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Archived questions from: 2 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My dad walked in on me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - My Dad walked in on me naked in the shower the other day, was very embarrassing for both of us. Should I talk to him about it or just ignore it?...

I want to tell my parents about me and their friend. There is quite an age difference.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - I've become attracted to my mum and dad's friend, we've been seeing each other for a few months but don't know how to tell my mum and dad 'cos there's quite an age difference between us, any advice?...

He threw me over when I told his wife about us. Should I contact him and tell him how I feel?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - I had been seeing a man for 7 months - he is married. Whenever we were together it was amazing, just being around each other made me feel good and he described his feelings as being the same. Always told me "i love you"- in fact, he was the one who ...

What is he doing by staying in contact with his ex this way?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Why is my bf doing this??? How am I meant to trust him?? Me and my bf have been together for 8 months and spend most of our time together I have always had this feeling that h was still in love with his ex... i found a message sayin he still mi...

Did he never love her? Translation please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - What does it mean when someone asks a guy if he got back with his ex girl friend and he replies "I didn't get back with my ex, my ex is haunting me somehow." What does he mean by that? Does it sound like he ever loved her? Thanks..x...

I got really trashed. My flat mates think me a disgrace. What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

2 April 2011 (M) - Yesterday was the Annual Welsh Varsity. It's basically Swansea vs Cardiff in a whole range of sports which culminates in a rugby match at the Millenium stadium with Swansea vs Cardiff. Naturally we won and thrashed Cardiff. After we got home 2 of my ...

She doesn’t 't want to date me, but I want to date her. How can I make it happen?

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2 April 2011 (M) - The girl I love said she loves me... here is the problem. She loves me but its not what I want, she won't date me and from what I have heard isn't dating nor does she want a relationship right now but she is spending a lot of time with this other ...

Just found out my wife cheated when we were going out 15 years ago and I'm having trouble getting past it.

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2 April 2011 (M) - I just found out that my wife cheated on my 15 years ago while we were dating. We had been together in a serious relationship for 3 years when she cheated. The guy she cheated with was one of our mutual "friends" and someone we hung around with ...

I should have proposed sooner and now I am afraid I've lost her. What can I do?

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2 April 2011 (M) - we have been together for nearly 3 years, we have a house and a dog together. For the few weeks I realised she was getting distant from me....I pointed this out and she said she loves me but not 'in love' with me. She says she doesnt know why or w...

What does it mean when a guy seems to prefer jacking off to having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - I know every guy jacks off but why is it? What does it mean if he barely has sex with his girlfriend and always jacks off? I just don't understand!!!...

I don't want to be just a sex buddy with this guy. Is that where this is headed?

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2 April 2011 (F) - Around seven months ago I met a man and we got along really well. I was in a relationship back then so we were just friends but I could tell that he liked me. While in my relationship, I met up twice with this guy strictly as 'friends' until I broke ...

I'm only 25 and I feel like I'm having a mid-life crisis. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Hi, i have a bit of a dilemma. About a week ago i fell out with a family member a really close one and it knocked me that they could be so vindictive towards me i perhaps did not help the situation but did not deserve what i got. so i went to apo...

He's my best friend, but I want more. Should I risk it?

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2 April 2011 (F) - I'm 19, female, and a freshman in college. It's been a great first year and just like high school, I have a small small group of close friends. Actually, only really one who I hang out with and do everything with. And I'm afraid that I've started ...

This is making me jealous...am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend always invites his best friend and his best friend's girlfriend over to our place, and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that I'm uncomfortable around his friend's girlfriend. He told me a long time ago she made a pass at him and ...

Ex has come between me and my cousin. Am I wrong to have nothing to do with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Well, i went out with this boy for nearly a year, we were perfect for each other and we both fell in love with each other, we broke up because he started drinking and i didnt like it, but i still loved him for ages after the break up. i tell myself ...

Is there anymore I can do, or do I just need to get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Ok yesterday I sent my boyfriend this really serious text pouring out my heart to him and letting him know that I will never break or hurt his heart. I sent him a text message saying:You really been on my mind this whole week. Like your the only one ...

Caught my dad in bed with my friend. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - My Mum and Dad are still married but I found my Dad in bed with my friend. My dad is 62 and my friend is 26, they don't know that I saw them. Should I tell them and my Mum?...

I don't know if I should leave him or not. I love him. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Right here we go... Me and my boyfriend's only been together 2 and a bit months We were mates before we got together He's pretty much stayed with me and my two kids from we first went out ( silly I know ) At first he was great I was so happy n fe...

He says he trusts me, but his actions say otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't like my friends because of how they behave when they go out. For example, a friend of mine tells my boyfriend early one night that she is engaged to "john doe." Later that night she tells me, drunk and in the front of my ...

I keep drifting from my LDR. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Hey there, I would be grateful for any help regarding my issue. I'm involved with a man whom lives long distance from me. Due to the distance, we rely heavily on technology to communicate with each other. However, this has become somewhat restric...

I've fallen for him now that we are both married. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - What if you have seen this guy off and on for 5yrs, he gets married, you get married, and again you start up your affair. Only this time it intensifies, and you fall for him. What do i do?...

He says it's just "friendly banter." How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Do you think I'm over-reacting? 2 am today my bf's mobile rang. I thought it was his alarm, which he'd asked me to set the night before, and got up to re-set it for the right time, but it was a text from a girl. I know I shouldn't have, but I read ...

I have feelings for her and think she might have feelings for me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (M) - I need help! I have a major crush on a married mom at my son's daycare. We have known each other for several years. This crush is becoming very consuming. I think about her all the time, to the point where my wife is noticing a change in my ...

My coworker acts like a little boy around me. What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - One of my male coworkers has recently made it his mission to find all these different ways of annoying me. Whether its trying to distract me and make me falter while I'm on the phone to clients, teasing me about how he always gets out on time...

She doesn't show her feelings in public and never says "I Love You."

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2 April 2011 (F) - im a lesbian and with my girlfriend a few months now who is a few years older then me. things are good she told her mum about us at last and was a bit slow at that to start with but ok now and said in time she will take me there. we have commitment ...

We had a fight, I walked out and now he has blocked my number

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf of 3 years had a huge fight 2 days back. He started calling me really nasty names and i got angry and i walked out on him. I tried to call him yesterday and found out that he has blocked my number. I have sent one mail a...

He is shy, I am shy, I don't know what to do next!

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2 April 2011 (F) - I am a controlfreak and I am afraid of losing the control over myself. I have always been wanting to control myself and my feelings. Especially when it comes to love. I have had many bad experiences with men. I easily fall in love with guys, who do ...

I love my family but I don't want to be their unpaid maid

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2 April 2011 (F) - I am 15years old and the only girl at home. My mother is a nurse and my father a teacher. We don't have a maid at home. When they went to work i get left with my elder brother who is 17years and my little brother who is 11years. I hate being left ...

I am embarassed at feeling drawn to a man old enough to be my dad!

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2 April 2011 (F) - Hi first of, i'm 19 years old, and there is a guy i can't stop thinking about and its driving me mad because if you were to ask why i fancy him, i dont know why! it is pure lust! but he's 42. how do i get him out my head! its so embarrassing! why...

How do I know if he was faithful during our break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 yrs, we have been going through a difficult time in our relationship, fighting a lot, lack of intimacy etc. We had a fight and took a 1 wk break of no contact, we live in different cities. How do I know if ...

He doesn't want to 'settle down' but does want to have a chat, about what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been inlove with this guy for 5 years. He said he loved me and he said that he meant it. We have been keeping in touch through the chat (messenger), telephone and writing (for 5 years). I do not get to spend a lot of time with him...

My secret lover is 31 years older than me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - I am 18, I have been with a man since I was 16 (legal in the UK) and he is now 49. Due to this no one else in either of our lives knows about us being together. In the last 6 months we have tried to end it, but neither of us are able to break it...

My girlfriend moved to be with me, but hates it here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - my girlfriend moved out here with her five-year-old son from another state over a year ago to be with me. she's from a small town and has never lived outside of it for any period of time in her life until she moved here. long story short, her son ...

Crazy Girl Alert

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

2 April 2011 (F) - Harassing Communications: Can we get her on anything legally? Crazy girl alert. She dated our friend (guy) and for a few months she was harassing him several times a day by sending LOTS of nasty texts and calling a few nights etc. He blocked h...

Our "friendship" is hurting me, so I'm going to send him this note. Would like advice.

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2 April 2011 (F) - After a lot of thought I realized i am not over my ex bf and his friendship offer is just a road of deception. Perhaps he was thinking about a casual friendship but I am hurt all the time because his indifference, regardless he says he loves me and ...

It's been three years. Is there something I can say to bring him back?

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2 April 2011 (F) - We had a fight with my husband and i gave him the weeding ring back so since then he doesn't want to talk to me, its 3 yeas now, i still love him and want to go back to him. My life is empty without him. i want him back. help me what should do to ...