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Archived questions from: 24 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I need help to understand my jealousy, or i'll lose the best man I've ever had.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I have been in denial of my problem. I am very jealous with my bf and its wrong.. I have had problems with him in the past and i don't trust him. I'm tired of being like this and i want to change. I question him about everything, like where is he g...

He says he's too lazy to love me any more. Is this real or is it his depression talking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - What does it mean when you get dumped by your depressed boyfriend because he doesnt want love or relationships anymore because he's too lazy? Is that even possible? Can someone seriously be too lazy to want love and relationships?...

Our relationship is boring for me, not for him. Is it fair than I try harder than him?.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I get bored in our relationship from time to time. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Of course, everything was exciting and amazing at the beginning. We also had a distance relationship for a year. This year, however, I transferred to his ...

My father has Alzheimers, my mother is unsupportive. Should I go overseas as I wish? They want me to stay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I have a problem with my father. I am 33. I have been living with my parents for 6 months because I had to do paperwork to go abroad. I have lived during 7 years independently. My parents are in their 70s. My father has Alzheimer's disease. He does...

Can I win him back? Or should I not try? My ex flirts more with me than his Gf

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My best friend is also my ex boyfriend and we are still in love with each other. He has a girlfriend, but he sees, talks, and flirts with me more than her. As a matter of fact, they NEVER see each other... well, today I told her that I think I ...

Should I try to reconnect? first he was going to propose then he dumped me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I were together for almost a year. It seemed perfect. We were always appreciative and affectionate. He told me over Christmas that he already knew how and where he wanted to propose. And that he wanted to stare at my face for the ...

He will not pay child support, but does not want me to move. What should I do? I still care about him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - my long term boyfriend broke it off with me ten months ago when i told him i was pregnant. i was desvasted. i had a melt down really coping with the fact i was dumped, later to find out he had been cheating, and that i was pregnant. well anyways ...

When I spend time with my mother, I end up feeling badly about myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I feel like when I spend time with my mother, I end up feeling bad about myself. I can't work out if this is justified of me or if I have the problem and are too sensitive. In conversations with her, she always talks and taalks about her life and...

Girlfriend cannot talk but would not say why

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend says she's at home, but she's busy, and can't talk to me, yet she does not want to tell me why. She says she'll call me back when she's done, but she will not give me a time. I called her back saying it really bothers her that she woul...

I don't like the idea of being married or having children anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - i just wanna an advice , I'm married with a woman in another country now she is gonna have a baby and i don't like the idea neither being married any more i'm so depressed about having a baby and continuing being married , no sex no fun but i stil...

My boyfriend's friends treat me as if I'm diseased!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Ive been with my bf for almost a year and a half now most of the time things are pretty good between us, however there is always something thats going to cause a massive rift between us, his odious friends they treat me like im a diseased whenever ...

Partner says she just can't love me! Should I just put up and shut up for the children's sake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - Hi. My partner and I have been together for 8 years and have 2 children together (aged 5-7), yet a couple of days ago she admitted to me that she doesn't love or trust me and will never be able to. She has had a difficult childhood though I have ...

Please help with stubborn, indecisive boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Hello. Warning this is going to be a looong post as this is a long story. Basically, me and my boyfriend (both mid-20s) have been together for nearly three years now. At first, our relationship was quite hard as his best friend is a girl and th...

Sometimes my boyfriend just makes me feel so invisible..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend dearly.. but sometimes he just makes me feel so invisible. Like he'll invite me over every day we are able to see one another just about, but almost every time I visit him he will just completely ignore me for hours playing his ...

Would you want a future with a girl who keeps in contact with everyone she's had sex with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - Girlfriend of 11months.. stilll close friends with her past flings and guy friend who she had a drunk one night stand with.. Disgusts me.. To know that she is still friends with people who have seen her nude.. who she has blown or been humped b...

DId he just use me to have someone to sext with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - hey ok so i have this family friend his name is dan. we are both the same age but he is in college and i`m in school. we have known each other since we were little and both familys used to meet up a lot of the time. But then the visits stopped. ...

My girlfriend keeps promising to try harder in the relationship, but she doesn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year and a half now. Before her I had another girlfriend for nearly 2 years and It was a bad breakup. I almost did not date my current girlfriend because my ex ruined it for me. But I decided to ...

Written up after 3 weeks on my job and I think I'm being treated unfairly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I work in a convenience store and was written up today after only being there for three weeks. One report was written because the register I was working on had been short, the other was due to a customer complaint that involved me forgetting to put ...

HELP!!! Unhealthy Obsession with my Former Lecturer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - I have very deep feelings for my former lecturer, I think about her all the time and can't get her out of my mind, I miss her when I haven't seen her for a long time and continuously read information on her just to know more about her. I know that ...

Is it fair of my older brother to lecture me about life lessons when he's never bothered to involve himself in MY life and MY choices until they're already made?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I come here not to be judged, so please bear with me and listen to my story. Btw, I'm 17 1/2 with a birthday in 48 days. I live at home with three older siblings, my elderly mom, and my nephew. My older siblings are 29, 27, and 24. They ...

He broke up last sunday, yet he has a new gf? how do I get over my bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me last Sunday. I was having a hard time getting over it, since he's my first love. I thought I was going to be able to get him back. He didn't talk to me for a few days, and suddenly I was getting some strength. But then ...

Why does he treat me like this? Why does he act like this? What does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - I have an FwB, but we act like we are bf/gf (just that there is no strings). He knows I like him a little, and he said he is starting to like me (not sure if that has changed or not, i asked over a week ago). He calls me 'cutie' all the time (i...

My bf refuses to change his fb status, what can I do

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 months won't change his FB status and I am angry!! Right now it doesn't say he is single, he has it blank on that line. I sent him a request to change his status on FB from nothing to "in a relationship" and link it to my page. H...

Why did he let me get away with this? (FwB question)

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Long story short, I've got a friend with benefits and I made a huge mistake. He took to long to respond to a text, and then told me he was busy. And I got pissy at him and told him to talk to me when he decided I was worth talking to. I pre...

We argue. She never has time for me. Should we break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4478 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend never has time for me. She tells me she cant be without me and when we got into argument she begged me to stay with her. Yet whenever I wanna talk shes busy or shes out with friends. Its spring break and we haven't even done anything ...

Can someone who was abused never be able to love again.... I miss her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

24 April 2011 (M) - Recently i went through a bad break up. i was separated for over a year and a half when i met this woman and she knew what my status was. i wasn't looking to date but we kept meeting each other professionally and then it just clicked from there. ...

He has cheated on me at least 6 times but still I am with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

24 April 2011 (F) - Im so stuck. I feel lost and heartbroken. And im really uncertain of what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. I have always been faithful to him. Completely stopped talking to other boys infact to make him feel better. Although ...