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Archived questions from: 12 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm vain but have no confidence in myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - I am 16 years old and I have no confidence in myself whatsoever and I am a vain person. I am shy of girls, and intimidated. I do not know how to "be myself" because i just don't. I always find myself trying to be someone else...that is just how I ...

My LDR boyfriend wants to be "just friends"....and its killing me! I'm a mess...How do I deal with this right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Ok I wrote in before about my LDR bf getting super depressed suddenly about everything and losing all emotions etc. I need help again. He didnt come online last night but did tonight and he said he did some thinking and that he wants us to...

Do I tell my bofriend the truth and say I can't move in with him yet and risk upsetting him, or do I tell my parents I'm moving out in 5 days and risk upsetting them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I am in a really big mess at the moment and need help getting out if it! My boyfriend asked me to move in with him a few weeks ago, I said yes and I am really looking forward to living with him but I haven't told my parents yet because they are ...

I feel unappreciated and I don't know where this relationship is going...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hiya:) Right my question is about my boyfriend. It may seem like something very petty and silly to ask about it, but it's making me reconsider our relationship, so it's something to me and I'd be so grateful with any advice! Basically, I was 'seei...

How big of an influence are friends on a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - my ex is 22 yrs old. I'm 25. Which is a pretty big difference in terms of partying and settling down, etc. Our relationship was fine until one night when we met his friends. I felt like none of them liked me. Like, because i didn't find smoking a ...

I told fiance I was going to miss being with her while away and she started to cry. What did I do wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I am a 28 year old guy. My fiance is 24. We are separated for a few days as I had to go on a work related trip (in my hotel room now) and she could not come with me because of her own responsibilities. When we were in bed the other night, I told ...

He ignores my texts and only contacts me when he wants sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - I'm a gay guy. I met a guy a few weeks ago and we've seen each other a few times since.We always have amazing sex, and he always says how great the sex is.Thing is i text him and it gets ignored.Then maybe a couple of weeks later he will text to ...

Will married lover ever divorce his wife? Should I just end things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4768 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Its kinda complicated. Me and my partner (who is married) have been off and on for 4 years now. I met him when we were working together overseas for a year, after two months of being close friends we started being intimate. We pretty much knew it ...

B/f's family hates me and is making me miserable

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I love him very much and he makes me happy. We only have one problem his family. They are such busy bodies and have to know everything about our relationship. They treat him like a child and he is ...

How do I end things with my abusive cruel boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years or so. We met off a dating site. I gave him my cell number and he texted me alot probably 200-300 texts per day. Telling me his life, his life stories. I was flattered all this attention at fir...

Cheated but it felt great!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Ok... so I'm in a long distance realtionship with my boyfriend. We've been together for three years now and I'm actually kind of getting bored. I'm 23 years old, I love him, respect and cherish him. However he is not here, where I need him. LDR just ...

Has our relationship already run its course?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4771 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hi, i just got back in a relationship with my ex who i been dating for 2 years, on and off. I really in love with him and i can't let him go for nothing in the world! It's like he got some kind of hold on me. We've been through a lot, well he put me ...

Does she truly care for me and how do I handle her current behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - I am a cute guy who's who got no girlfriend until i travel to another town to continue my education but I'll be with my uncle for a while in his factory where I work. In his factory speculates no relationship of opposite sex is allowed. I've been ...

My best friend has got engaged and is becoming more distant, would that be too much if I wanted to talk to him once a week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I am no single mom, have no affairs, no pregnancy or sex problems. That means I have a very non exciting simple yet genuine concern here! I knew this guy in picture for two long and painful years. I cannot mention the circumstances we...

I love my boyfriend but I don't know if he loves me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend but I don't know that he love me... We have been together almost a year and a half. We met in Law school. He's older, is in the middle of changing his career. We we first got together it was casual. He was in a rocky relationsh...

My older partner is pregnant but our families are stopping us from being together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - im in a very big confusing situation. I met a woman 8 yrs older than me at work we fell in love for one yr and few months now. I called a meeting with parents and this woman. my mom thinks she is too old for me and she also dont like her mom about ...

What does my dream about my ex mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hey, broke up with a guy for about 7 months now. thing is I have been having dreams. Like today I dreamt about how he broke down in front of my house (and this guy moved back to his home town in Pittsburgh while I live near philly) and he said "oh ...

Should I go back to my ex? I love him but he hasn't changed much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I met my X of 4years, and in his drunken stupor, he told me I am the woman he loves. {I still miss him and think about him everyday of my life} The next day he invited me to visit him at his place, and we ended up having sex. we both did not tal...

He doesn't want to continue because we live so far away. Can anyone advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - hi...now i am in a bad situation. i knew a guy for 3 months then he left back to his country. we really had a wonderful time together and really want to keep on our relationship. on our last day we talked, first he afraid that we are not gonna make ...

What do I do about a bf who doesn't listen to me, respect me or do anything I want to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I have a bf--i think....well, we have been fighting heaps and he has been treating me like crap, doesn't do anything i ask. Anything i do he rejects...... I have done everything for him. Hell, i gave him a threesome with another chick....he doesn't ...

My brother tried to kill himself over a girl, and because of that I refuse to talk to her now. Am I wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - hi aunts and uncles, i really need some advice. I'll start from the beginning. About four years ago my brother got together with a girl and they went out for ages and they started to argue. A lot went on and they split up after about two years....

Are these feelings for this other guy just a crush or love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - hi,i have a relationship of three years and thing have been great since.my boyfriend lives far away from me because of studies.we are close to 400km apart but we visit each other every now and the.i met a guy this year and we started as friends,he ...

How do I make him see that he is the only one for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I am a girl at varsity and my boyfriend is working.He has beeen doing everything for me,but he thinks that when I finish school I will leave him for another educated person like me,I love him and I am not vene thinking about that,but he keeps ...

I get the feeling he hasn't really forgiven me.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4758 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Hi, I met this guy two months back and we were close friends but i knew deep down that he is not going to stay as my friend for long because i saw in his eyes that he was inlove with me. the problem with all this is that i ussually told him about my ...

I threw away the woman who loved me! How do I get her to understand how sorry I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - Hey ags I really need some help here. 3 years back wife walked out on me for my best bud and I took it hard. Long story short I jumped right into a relationship with 2 women that didnt know about each other. I slept with G but not C. They found out ...

Am I over-thinking this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Recently, my boyfriend has started getting closer to one of his friends. Let's call him Tom. After learning that he was accepted to med school, Tom decided to throw a party at a 21+ bar. He invited my bf but since I am not 21, I was not able to ...

Teasing co worker driving me insane.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Okay, I'll keep it simple. I've liked this guy for quite some time. And I don't want to. I've dated other guys, and tried to keep my distance. We work together, we disliked each other at first but the more we started joking and playing around, I ...

Insecure partner during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - Im 19 and Im in a relationship with a 22 year old. When we had sex for the 1st time he acted very insecure to a point he won't take his clothes off. I know he is a bit chunky but i told him i like him for who he is but he doesnt agree. Now its to a ...

Why is my boyfriends Facebook status single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. It is a long distance relationship. He is shy, and private. We keep our relationship quiet. I respect his character, and do not have him listed as my boyfriend on facebook. I simply have a ...

If you were in my shoes, who would you choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - i having a dilemma right now.. i am so confused.. i have 2 guys in my life.. one is that, he loves me so much, for me he is perfect, i am always happy everytime i talk to him,he shower me compliments and i love him so much even if i didnt meet him ...

How to talk to the girl who really hates me....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - i love a girl. first she use to talk normally. one day she came to know that i likes her. she started hating me. when i tried to talk she just replys for questions. and trys to stop the conversaton, she did'nt add me in her facebook, even though i ...

She doesn't seem to making much effort to spend time with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - So all year I have been looking forward to this baseball game against our school rivals, and I'm pretty excited to play, but just last week i injure my arm and I need to be out for a couple games. That's only the start, and where it connects...

Should I stay or should I go?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - I am 42, my girlfriend of 4 years is 26. I originally lived with my brother after splitting with my previous girlfriend. 2 years ago, my now girlfriend wanted us to get our own places, live seperately for a year or so , then move in together. I got ...

Why am I the bad guy? He's the one who dumped me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - We were together for six years and we have kids together. I was thinking about breaking up with him but he broke up with me first. In the past I would beg him to take me back but this time I said Fine, let's break up, this isn't working, let's stay ...

Pregnant and BF doesn't want the baby right now. What do I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - I am only 21 and at Uni Bf still has a year or so to go till he finishes. I have just found out im pregnant and wasnt sure whether to keep it but decided to. I thought It wouldnt be easy but possible. Bf has told me he doesnt want kids... not yet ...

I'm worried that he's drawing away because of my complaining

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

12 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have ben dating for a whole year now. and what we have is beautiful. everything was just simply great till, from past few days he and i, have ben having some family problem/he is kinda avoiding me . because every-time he talks to ...

How do I rekindle our love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4773 days ago

12 April 2011 (M) - Me and my wife have had a serious falling out recently. we are seperated and argue quite often. for details on the falling out see my other questions. It has come extremely close to divorce several times. She is staying with a friend and says she ...