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She is turned off by sex!

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Question - (30 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Me and my fiancee have been together for 2 1/2 years. In this time we have both gotten good jobs, and a nice apartment. We go out on dates and enjoy spending time together as a couple. The problem is, she is totally turned off by sex. To the point where she doesnt like it if i touch in bed. We have not had sex in a month and a half, and even the last time, it took alot of begging on my part. Help me please

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2011):

You really need to discuss this with her. You'll find it impossible being married to her knowing that you want sex, and she really, really doesn't. Realistically, your relationship won't survive it.

There must be a reason that she acts this way, and if she is to marry you, she must come clean. She can't hide away from it, because sex plays a vital role in relationships. It's clearly not the only thing that matters, but it is important. It's not fair for her to expect you to sit there twiddling your thumbs about sex for the rest of your life. She needs to be honest and open, and then you can think some more. Talk to her.

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