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Archived questions from: 14 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do I confront him to what my psychic said or do I keep quiet and say nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - i am at my wits end. I just dont know how to go about this situation, i am hoping i get some advice on what to do here i go .. I saw a pyschic the other day, and he was spot on about a lot of things that he could not possibly know of. but the one ...

Is it okay to be smooth with women when your committed to your lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - What level off flirting is acceptable? Is it acceptable to flirt when you are in a fully committed relationship? I ask this question because i have no intention of cheating or getting with anyone other than the one i love. However saying that ...

Everyone at work knows he cheated. Besides that he is good to me. Should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I can't see a clear path in my situation ....... that is where your advice comes in...... SO my BF of 3 years(now) with whom I have been living with for 2 years cheated on me last year with a coworker. It lasted 3 months and he ended it. He said he ...

Why do I still love her so much after all that was done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4657 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) - Dearest friends, I'm in love, as far as Iv heard...love is... When your heart jumps wildly when you see the person you love, you become speechless, you shiver, you don't sleep at night because you think about that person so much...and so on... A...

My BF’s friend has an open relationship and is trying to influence my BF to do the same. It’s a mess. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I have two friends who are married. My long-term (over 4 years) boyfriend and I met them about 2 years ago and we quickly became good friends with them. We would vacation with them, hang out in our spare time at our house or theirs, and so on. ...

BF is a financial burden We are to be married. It's really getting me down. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I'm in bed today feeling pretty down. I'm in my 20's, engaged and feeling very stressed right now. I'm a medical professional, just decided to change employers from a stable community hospital to a prestigious teaching institution. ...

Should I be his mother, or lay off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) - My fiance is starting to really pissed me off, and making me second guess my future with him! I am so TIRED of having to be his "mother" in EVERYTHING! Whenever I have to go to work, and hes home all day, I have to write a little list of things ...

She's wrong for me and I know it, but I am obsessed with her. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I have worked to keep a distance from a bad relationship. We broke up, I know it is right, she was sapping me of everything and I became very depressed, and still am. The thing is I have an unhealthy obsession with her. I have not contacted her fo...

When he heard I had a thing for him, I got nervous and denied it. But I really do. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I know this might sound like in jumping to conclusion and all that usual stuff but I'm really confused. I've known this guy for ages and we are friends, it was always a thing of will they won't they and it looked promising until a couple of months ...

Who is wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - boyfriend cheated on me now he cant have any female friends. And im not supposed to have any either but on xbox live im new to it and a guy on there messaged me and said hey so i said hi. My boyfriend got pissed because i talked to a guy and hes not ...

Need to get over a crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - How do I get rid of a crush? I'm married, so is he, it's highly innappropriate and it's starting to cloud my every thought. HELP!...

Why don't kids respect their parents anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I have three kids that I have raised on my own and I am proud of my children and the people that they are trying to become. Recently I had this big blow out with my children where they felt they had a right to sit there and disrespect me in ways ...

I'm Chinese and her mom hates Chinese people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I have a little problem. I have met my current girlfriend online and have known her for over two years now. We recently began seeing each other but she hasn't told her mom about me yet. The problem is that her mom hates chinese and I am chinese. She ...

The only person that makes my twin sister happy is her best friends ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hiya there. I need your help. My twin is stuck and she isn't a member of this site so I said I'd let her write it on mine. Well first off, about 3 years ago she was in love with this boy called 'R'. They had a thing going off for ages. They would...

Our group organizer is nice to us, but not his own wife. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I am very close friends with this man and his wife. i f ever i am having a problem, they are there for me. we re in this group, and there is this very nice girl in the group that became my friend. she was in the group with them longer than me. she ...

GF went through my messages from before I was with her. She has lost trust and respect for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Hi there, Ive been with my girlfriend for four months but seeing each other for about 6 and it is an extremely strong relationship where we are already talking about a future together. The problem is, she went through my messages on facebook from ...

I'm beginning to hate her, why does she do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I know its very long but if you could please read and give me your opinions I would be most grateful!!! Ok so my mum...ever since I was little shes never really loved me like she should. She bought me plenty stuff and spoiled me rotten but this ...

The rule is no dating at my uncle's factory. She is causing people to talk. What does she want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4764 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I am a cute guy who's who got no girlfriend until i travel to another town to continue my education but I'll be with my uncle for a while in his factory where i work. in his factory speculates no relationship of opposite sex is allowed. I've been ...

I'm angry, confused and hurt at the way my ex is treating me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

14 April 2011 (?) - I have been on here so many times with my marriage separation, here I am again needing your help, I have two gentlemen who have emailed me, to take me out somehow my ex got a hold of the emails and emailed them back telling them I was not ...

Recently discovered my BF is looking to hook up with men. I don't know what to do.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for quite some time.(3.5 years) Recently when i looked at the computers history I noticed he was looking at M4M ads on craigslist(maleformale) This disgusted me so much, but I was even more disgusted when I saw ...

Can you help me figure out why he is out of reach?

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14 April 2011 (F) - I met this guy online for a year now.. we been in a long distance relationship.. we talk for hours, we share pics, we share everything.. he even told me he wants me to be his wife, the mother of his kids and wanting to marry me when he come to my ...

Why can't I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - hi guys, well its a long story. i apologise in advance. i've been with this guy for three years. i have never stopped loving him even when i found out he was married and had 4 kids. he is twice my age. i couldnt leave. i have tried so hard. i ...

Do you believe in full disclosure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - This issue is really about how much someone should really share with their bf/gf. I'm not trying to be secretive for the sake of it. My boyfriend and I have had very, very different lives. His has been very normal and he hasn't gone through man...

Does she just come to see me because she is bored and lonely? Should I trust her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - i need some suggestions. i posted this question a couple of days ago but i didnt get any replies so i thought id give it another shot... this could be pretty long but ill try to keep it the shortest i can. my ex girl and i dated a couple of year...

How do I get my parents to believe I am who I am and don't want to be like them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - This is a question about my mother....PLEASE READ!! Ok so Ive dealt with years of mental and physical abuse from my mum, she always tells me im worthless, no-one will love me, in useless, I'll never amount to anyone, I should just die already and ...

She broke up with me. I thought I was just trying to make her feel appreciated. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, At first, sorry for long message. I was with a girl for a couple of months, however we knew each for a long time. I messed up.. even tough i wanted to behave good, deep inside myself I am probably very self-centered. Whenever i w...

Found Dad's history of porn on computer. Should I confront him or tell my mum?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - my mum and dad have been married for about 18 years and recently things have been a bit awkward. they have been arguing quite a bit and my mum even told me a few weeks ago that she was getting fed up of my dad because i was upset and said that i was ...

We've talked for four years. When it came time to meet he backed out. What is going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hello all, Im very confused right now. I met someone about four years ago. He works abroad, we kept in touch online/emails/chat etc. Got to know him well enough (as much as the net allows). He suggested to meet up, when he's on leave. Mentio...

He's a wonderful man, and loves me very much, but I've been faking it for four years. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I have a problem where I am not sexually attracted to my man... he is a very handsome man, very romantic, loving, respectful... he's the best boyfriend you could ever ask for. I often listen to woman who are just wishing for a man like I have. He is ...

I've chatted with him and sent him pictures. What more can I do? I don't want to give up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - I am 18, I started talking to him when I was 17. I have been talking to him for one year and hes all Ive thought about. I have spent so many hours talking to him, so much time its unbelievable. I sent him 100s of pics of me, ...

My girlfriend liked sex with her ex better because he was "larger". How do a I deal with this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3549 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - I know a lot of people on this board are tired of the never-ending penis size questions, but please bear with me. The answers to most questions are "it's how you use it" and "women don't care about size", etc. But, what if you're in a situation ...

Is he stringing me along?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was previously in an 10 year relationship whereby he had two kids with her. We’ve been together for 15 months. He and his ex girlfriend split up 7 months before we met. He has said that he loves me and we spend 98% of our time tog...

Health problems, no intimacy or sex, a man who needs spcae.....this relationship is falling apart but I don't want to lose him! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. When we met it was wonderful. He was so passionate and loving and giving he held me like I was someone special. When he kissed me I felt like a school girl and was on cloud nine. About 6 ...

What should I do? I feel I'm putting up living with him just for the sake of my cat. I feel trapped

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Please someone tell me what to do I feel trapped in a relationship with this guy I have a great family, but i cant move in with them because of my cat. My rented apartment is half his place too. He can stay at work if he wants to, but our whole fl...

Traditional Premature Ejaculation Cures show no results - should I seek medication?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

14 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend says she doesn't mind my premature ejaculation problem, but she almost always stays wanting more, or gets frustrated or unaroused whenever I start-stop, or climax early. I do pleasure her with oral, fingering and other body conta...

My 12 year cousin may be abusing her brother, what can I do, I am 14??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Please help this scenario isnt just wierd but im so conserned. well i have a cousin who is 12 years old ill call her Kim (not her real name.) My auntie got with her dad about 3 years ago and they are now married and she had a son with him who is now ...

He is verbally abusive and very controlling, why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - hi, im heather i jus turned 17 on monday. and ive been off and on with this guy who has jus turned 21 a few days before me since christmas. theres a few things that are really bothering me 7 i would jus likwe some insight on why hes treating me ...

Want to move on, date someone new but am afraid to ask someone out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - i'm 24 years old with a 3 week old baby in a shitty apartment writting on an peace of crap labtop. with no job and zero friends due to the fact i lost them all because i was so wrapped up with my ex. who by the way i still love but f*** off when i ...

Had sex with a guy who has a GF, my ex got mad at me and we broke up; now he wants me back. I want him and also the other guy, who's ready to break up with his GF for me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Im in a delema... Im deprived between 2 guys and i dont know what to do. It all started with my boyfriend, He was a great boyfriend and so sweet. But hes a virgin, and hes so nervous( which i do think is cute :) )... he always makes me happy, but ...

Thinking of getting marriage annulled, any thoughts??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4769 days ago

14 April 2011 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and myself just got back toghether. I found out information about him going out on a date the following weekend with someone else. Why couldn't he just tell me he went with this new person to dinner? This really both...