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Archived questions from: 13 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm a very punctual person and my BF is just the opposite. His attitude irritates the hell out of me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

13 April 2011 (?) - I'm a very punctual person. My boyfriend isn't. He sleeps in, he's late, etc etc. So when he doesn't reply to my requests to hang out, or doesn't keep his word about helping me out with math homework, I get very stressed out, only to find out that...

Should I give him a chance and see if he wants to go steady? Or is he just a jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've had a relationship with Dick (not his real name) for 3 years when we broke up about a year ago. The reason of the breakup was becouse he didn't want to have a serious/mature relationship with me. He had bad experiences on his past...

Boyfriend wants a lover without the headaches

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - suspect partner is cheating he says hes not put all the signs are there i am older than him and we have lived together for 12 yrs. then he moved to his own place and i have my own place but we were still seeing each other as a couple til last year ...

I can't trust my b/f, he doesn't trust me...so now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been going out over a year at first it was great and now its all starting to go down hill. I can't trust him because he would always hang out with another girl and do things for her and I find out and when I confront him ...

Despite his words, boyfriend leaves me feeling sad and neglected

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I've been in this relationship for almost 4 months now. During the first 3 months everything was great, he was very attentive to my needs, never really misses my calls, gives me sweet messages all the time during the day, etc, you know the drill. ...

I think there's something going on between my boyfriend and his cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - Sorry this post is lengthy, there's just a lot of details I have to add so I don't sound like a paranoid freak. I don't know if I'm just being silly but I think there's something going on between my boyfriend and his cousin(at least I think sh...

Husband's emotional affair may turn physical. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - My husband of 15 years has been masturbating to a picture of someone he met out of state. I found the text message of her in a bikini and discovered that he has been writing to her for over a year. He told her that he imagines that it is her he has ...

She told me she wants to spend prom with friends. We had plans. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks now. we have been talking for over a year though. pretty much everyday... recently, she totally changed. she doesn't talk to me anymore.... she treats me like shit... won't show public displays ...

I cannot continue to lead a double life with boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - Help... I am in despair. I have been seeing a married man for a year who has been going through emotional abuse due to his wife having affairs and her having control of his life. He just cannot seem to walk away. We have chatted for 3 years before ...

How can I let go of what's happened in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I have been seeing someone for about 10 months. About 7 months or so into the relationship, while I was away for about a month, he told me that he spoke with his ex-girlfriend (used to be long distance) and was upset that she was seeing someone new. ...

I'm scared of getting hurt by my LDR girlfriend...

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13 April 2011 (M) - ok this is in regards to long distance love/romace/relationship What im about to say may sound crazy but il make it short, bout a year ago i met a girl online we stayd contact for ever a year and fell in love however i pushed her way because i...

Am I overreacting for not wanting my girlfriend to spend so much time with her ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

13 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 years suddenly decided she wants to be close friends with her ex. They had lunch together last month and she keeps inviting him to her house to work on art projects. The thing is that she has gone back to this boyfriend 3 times ...

Part II - Is love enough even after he has moved out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I made an original question post on 11/23/2010 trying to decide if I should ask my live in boyfriend of 6 months to leave and if I should end things. Since then, he did move out, but we came to an agreement of things that we both need to work ...

Mistress wants to move to within a mile of my house

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (M) - I have been having an affair with a woman for 6 months.. She was living 300 miles away from me. I wanted to break it off but was not sure how. Well she wanted to go back to school so I convinced her to move back with her parents 1200 miles away. I ...

Ex filed restraining order against me but is now in contact again. Does that mean he dropped the order?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - i was in a relationship for 15 years, lived with my boyfriend. he ended it. it was a bad breakup. he ended up getting a restraining order against me. now he is talking to me and acknowledging emails and texts. i don't know if he dropped the order. ...

How do I figure out whether I really can't trust him or if I'm just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I have a problem regarding my relationship- hope you can help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years,unfortunately we are in a long distance relationship. The problem is that even though we speak on the phone every night, k...

I asked him if he were 100% sure. He won't answer. What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I have recently broke up with my boyfriend - he says he gets to a certain stage in a relationship and cant carry on cos the love is not strong enough. He would like us to be friends cos I have "been a diamond" to him, but wants me to heal. I want...

A bj with a hooker while on a break and dirty talk with a girl while we were broken up. Why is she mad at me when we weren't even together when this was happening??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (M) - hey all. Im in a LDr relationship with my gf. and we both love each other. theres no doubt about that. weve been going for a year and a bit, and weve had a couple of rocky patches. lately ive been thinking about these rocky patches and I wonder if ...

My BF's mom wants to throw us out because she's mad at us and at the family!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - This is a long story, so thanks for reading. Okay I have been with my BF for about 3 years now. We live together in a trailer with our dog. I'm in college and stuff, so it's cheep and convenient for us. The trailer was bought by my BF's grandma ...

Where do I stand with my ex? She's confusing me. What is she doing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (M) - Me and my ex broke up and 3 weeks later she had another bf. The other day I was at the club and she was there with her bf. I noticed she spent no time with him at all...he was stood on the sidelines like a wallflower with his friend. She was ...

My boyfriend has cut me off... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years (both in our 30s) and it has been rocky, but we both stuck into because we do care a lot about each other (I think- he has said he loves me but his actions dont say the same thing?), and we both ...

My past still bothers me. What can I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - as a kid i was molested or was touched by my sisters bf's son... a month later his dad hits on me ... and another guy touched me while i was in my teens..things like this kept happening to me... so that's how i started dressing like a boy i st...

Boyfriend refers to me as "someone" he doesn't make me feel special

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for the last 3 years. He is Danish with Master degree. a year ago, he started to refer to me as someone. I wanted to go home, he said do not go, I want someone to hold on to. For the last year he has been referr...

Hurt from the past still haunts my relationship. He won't talk about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - i am so confused with the guy i have been with for 5 years, i love him so much. Part of me wants to let him go so i can be happy, i haven't been happy for awhile now from the way he treated me. 3 years ago he used to run around on me with all t...

What can I do? He's so jealous and questions me for ages if I do go out with friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - basically me and my boyfriend have been together for two years and a couple of months. I love him with all my heart and we've known each other for years. but he is so jealous of everything! He doesn't like my friends he doesn't like me going out...

40 year old girl friend wants her 60 yr boyfriend to arrange her affair with her new lover.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

13 April 2011 (M) - My 41 year old girlfriend wants me to arrange her affair with another person .She wants me to hide my relationship with her I am 60.Separated. I have a college going son.(Late marriage)For the past 3/4 years , I have a rather intimate relation...

My boyfriend doesn't get to know me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I feel that my boyfriend isn't *that* interested in me as an individual. My boyfriend doesn't know when my birthday is. He doesn't ask, so I never get a chance to tell. What I'm surprised is he doesn't seem to realize that "miraculously", ...

Should I run away from home and marry the boy I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - hi; i am 25 and dating a guy from past 1 yr , he is a diabetic type-1 from his childhood and fully insulin dependent twice a day. i want to marry him but my parents are refusing because of his diabetis and also because of intercaste marriage...

My boyfriend called me a bad person

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend recently called me a "bad person" and pointed out the many wrong things I do. I admitted the wrong but I felt the use of the word "bad person" was very harsh. I asked him to leave if he wished to, but he said he wanted to be with me and ...

Boyfriend being dramatic and a baby so I broke up with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (?) - I broke up with my boyfriend on Saturday because he was being really dramatic and was pissed that I wasn't going to pick him up at the airport because I had class (I haven't seen him for three months since he lives in another state by choice). I had ...

I don't want my fears to ruin this relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I am with someone that i really care about and I am so afraid that I will ruin it again. When having sex with him (or anyone else in my past) I get terrible flashbacks of an abusive relationship I was in. There are certain positions that cause me to ...

11 year friendship ending because I wouldn't loan her money

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I have a friend... or at least had a friend for 11 years, who has decided to stop calling me and only sending text messages. We used to talk on the phone every day, pretty much twice a day. She started this behavior when I declined to lend her ...

Suspicions were correct, boyfriend married,and I don't want to fall in depression because of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I have just found out that my so-called boyfriend that loves me (or says he does) was lying to me the whole time. I have asked him several times, was he married and he replied that he was not and that he was very happy with me. I have to ...

What's wrong in telling your spouse how much u love them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - is it true that men don't often tell their wifes or girlfriends how much they love them? if yes i wanna know why..and why does a girl have to do it?...

What is with this guy and his avoidance of me online?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - First off, I want to apologize in advance for this question because i know how ridiculous this is going to sound, but it's driving me insane not knowing the reason behind his thinking. So here goes..... Lately I've been noticing that this guy...

I'm not happy about boyfriend's secretiveness about me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - hi, i've been seeing a man for over 8 months now and he says he loves me and i do love him too. we're both in our mid forties and although I live with my son in my own house, he lives with his mother in a small spare room. The trouble is, for me...

Why is my boyfriend's family so hateful to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

13 April 2011 (F) - I really wasn't sure how to title this question. Me and my boyfriend have been together two and a half years now and are very happy. Although through out the time we have been together a lot of people have tried coming between us. We have alwa...