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Archived questions from: 5 March, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I let him see his son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years has agreed to let his ex-wife move back in with him. she left him and the kids and moved country. he gave up his job to raise the kids. she now wants back into the house and he has agreed for the kids sake to share the ...

I lent my sister's family money when they were suffering, but I feel used and I'm ready to break ties with my family! Am I right or am I being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - My problem is my family (this could be a long one!!). I’m the youngest of three and come from a traditional background. Unlike my elder sister, I rebelled in every sense. I broke boundaries as I refused to be treated differently because I’m a ...

Recently, I've reunited with a boyfriend after 3 yrs apart. I struggle with the fact that I just can't trust him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Recently, I got back with my partner after a 3 year split. I love him with all my heart, but I don’t trust him. He’s been ringing his ex girlfriend and I don’t know if he’s meeting up with her behind my back. It’s driving me insane. I’m ...

Should I continue to reach out to him, should I give him more space, or should I drop this thing altogether? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - So, I've been seeing this guy for a while. He has extremely low self esteem and thinks that I'm better off without him. He opened up to me last weekend about a number of things, but now he's acting like I don't exist, which is sort of confusing. He ...

What does 'fighting for him' mean? I don't understand what he wants

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - So I met my boyfriend, let's call him Dave, through my ex-boyfriend, who we'll call Bill, on an online game. After Bill and I broke up, we stayed in contact and have become good friends. I've known Bill for almost four years, and I've known Dave ...

Has acting out on our sexual urges (and achieving disappointing results) ruined what might have been a promising friendship? Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - (Disclaimer: Apologies, this might get a little too long and quite detailed, but it's been bothering me non-stop for months.) Last August, I met a 34-year old musician who, it seemed, I shared similar interests with (We got to talking when he sat a...

Has my boyfriend lost interest? If so, how do I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - We've been dating for five months, and our communication has become pretty sparse. For the past week or so, it's become so that if I don't initiate the conversation, we just don't communicate at all for days. And he's always online on his ...

I am pregnant, boyfriend acting weird and I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Im 21 and 36weeks pregnant, my baby father started to act werid around me for the last two months I would have to beg himto spend time with me an now he wants his space he ignors my calls an texts I know I shouldnt want to be with him cause the way ...

I am developing feelings for a man that I know I can never be with. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Hello I hope you will respond. I have a friend, he is 4 years older than myself and we have been friends for four years. However, we are not friends in the normal sense. We have never hung out, gone for coffee, a drink etc. He is a player, he lik...

Why am I not getting angry even when treated like dirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Hi My bf and i was together for 1.5 years. i cant say it was great, we had our ups and downs. But lately i started to feel that my outlook on things changed. Before i used to be very agressive and if someone accuses me of something and ev...

My fiance wants to go to a girl's party without me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm seeking some advice because I am so hurt right now I want to know if i'm right or wrong here. Basically I live with my partner of 4 years and we love each other and I do so much for him and him me likewise, he has travelled qu...

Boyfriend makes 5X what I do and is now calling me a gold digger for questioning the way he splits the bills

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I'll try to make this brief. In a nutshell I have been seeing this guy for over a year, and my son (toddler) and I moved into his house a couple of months ago. Its a big beautiful house, he has only asked I pay a quarter of the mortgage. I am ...

I need your help on this one guys...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Well this maybe lengthy but i try to keep it short. I met this guy while separated. I told him I was. He was ok with it we pursue an relationship but i told him slow. Anyway he told me he had three children( girls). All by different mothers. He also ...

What am I getting out of this relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I'm confused right now. I've been with my boyfriend for a year. I live in my own house and he lives with his family. We meet at my house and go out occssionally. My problem is that I don't think he cares about me. He was supposed to come to my house ...

Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I'm 21 this eyar and quite mature seeing as i have had a bad childhood-abused by my father and groomed by a peadophile. I've known this guy for over a year its been on and off so much. we would get serious and he would leave me. hes had a bad ch...

Should I fight to stay in my marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - My husband of a year and 2 months; wants a divorce he was yelling for a year that we need to go our separate ways then we got married and it changed to he want out and now two years later it's he's gone but he will finish out the lease which ends in ...

I want to get married, he won't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I love him and want to get married but he won't. Basically at the beginning of our relationship I messed up by talking to my ex and lying about it and now he doesn't trust me. He says he loves me and ...

I'm not a virgin, but I've decided not to have sex again til marriage. This seems to drive men off! Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - My problem seems kind of funny, so laugh if you want, but I'm getting a bit frustrated. Although I didn't grow up religious, I'd had a rough time in life and turned to the church. This was a few years ago and I'm now a devout Christian, and have ...

I met a guy at a party and we've met up to have sex several times. Now he is ignoring me. What did I do wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy at a party 6 weeks ago, we chatted for ages and ended up sleeping together. We exchanged numbers and texted each other during the week. At the weekend I went out drinking with friends and ended up sending him a text to meet that night. ...

I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I got pregnant and my parents will kick me out if I don't have an abortion. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Hello my name is Jane and I am 18 years old. My parents are from Nigeria and I was born and raised here in Alabama. I am 17 weeks pregnant and my parents want me to get an abortion. I don’t want one, so they are going to kick me out next ...

I don't have concrete evidence, but my gut tells me my boyfriend is cheating! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 8 years has gone from having some porn on is pc to something like 16 porn sites. I don't mind that, but I’ve found him on a dating site. I challenged him and he's no longer on it, but I have a feeling he's cheating on me. Over the ...

Boyfriend is abusive to me. So why do I put up with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I know the answer to this so I think I am just writing it to get it out into the world. My boyfriend moved in with me about a year ago. Before he moved in we would sometimes verbally fight but I was always able to leave and go back to my own house. ...

How to forget my affair and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Last summer I went abroad and spent almost 5 months there. I had a fiancé in my hometown at that time and I loved him, but I needed to get some work experience, and so I left. I didn't plan on doing anything but work, but I happened...

Do I leave my liar boyfriend?

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5 March 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and i am very much inlove, he says he is too but i can not believe him. he recently admitted that he lies a lot but blamed me and said if he ever mentions a womans name i would go mad, which is not ...

Is it all lies? am I supposed to believe it? Can anyone confirm the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - is it true that a woman who has been with her partner for a given period, and where he has a small penis, would she get sick of it after a while and wish for a man with a bigger penis ? Because after a while does her vagina get bigger to the poin...

What am I supposed to make of her actions? she's still affectionate. We've broken up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4808 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - Ok so I'm 25 years old and my son's mother is 20 years old. We have been in a relationship for six years. Now she is saying that she doesn't know what she wants, but that she needs her time to think and figure out what shes looking for. So we ended...

If we can't date I'd rather just get over him but I see him 2-3 times a week

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I've had a crush on a guy I met in my martial arts class for six months. I was super attracted to him from the beginning and I started flirting with him. Because of our interactions, I started getting the feeling that my feelings were mutual, but I ...

I have let myself be "molded" into what hubsand wanted in a wife,and now I don't know who I am or how to find me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I am turning 30 in a week. I cant help but look back at my 20's and think the only good that came of them were my 2 kids. My relationship has been more rocky than happy lately. I only have a high school diploma no further education,no job in the ...

How do I increase my sense of security in my relationship??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4812 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - I am extremely jealous of my boyfriend's ex. We have been going out for a year now and have lived together for 6 months. It all started before we were living together she came to his house at 4 in the morning and made a huge scene cops were called ...

My boyfriend may be into transexuals, based on a few clues, what should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - THiS iS VERY iMPORTANT!!!!!!! i NEED SOMEONES HElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -My boyfriend is very much straight,i believe.Hes such a manly man.but over these passed 5 months ive experienced things that make me think hes somewhat bisexual or maybe has a certain ...

Am I ready to settle down with this girl who's sexually more experienced than me or do I need to go away and have more sexual partners?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - I am in my early thirties. My girlfriend is in her late twenties. She is my first real girlfriend. Sad I know but I just hadn't been in the right places at the right time to meet that somebody special until last year. Basically I am not exactly Mr ...

My girlfriend is incredibly blunt and moody with me and I am not sure if I can take much more of walking on eggshells....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

5 March 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is 42 and I m 38. We have been having a long distance relationship for 5 months. I visit her every other weekend and on the whole it is great. However, she can be incredibly blunt and moody with me even if something that has annoyed ...

Should I get in touch with an old love after he supposedly said really mean and nasty things about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

5 March 2011 (F) - A few years ago, my partner's best friend (let's call him "C") was living in a camper in the backyard. C would always make me dinner and we would hang out in the yard every night. Then suddenly we were hanging out all the time, every day, every ...