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Archived questions from: 4 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is he really interested in me or using me to make his ex jealous??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I have a new relationship type of problem and it's gonna take a bit of explaining so if anyone has the time to read and offer their opinion I'd be most grateful. So. Bit of background first - I've been single for for the last 18+ months ...

Why do I not attract nice men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I'm 33yrs lasy year a guy i normally wouldnt be interested in asked me out he a farmer 40yrs came across shy at first everything was going well except he wanted to keep our relationship secret i was ok with this at first as we have same circle of ...

I had to give up my friendship because he started telling me he wanted to be my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - There is this guy that introduced himself to me last year and we begun talking and became good friends after a month or two went by. And he began telling me things about his personal life and ask for my advice on things, and I would always try my ...

I have injuries from the war and now no one wants to date me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4755 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Here's the deal i got back from Iraq almost 1 year ago from a explosion in which took my leg off, and left me with bullet holes in my back. I had my leg put back on, but now there is a 10 inch scar going down the right side by my knee and wraps ...

Girlfriend is extremely insecure and controlling

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is extremely insecure and controlling. To her credit, she was absolutely honest with me up front about her "tendencies" but said during her 7 months of being single prior to dating me, she had softened up a bit. (Her ex-boyfriend of 2 ...

My boyfriend sleeps at his ex's house when he goes to visit his son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend still stays the night at his ex wifes house when he goes to visit his son. i have been told by a nother girl that he still has sex with his ex wife when he goes to visit, and that they dont sleep separately. of course i asked him and he ...

Should I move out and give him his space as he wants??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - i have been dateing my bf for 4 years now i have been staying at his house for couple months bt now he says he doesnt know what to do hes asking for space so i sed is it that u want to break up n he says no that he loves me im so attached to him ...

Should I end the relationship, it's too much for me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I am not sure shall I send a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. During the past two years, both of us had experienced a lot of things. We started from nothing to friends and then to closest friend. Later, she invited me to her home to have dinner ...

Sexually Frustrated and in need of Suggestions.......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I am trying to find a way to express to my boyfriend of 9 months that I am sexually frustrated, and something has to change now, or I'm out. Age shouldn't be an issue as he is 32 and I am 42, we are both experienced, and we have both had long term ...

I have this amazing GF, but I watched porn and the guilt is killing me. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4767 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm living with housemates and girlfriend. I love my girlfriend very much, I think she is amazing and so beautiful and incredible. I'm so lucky to have her. Last summer when we were apart, I went on porn loads during the week and I felt...

He's decided to be faithful. Why couldn't he have decided that when he was with me. I am so hurt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Well. I've been seeing this boy since the beginning of this year, as in the 8th January. He is like my PERFECT match and everything about him is amazing. My type of humour, fashion sense, music taste, amazing body and looks after himself and know...

Please help me understand this relationship/breakup

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - We went out for 5 weeks straight. It was steady and consistent. He acted like we were together. He told me he was "falling" for me. He said things like, "I'm glad I found you." Things were so good that I never wondered where we stood or how he felt ...

Why is it that men need more than one special person to satisfy their needs when women don't?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I'm a woman and for some reason, when I have a boyfriend, he's enough for me and is all I need. It has happened to me that when I have a boyfriend I stop fantasizing about other guys, I even stop looking at other guys, it's not something forced, it ...

Toxic man, how do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I have just ended a very toxic relationship and am sufferring badly, so any help and advice is much appreciated. It's a long story, but in brief, I had an affair with a man who, at first, I thought was wonderful. We connected deeply on a phys...

Am I being naive? Or is my husband upto something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been on a rocky road for quite some time now and we are currently in counseling. I lost trust in him a almost 2 years ago when he started texting girls. He stops texting one girl but then starts up with a new one. Right no...

Husband hates me wearing a bra...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I am a 31 year old woman and a newlywed school teacher. My husband teaches at the same school. My situation is that my husband does not like me to wear a bra. At nights and on weekends, he does not want to see me in a bra. During the entire ...

He's everything to me, but he's not the serious kind. Should I continue trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I am scared to let him into my life. However, my life has no purpose without him. Well, they say Jesus came to die for us. I think i was born to die for this man. i love him, however am getting worried that it might be running mad. He's not s...

I'm on an emotional roller coaster. Should I stay, or should I go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago. Since then I've been trying to talk to him and wanting to get back together with him, however he didn't return any of my calls or texts. Eventually I gave up and stopped contacting him but then...

He charmed me, so I'm back with him. What do I do if he goes back to his old ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend before 4 days, because he didn't treat me well ... and since that day he always text me that he loves me and he can't live without me and he can't stand that I'm faraway from him, and he want me to get back with him ... ...

I regret telling him I wanted a break. He broke up with me and I am very down.

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4 April 2011 (F) - Please, please, help me. I'm 8 weeks out of my relationship with the love of my life. we were engaged and together for 5 years. we have 3 children only one of them is his (2 are from a previous long term relationship). I'm suffering with d...

Ex boyfriend's new girlfriend is seeking revenge. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I stupidly got really drunk the other night and came on to my ex-boyfriend when I saw him in a bar. He told me no. I did not know that he had a new girlfriend. Anyway, she has found out that I tried it on with him and has gone completely mental, got ...

Why is my ex boyfriend acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me a year ago after a on-and-off relationship. I moved on quite soon afterwards. The thing is this past year has been a nightmare for me. I tried to be friends with my ex but he was always bitchy and resentful and blam...

My boyfriend said to his friend he is not attracted to me and I have a fat ass!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4760 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Found conversations between my bf and a friend of his. He was telling her how he really likes me and that i am one of the nicest people out. But he hates my ass. He thinks it is fat and is not attracted to it. He is horny as fuck but doesnt even ...

Why would my ex say something like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Why would my ex boyfriend say something like that? am hurt? My ex boyfriend dumped me and 2weeks later I found out that he was cheating on me. The girl was cheating on me with asked him if he got back with his ex (me) cos he was breaking up w...

She wont tell anyone we are together, after 4 years! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - Been with my girlfriend 4 years, and she still wont tell anyone about us. She says people know because they are not stupid and they guessed about us, but when they ask her about me she denies we are dating. All my family and friends know abo...

She was unfaithful and has been with the new guy for 2 months, but I still cant shake the feeling that we are meant to be together.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - This is my story. I am not sure exactly which questions I would like to ask, perhaps they will emerge during my writing. I was/am together with my partner for one year. She is 39 and I am 41. I have a child from a previous marriage, a love...

My mother is dating my ex behind her husband's back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Im a 26 year old mother of one and a daughter to a 47yr old woman.I was dating a guy it started to get quite serious so after a few months of us dating,we moved in together.We were living together for a year before things started to change,i ended ...

Why give me false hope and create expectation, why not rather say no or say nothing at all in the first place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for a year, and although we share interests and got along well at the start, I can’t stand the fact that he frequently doesn’t do what he has said or promised he would. Everyone has problems from time to time ...

Should I delete him completely? And how do I make him eat his words?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - So if you have read the previous messages you will be able to help me with this. So after all this with this guy I was dating I goes on Facebook today and he is in a relationship with another girl.. yess I'm completely shocked and beyond hurt. But I ...

Should I believe him? Or believe my gut instinct?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - It's about 6 month that I am in relationship with my boyfriend. but I think he's cheating on me.I found some text messages from girls saying romantic things and sometimes he answered them the same.And every time I tell him about it, he says it's ...

He proposed but now is ignoring me, when I asked him why he said it was because he needs me to be slim and pretty before he wants to be seen with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - erm.. I saw this guy via a public media, seemed to be so understanding, matured and honestly said he diabetic but really wishes to be married to me. I took my time but found him charming enough to say a yes. Eversince, no phonecalls from me is ...

Should I keep up with the no contact until she comes crawling back? Will she even come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - what is the best thing to do here is my situation. I dated this girl for a short periods of time but i really put my heart into the relationship. I always sent her good morning text and sweet dreams texts. I would have eyes for her and her only. We ...

My girlfriend is giving me mixed signals......what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - We're about to break up now and the reasons what she said: 1. Distance (I'm in another country) 2. my lifestyle, like I hanged out with my friends all the time, actually at every weekend almost and when she needed me I couldn't be there, actually ...

Does my friend's girlfriend want to date me?

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4 April 2011 (M) - So this is a totally random question but my buddy made me think haha But me and my buddy and his girl were at dinner Friday night at a good restaurant, we were hanging out and drinking. And my buddies girl is drunk but she is just staring at me. M...

Why is it so hard to get out of a bad relationship and move on?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Have any of you been in a relationship where your SO brought out the worst in you? Turned you into someone who you never thought you could be? Made you feel like you were once something so special, but now you're worthless in their eyes? This is how ...

Should my boyfriend be going to Goa with his friends? Is this fair on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Im in a committed ldr since 1 year 9months. my bf is going to the most romantic place (Goa) with his male friends in the month of may. Goa is famous for beaches and of course bikini babes. should my bf be going like this with his friends?? is it ok? ...

Is my boyfriend not possesive or is he just acting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 6 months. recently i had a farewell as i study in grade 12. we had a party in a party hall .but before going to party ,we all went to school to attend the school farewell .there we had to...

Girlfriend's activities with other male friends upset me and I can't seem to fall in the whole "in the end she comes home to you" bit.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - We broke up two weeks ago after a year long relationship, and now are trying to talk things over, and one the the things we can't get passed is an apparent jealousy problem from my end. She considers it ok to spend movie nights at her house with o...

This feeling is eating me up inside, how do I make it go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - i'm in love with someone that i'm very close to. He doesn't know and i don't want to risk our friendship because i don't think he feels the same. We tell each other almost everything, and recently he's started seeing someone else. Despite ...

I love my husband but I think I may have been happier with his brother....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband foralmost 6 years. Before i met my husband i was friends with his brother who i also had feelings for. I still have feelings for him and sometimes i find myself wishing that i had told him how i felt and persued a ...

How do I get past his emotional affair? Or will I ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - What I want to know is how to get over lies and deception? My boyfriend and I have been together for eight years, starting when we were 14 years old. We had a situation about a year ago where I found out he'd been friends with a girl from wo...

I just want him to be happy. I don't know how!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER...and im sorry if its lengthy. So ive been in a LDR for 2 and a half years now. Ive been to see him a couple of times usually for 2 sometimes 3 weeks in a row. He is the love of my life, I cant ever see myself without h...

I need some opinion on this guy I have been really good at holding mysef back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - We were dating for a little bit, and the guy told me about his past how he cheated on his ex but that he's not like that anymore...knowing myself having trust issues hearing that got me uneasy...I've been holding myself back but not entirely with ...

I feel like the third wheel, he spends all week only with his sisters as he doesn't really go out and the only chance he gets to spend with me, he seems more interested in them!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Hello,i am 21 years old and i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a great relationship and are planning to get married soon but recently something has been really bugging me. My boyfriend is 23 years old and has ...

I want my fiancée back, but she has decided to move on...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

4 April 2011 (M) - I was 3 months from marriage and my fiancé broke up with me. She decided to give up her life in another state and move to be with me. In a brief discussion about what she would bring from her exisiting home from to the one I live in, which would ...

Am I making a mistake in getting married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - Ok so this is going to be a long question and I really need your help. You can be as blunt as you want because I just want to know the truth so thanks in advance. I'd like to know if I am making a big mistake in getting married to my fiance. We met ...

Every time we fight he breaks up with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

4 April 2011 (F) - He breaks up with me every time we fight. today was the third time, so 3 fights in 8 months not bad but last time we talked it through and i was left feeling like i talked him back into being with me. This time I'm resolved to let him go...3 s...

I have had horrible past relationships and don't want to be insecure in my new one.

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4 April 2011 (F) - So i've been seeing this amazing guy! He is 17 and i am 16, we are litterally perfect for each other, we like the same music, we barley fight, we get along with all the friends each other have, we see each other as often as possible, we love each ...