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Archived questions from: 17 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He left the country and is out of contact. Why is he being so cruel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I am desperate. He left to other country for 2 weeks to his ex, cause they have child together. I dont understand the way he told me, it caused me pain. He just sent sms before as a reply to msg that he goes for holidays and that no regrets. Now ...

I want a boyfriend thats a gentleman but where are they?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hey! This might not be the most unusual question, but help would be greatly appreciated! Alrighty, so I'm a freshman in Highschool, and I don't find any of the guys in my whole school..attractive. They're always screaming down the halls, throwing...

He's giving me mixed signals, do I have a chance with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - ok so theres this guy that i met like 6 months ago and i recently started to have feelings for him but i don't know if he likes me back. Sometimes he seems like he likes me a lot and sometimes he seems like he doesn't care at all. My friends ...

I don't know who the father is

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) - I am pregnant (8weeks), and there is a possible of 3 people who could be the father. I went to a party and had sex with a mate. The next morning I, again had sex with another bloke (random this time). The next day me and my bf had unprotected sex ...

My best friend is acting so weird!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I want to help my best friend. Basically she's got this new boyfriend, but she never speaks about him. I've asked our other mates about this and they have all said the same...I find it a bit weird!! She got with this new guy not very long after sp...

I cheated and he wants me to leave her for him..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) - i have a girlfriend and have been going with her for 16months. however, in the 14th month i cheated on her, with another man. it turns out he was bi, and weirdly, we got on to the topic of penis. we kissed and i had sex with him. it was odd but felt ...

I really like her, but I think I did something wrong

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - So this girl and I (she's a freshmen in highschool and im a junior in highschool) have been talking for a couple of weeks and I thought things were going pretty good. And then we stopped talking for a couple of days cause we both thought each othe...

After 14 years, she would rather be engaged than married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - My (common-law) wife and I have been together 14 years. Although I gave her an engaement ring 12 years ago, we never actually got married. We used to say we got along too well to be married, and had the attitude that if it wasn't broken, why fix it. ...

She wants to change her "status" to "engaged" from "married" (after 14 years)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

My ex still keeps in contact with me though he's supposed to get married to the woman he left me for...how should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I have tried for almost a yr. now to move on and stop loving my ex who left me for someone else. Although, he didn't become romantically involved with her till after ending it with me she was in the picture before hand. I have not spoken to or made ...

Was she just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - Hi All, i really would love someones commenst or opinion on this matter, see what people think, just over a year ago i met a girl online, well she saw my ad on a site and contacted me, and we exchanged e mails and letters and such until we met on ...

There's no love anymore, how do I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I want to break up with my boyfriend. We have been in a long distance relationship for about a year and a half now. He doesn't let me hang out with my friends, I'm only allowed to see them like once every 2 weeks if that. And he constantly makes me ...

How do I make him stop talking about who he had sex with previously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm having this problem with my boyfriend that he talk about his previous life(girlfriends and such) around me which bothers me a lot 'cause it always include something that he stole his friend's 'girls' and such.. and that he used to be pr...

Retroactive Jealousy is driving me insane. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I need help in dealing with Retroactive Jealousy. I’ll keep this as short as I can. Kevin (my bf) was in love with me since school. I didn’t feel the same way and turned him down. A couple of yrs later, I fell for him and tried to approach him....

I asked him if he loves me, he said no

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. We've been having frequent fights lately and two nights ago we had a big fight. We then attempted to sort it out but because we were in a group, we sort of just brushed it off and went about as...

Dating for six weeks, but he hasn't made any moves on me...at all!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about six weeks. We get on really well,I love his company and mentally we really connect. However, in these six weeks he hasn't made any moves on me...at all! Apart from a quick kiss on the lips there hasn't been any ...

How can I deal with a lying boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Okay so I'm having serious trust issues with my boyfriend. It kills me that I cant trust him so I've been going to any lengths to prove to myself that I can trust him. He promises me that he doesn't talk to anybody else on msn tells me I'm all he ...

How do I tell my GF that I don't want the orgy that she's looking forward to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) - my girlfriend really wants an orgy with 2 of her friends and their bf's + 2 other of my friends. everyone wants to do it, and we know that everyone will have a go of each other. but, i really dont want to do it. im not ashamed of my manhood,...

I don't even know why my boyfriend is still with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - heyy!! so me and my bf have been together for like 8 months now.But it doesn't even feel like were together.he text just probably 5 times a day , hardly talk on the phone.I have no idea what he is doing, whom he is with etc.He never tells me ...

In a loving relationship, until I found out about his facebook inboxes..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I'm 19 yrs old and i'm in a relationship with a guy who i adore and love. We have been together for almost 2 years now and i never want to lose him. I used to be kind of a slut, i dated a tonne of guys and cheated on almost all of them. They were ...

Love don't live here anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 9yrs.We have 4 boys, but i know i dont love him in that way anymore. He says he still loves me, but yet he cheated on me? I know he stays for income reasons, he has none. Is it wrong and selfish that i want ...

No communication or sex, should I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - So I have been dating this guy for four months now. We are lucky to see each other twice a week. Most of the time it is only once a week, and half the time when we do see each other its only for a few hours. When we are together we are both hap...

He messed up our relationship, but he's not maing the effort to get me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Hmm okay so this recent tuesday i was suppose 2 see my boyfriend and he never showed up cause he was in Jail and i never thought the reason would be this: so he told me he found a phone of a girl co-worker and it was those new high tech pho...

I have a high sexdrive and my partner doesn't seem to understand my needs.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend of 3 years have not had what u call a perfect sex life. its been good 1 second next its cold for a few days. she dont moan when we have sex. she just lays there and looks at the roof. she just wants to lay on her back, n...

I don't like how my partner is treating our child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - hi all, im 29 years old, got a little girl who i love more than anyone (14 months old) sometimes this is the problem with me and my girlfriend of 3 years. i dont look at her in the same way anymore. not because i dont fancy her or some...

I've messed up badly, but now I want the guy I can't have..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I've been married for almost four years now. My husband stopped having sex with me since the first few months of our marriage. Since then, we have sex once or twice (a year), literally. We have a twenty month old (apparently we're both very fertile ...

I love him but enough is enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Dear frends! i'm writting from a difficult moment in my life, and the fact is that i don't know what to do!! here is the case, my boyfriend and i live in different cities that are 6 hours apart! i have been with him for more than three years and...

Why did I tell him I forgive you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - Basicly I dont know why Im still upset about it. well this guy i was with, we were constantly on and off he had a foul temper, he kept telling me over and over "I want you" and I kept giving him Achance and I dont even know what way it was supp...

I told my g/f if she cant show she cares, I have to leave her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for years now. In the last handful of months, she's gotten extremely depressed and irritable. All she wants to do is sleep. She's taking her anger and frustration out on me. She's not spending any quality time with me. ...

My ex cheated on me and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I'm a mess right now! Help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4744 days ago

17 April 2011 (M) - I was cheated on by my ex and now she's with a guy who used to be a good friend of mine. I know it's a cliche. Anyway, I found out she was doing all this behind my back after about 5 months last year in Dec, which means she started this in Sept. No...

Why doesn't he end it with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - hello everyone. . Can you give me some advise please? My boyfriend of five years is very down and i want to help however it seems i am the onlY person that he gets nasty and up tight with. If i was down he wouldn give two hoots but yet its a massive ...

Help! I feel so lost. What can I do? My boy friend refuses to let me end our relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

17 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, I'm 17 and at the beginning it was great. He treated me great and I was so happy. He still takes me out etc, but it's just not the same. You see, my bf seems to have an idea in his head that I am going...

Part 1, past history and where it starts to fall apart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

17 April 2011 (?) - part 1 i dont know where to begin. i just so confused and hope i did the right thing so this may be a few parts. history: dating a guy 8yrs younger than me for about 2 1/2 yrs, met him at work was going thru divorce and hit off as fwb then went...