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writes:I have a problem regarding my relationship- hope you can help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years,unfortunately we are in a long distance relationship. The problem is that even though we speak on the phone every night, keep in touch regularly during the day and we don't go to clubs without each other during the three week periods we're apart, there is a trust issue. When we do see each other we always have the best time and we never fight. But the moment we're apart we fight over everything,usaully nothing of importance,but we have huge blow ups over it. The thing is that I think that I am the reason for all the fighting as I have an insecurity issue. It doesn't matter what he says and it appears that he is being sincere and honest I still doubt him. I always feel that there will be no way how I can know what he's really up to. How do I figure out whether I really can't trust him or if I'm insecure?
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reader, Anonymous711  +, writes (13 April 2011):
You feel like this because you are in a long distant relationship, right? You cant see him if he is cheating on you. But is he the time of guy who would cheat? Has he ever cheated on someone? If so then this is probably why you doubt him. You may fight when you are not together because you miss eachover? You want to see eachover and may not see eachover for a while. You need to trust him to make this relationship work or it will always have a bumpy ride. Good luck on figuring this out, best of luck anonymous 711. :D
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reader, catcher00  +, writes (13 April 2011):
It sounds like you already know that you're the problem. You haven't given one reason for the distrust but your own insecurities. So either learn to control them or get ready to be single.
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