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The sex is just not happening!!

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Question - (30 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What happens when sex just doesn't happen? We "try" to have sex but I am too large (according to him). I don't know what else to do. I have contemplated leaving as we have been together for 10 months and maybe twice have had successful sexual intercourse. We have tried alot of things to 'help' this but it's an all out tease most of the time then i'm asked to stop when i'm barely in.

I'm 34 years old and I've never had this problem before. I feel quite embarassed even having to ask but I do love this person with all my heart. Hints have even been thrown as to only have an "oral" relationship. Does that really work for a lifetime? Any thoughts or suggestions are appreciated.

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A female reader, Julliet Canada +, writes (30 March 2011):

Julliet agony auntOral for lifetime will not work...hey I know most guys like oral...but they like other things too, so I think eventually he will look else where...have you tried just using your fingers for a while...one finger then two then three eventually four...this might relax him...try toys too...go to the sexy store and buy some lubricants and toys...to loosen him up...keep working at it until he's relaxed...good luck...

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