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Why am I attracted to someone I hate?

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Question - (30 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm a 15 year old boy and have discovered I'm attracted physically and emotionally to this boy i hate! I'm not sure what to do about it and could use some advice! I have been bi for 3 years now.

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A male reader, Jackalus United Kingdom +, writes (3 April 2011):

You don't like him really. You just think you do. Almost all guys and girls go through the stage of questioning who they like.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011):

It could just mean you have a crush.

At your age, I also hated boys that made me feel vulnerable.

Maybe think of it this way?: You like him and you want him to like you, but you don't like feeling so emotionally dependant on a person. You find reasons to "hate" the person rather than admit you're attracted to them.

The hatred might just be a side effect of your vulnerability towards him, not the primary emotion.

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