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Archived questions from: 28 March, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He doesn't deserve my trust or faith but is love worth the gamble?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (?) - This is a bit long because I feel like I should explain everything. I met this guy randomly on a night out. I was feeling a bit down cos my little sister had recently moved in with her boyfriend leaving me the only one in the family single (e...

Why does this girl blurt out bits and piece of her past, and was she a cheater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4785 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - So guys, I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, and she keeps telling me bits and pieces of her past, without me asking her to, so not too long ago we were having some alone time, and again she blurts more things out, and I ask her "why are ...

I lied to my fiance about my sexual past because I didn't want him to think I was a slut

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I have not been totally honest with my fiance... i did not want him to think i was a slut so i lied to him about how many people i have slept with and the kinds of things i have done. i had very low self esteem and emotionally abusive parents so i ...

I hate feeling like his sugar son!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Hi all, I've been in a relationship with my partner (also male) for the past 5 years. He's done a lot for me, i.e been very supportive of my new career, moved to a new part of the country to be with me etc. When we first moved in togethe...

He's got me and her and I'm left alone 4 nights a week

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - hi been with my guy for 11 yrs why wont he become a fully grown couple. i already know what ishould do but i love him so much. you see we were both in relationships when it started we were each others 3 legged stool. he left his wife but i never at ...

I was too pushy, what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy who really liked me and made it obvious. He chased me for ages. He started to text me regulalry and then suddenlyy stopped. Then I started to text him and went a bit over board. I told him I really liked him and he backed off comepole...

We had an affair now he doesn't seem to care

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some help getting some answers on something I did and something that happened to me recently. I was in a relationship but noit very happy. I considered leaving the relationship but cared about my bf and wanted to see if we could wo...

Boyfriend invited girl he used to crush on to his holiday house and now the trip is ruined for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has decided that in the Summer, he wants to take me and some friends to his holiday house. This sounded great to me and I couldn't wait for it. He has now invited a girl he used to fancy (and who, in all honesty, I feel I was 2nd best ...

B/f confessed that he is married with a child on the way in 3 months! I didn't see this and am devastated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Until yesterday I was seeing a guy for about 6 months - we just dated and spent the odd weekend together. Two days ago he came over to my house and sat down and said he had something to tell me. He was married, already had a two year old and as I ...

We keep butting heads, I want to work it out, any suggestions??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4786 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Hi, i'm 26 and i'm in a 3 way relationship. i'm not very good at things like this so i try very hard to make sure i do the right thing. both of the other men with me r 2x my age. one of them i get along with very well but the other one is just like ...

I'm six months pregnant and he does not want to have sex, how do I get him interested??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I am 6 months pregnant and my fiance turned me down when I wanted to have sex a few weeks ago. I was really hurt because I felt rejected and like I'm not attractive enough right now for him. I'm now scared to try and initiate anything in the ...

Has anyone ever kept the truth from their partner and it did not destroy the relationship??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Is a relationship where you have lied, and cannot get yourself to tell the truth, a relationship worth staying in? Will the guilt of lying and of having betrayed someone you love get to be too much? Cannot confess a truth, but don't know if the ...

Should my baby have the father's name if he does not show up for the birth??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - What as should I do???... I am 39weeks pregnant an well be getting induce tomorrow!..My babys father left me about a month ago . he completly ignors me an does not check to see how im feeling. You can say I have ((dead beat baby daddy)) for some ...

We talked & not talked, fooled around & stopped, now he stares saying nothing, what does this mean??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - ive liked this boy for about 2 years, and we used to talk constantly, then one day we went out and we got really close, from then we started going out loads, weve kissed millions of times and done other stuff, we both admitted to liking each other, ...

Why didn't I see this coming? I was dumped over text message!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - met a guy in January. He approached me. We hit it off. In the beginning of our courtship, I was a little cautious simply because I didn't want my feeling hurt by this guy. I expressed my concern to him and we had at least 3 good conversations ...

How much space can you have in a relationship before it turns casual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I'm a little confused as to where I stand in my relationship. I have been seeing a guy for 3 months now. We're just now exclusive and for the most part he seems genuinely interested in being with me. We didn't jump into dating, it was very slow an...

Is his paranoia a sign HE is cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is paranoid i'm cheating on him. is this a sign he's cheating on me? we both have cheated in previous relationships and cannot fully trust each other......

The more serious we get, the more she treats me like a child. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid As I get closer to committing, my beautiful lady "babies" me more and more. (This is not kinky) I am a man, I have the ring to propose to her, I adore her. I can't live my life as a half child! Or maybe that is somethin...

Can someone help me figure out my BF? Is he just selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for almost 18 months. we both love each other, but in some situations i find my bf very selfish. he only thinks of his own good. sometimes tells me that i didn't share my feeling to him. i do share but sometimes i think why ...

Does he care for me or not? He's sending mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I was seeing this boy who I live with (in Halls) for a month or so, and one night I got really drunk and kissed my best guy friend in front of him. Naturally he was really upset and we didn't speak for a while, but then we decided to be friends ...

I don't like some of the things he does. Am I justified?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Do you think i should be concerned about some things this guy has done? The first time i went to his place, he came and stood outside his apartment with me while i waited for my taxi, but when i went there last time, he told me that he wasn't ...

My BFF is being a jerk. Is there any hope for this friendhips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Well my question is I have a huge crush on a boy in my class but he likes my bff and she knows I like him!!! Anyway she brags about how much he loves her and how much he wants to be with HER! and it's kinda getting on my nerves. Like last year he ...

I don't understand why my husband watches porn and it hurts.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Why do men like to watch porn? I was raised in a christian family, and for me that is so hard to take...I feel betrayed when I find out that my husband was watching it and masturbating...and the worst is, i feel like he does not find me attractive ...

I admitted I was jealous and things haven't been the same since.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, My girl and I have had the best of times together, we used to be close and tighter than anyone could imagine. We used to tell each other about everything and speak about everything that comes to mind before hesitation. One day i de...

He sayshe wants to be with me, but why would he act this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - dear everyone. Please can you tell me whats goin on with my boyfriend as i just dont understand? Over the weekend he has snapped at coments which were obviousky jokes. Not listenede to what i was sayin and before heard all jumped down my throat. . ...

What are you supposed to do if your BF is losing interest but won't talk about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - With the bad breakup I had last year, I was completely blindsided. My ex left things completely unresolved between us. Everyone says that you have to get better at seeing the signs when your bf/gf is losing interest. It seems like you can only gain ...

Are my feelings towards him changing just because I don't see him as often as I use to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I first starting going out with my boyfriend about 5 years ago, he cheated on me and really hurt me, so we split up about 2 years into the relationship. Now we're back together, we're both mature enough to have a relationship. He then got a job 2 ...

Do you think I can rekindle a friendship after three years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Can you rekindle old friendships that died at your own hand years ago? The reason I'm asking is because 3 years ago I was part of a group of tight knit friends but after a severe falling out with one of them, they abandoned me. I'm not blameles...

I had sex with someone else while we were on a break and now he says I am 'dirty' to him, what can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend who I love more that anything else told me we should take a break so he could deal with some issues. A week later I saw he was taking someone to prom and I knew he liked her. Out of jealousy and a need for security, I had sex with a ...

Why am I hurting over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid ... Im hurting. I wish if you can say something to make me feel better here is my problem, i filed for divorce almost 6 months ago even tho i tried hard to make my marriage work but there were too many issues that cant be solved and Lo...

Is he looking for someone else online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Ive being with my bf for 5 months. This is a taking it slowly relationship. I have posted this question before but over the last few days things have got stranger. The thing is I just dont get what he is doing on a 'social network site'. This is ...

My ex is cheating on her current boyfriend with me......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend is cheating on her current boyfriend with me. It had been a year since we broke up and I get a text from her Recently. You can guess what happened from there and is still happening. I say she needs to leave her current boyfriend ...

Help me to trust her.......

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28 March 2011 (M) - Please help me I need suggestion on this issue, I may appear you a fool but this is what I am, I have g/f for long time and after long time I came to know that she was being abused sexually in her 8-10 years of age by multiple elderly persons and ...

Is my ex being genuine this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I dated a guy last for a couple of months. We had great chemistry and I really liked him. But he was immature, he started standing me up. Then he only wanted me to come over late at night. Then the next day he'd be desperate to get rid of me. W...

My crush told me he doesn't like me, how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - So i know i been asking questions about my crush. I need help to know how to move on or get over him when he told me he dont like me. I've seen him talk to some girl no they go out on dates and yea just hurts me. But i know the only one getting hurt ...

She lies to me about going out with her friends, when I know she doesn't have many!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 months on. She ain't those very outgoing type and doesn't go out very often with her friends. However, each time I say I am going out with my friends, or to watch a certain show etc. She will lie to me a...

Why he has changed from the incredible man I once spent hours with, to someone who treats me like I'm suddenly beneath them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, So I have this lovely relationship question that's bugging me. I realise my sarcasm isn't evident but now you know, I am being sarcastic. It is no way "Lovely." I hope this isn't too repetitive for you as I know there are many,man...

My boyfriend, and the father of my child, cheated on me! Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4598 days ago

28 March 2011 (?) - I found out that my bf cheated on me. I found out he cheated when the girl he cheated on me with texted him saying that she had fun last night. No I don't read his texts but at the moment she sent that message I had his phone. I asked him about ...

She has not told me she loves me for a year now, what is going on? What have I done wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - hi im in love with a married woman and her husband has never meet me and he hates me. i had meet her online 2 in a half years ago. and when i meet her face to face i feel in love with her.i thought i was in love with someone else, but i honestly ...

Does my FWB guy have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for four years (with some benefits.) I recently met one of his friends that I knew of just had not met yet. The friend told me that he has heard so much about me for the last 3 or 4 years, he also told me that my ...

What can I do to get the message across to her or make things better? Or is this my problem that I need to deal with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Ok so me and my girlfriend have been talking for 9 months and have been official for about 4. Before we were official everything was all good, i was talking to other girls but she was always my main. Since we have been official I have been ...

Should I tell my fiance what happened at the party? Or ignore it and pretend it never happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - i can already picture the yelling and the crying in my ear at the other end of the phone i can see his face and how hurt he feels . thinking about it tears me apart and i can't do it . i'm 20 and i'm engaged to my bf of one yr i'm super happy wi...

Married woman, Husband in prison..me in the middle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - some please put me out of misery many thanks. I met a beautiful girl through my close girl mate on new years eve. Intelligent (masters in psychology), green eyed bombshell, smart and very attractive. My friend had warned me to be careful because ...

Is this hate towards me, or just towards a race?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I'm a muslim, and my boyfriend or ex is Catholic. Anywhere we go or anyone he hangs out with he says I hate "paki's"..all indian's he calls paki's. I have indian in my blood when I tell him that he goes but your Guyanese so that doesn't matter. ...

What is going on in this dramatic situation?!?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4786 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have very limited time to see each other because of our jobs and him being in law school as well; so please keep in mind as I continue this story, that weekends are usually our hang-out catch-up time--my boyfriend told me on ...

Is he actually shy or just trying to blow me off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - i asked out this guy whos a year younger then me, ive never been with a younger guy, so it takes 3 weeks before we can actually go out... hes grounded, ext anyways we finally go out and i just want to hook up at this point ive waited long enough. it ...

How do I deal with all the issues surrounding dating a man 20 years my senior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I am in my 20s and have recently started seeing a guy 20yrs my senior. We have been friends for years prior to dating each other. He is stable, but not wealthy, and I have a good job and support myself - I am not looking for a sugar daddy ...

Sex addiction is wrecking my relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I think i am a sex addict and I need help to stop my . Before I go on I don't want anyone judging me. I was in a happy relationship with my boyfriend but things started to go south and I wasnt getting the amount of affection or sex i was used t...

She likes another guy more than me, but she admits to having a soft spot for me....should I give up and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4672 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - I met a girl a few months ago and we have been talking lots and lots. We have been texting near enough every day. I really really like her and she has said she has 'a serious soft spot' for me. She puts 6 x's on the end of each text. I normally ...

Why is my ex still talking about me and telling friends she loves me when she has a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4788 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Here's a weird one...Today I get a phone call from my best friend telling me he saw my ex girlfriend in town and she kept asking how I am and when I'll never be in town....then another mate tells me last night his gf and my ex gf were talking and...