this guy for about 5 years now. She went through a lot of emotional hurt, got slapped once by her bf, and she cried a lot as well. Went through many break ups, but patched back with him. She claims he's possessive, ...

How do I handle someone like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - HELP! I can NOT stand my boyfriend's sister. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years and just recently, I have started to have these negative feelings towards her. Don't get me wrong, she can be nice and very helpful when it comes ...

Will she stay with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - i am in a relationship with a girl aged 17 and i am 21. i am not good to look at but as my friend have said, i have a lot of sex appeal. besides i am a middle class boy and my girl belongs to the class which is the wealthies in india. she is a very ...

Dumped for being too clingy after a 2 month relationship, should I text her after a month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - This is pretty long so im sorry in advance. Me and my ex dated for 2 months and i was her first boyfriend, we're both 18. She dumped me after 2 months saying things like we're not meant to be and i dont feel the same anymore etc etc, but she really ...

Is he or has he been cheating? How do I not run back to him? Please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Has he cheated AGAIN? how do I stay away from him? My boyfriend have been together almost 3 years and we have one child together. We have both cheated on each other. Unlike him i came forward and admitted it. I hassles him for a whole year only to ...

I'm angry at everything and everyone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I need help! I am angry about everything! Everything irritates me and upsets me, to the point that I'm never happy. I stress out so much and I can't think straight and I don't know what to do, I don't want to live like this anymore. I'm sick of ...

I have a boyfriend, but I'm crushing on a guy at my new job! Is this normal? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hey everybody.. I need advice badly! So I have been with my boyfriend for one year and I'm madly in love with him. I mean he's like my best friend and were so happy together. I just got a new job and there's a guy there that's super cute and very ...

He doesn't trust me, I'm pregnant, and now every tiny thing turns into a fight...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - i'm from tennessee, i just moved to new york to be closer to my mom. i met this guy up here, we started talkin and hanging out...ended up gettin serious fast..in the mean time, not ready to settle down i was Texting other ppl also not thinkin ...

I found an email that proved my husband lied. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I had a situation with my husband a while back about a women and some lies that he had told me. We tried to fix the situation as best as we could and moved on with our lives. It still hurts once in a while but I try to not let it bother me...

I am helping to raise a child my girlfriend conceived while we were broken up. She needs me, but I feel used, and want to leave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. So a little history about my relationship. It's been really rocky. My girlfriend and I have never had an easy relationship. We've dealt with a lot of lies and cheating, and we've been on and off for five years. In a month that we broke...

Have not talked to my boyfriend in 4 days

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Let me give some background. Two years ago my boyfriend and best friend had a falling out. My best friend told my boyfriend that he better not hurt me or she would try and find someone to beat him up. I can understand why my boyfriend doesn't like ...

How do I get my friend back? We were friends, then dated for 2 weeks, and then she dumped me! I desperately need some good suggestions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I need help. I have posted a few times on this issue, and I am still mentally and physically destroying myself over it. I'll summarize: We were good friends for a year and a half Ended up dating for 2 weeks (sex included) Had no issues...

I am having an affair with my friend's wife! Is it okay to keep on with this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I am having a relationship with my friend's wife. She is a wonderful lady but her husband is a real jerk. My relationship started 10 years ago when her husband left overseas for work. Then we just talked over the phone and had lunch. Subsequently ...

I have a boyfriend, but I am falling for a guy in one of my classes! Any thoughts or suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I love him dearly. We have had our issues and we even broke up once (only for a few days). However, we have managed to form a pretty healthy relationship and we are in a really good place right ...

Should I disobey my parents and date this guy? Also, how do I handle comments from my friends about this guy? Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - I really like this guy, but for starters, I am forbidden to date in high school and I have gotten so caught up in what everyone else has said or will say about us dating. I think this relationship could really go places, but I am concerned what ...

When would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - In a relationship, when would you consider a girl "clingy"? And how often is "too often" to contact your boyfriend? I'm not looking for extreme examples, but how much space do guys usually need? I really don't want to be considered the clingy ...

My boyfriend of 4 years told me he kissed a girl on New Years. Now she says she is pregnant and it was from that night! I need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been in a relationship for the past four years. Recently, my boyfriend told me that on New Year's night of this year he was really drunk and kissed another girl. I asked him if anything else happened and he said, "no ...

My boyfriend makes me happy and treats me well, but it feels like something is wrong. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - Please help, I'm sooo confused. I've been with my boyfriend 2 years this month and things between us are good. I care about him a lot and I can't see us breaking up anytime soon but sometimes I just get so confused. I don't think I feel about hi...

My boyfriend is always busy with work! I feel like second place. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

9 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is always very busy as he runs his own business. While we have had our problems due to him practically ignoring me and backing away from promises we have worked them out. As we always try to communicate our feelings and concerns. T...

A friend kissed me, I told my girlfriend about it, but I'm still anxious!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I am currently in a long distance relationship and last weekend went out with some friends. I was quite drunk and so was one of my friends and she kissed me. It took me a couple of seconds to react mainly due to my drunkeness but I pushed her away. ...

Every time I come out of a relationship, I'm never truly happy again until I find somebody else. Why can't I just get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

9 March 2011 (M) - I've not long come out of a relationship that I was very sad to lose. My most recent ex is a lovely girl who made me very happy while we were together, but I must accept that unless a time comes where distance and university are no longer obstacles ...