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Archived questions from: 20 April, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What can I do to save our marriage? My wife says we need to talk. She is angry with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - Hi Everyone, Me again - slowly eating myself up from the inside out. I desperately want to save my marriage and two little children. I have really been compacent and taken for granted what I had. I have not had emotional connection or empa...

Weird pushy friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I have known a group of women for over 20 years. we are very close friends, they are all married but me. started dating a guy one of the women introduced me to and we hit it off in a big way and are still together. problem is one of the women (the ...

Why he doesn't acknowledge me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hello, Me and this guy were seeing each other and talking and getting to know each other. We are both physically and sexually attracted to each other a lot. One day he was hanging out at the park which is nearby my house with his friends a...

Sometimes we see what our heart WANTS to see..is that what happened to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - dear friends I'm asking for your advices because I'm facing something new and I don't know what to do.I'm 19,and I have never had a boyfriend before,because I have never been attracted by those who tried to approach at me.When I was at high school I...

Confused -- it's like he doesn't care

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Heya, I've asked many questions on here about my situation but now I'm just a little confused and could do with some advice, okay long story cut short, I've been seeing this guy for 8 months now we've been on a break for a month but we work together ...

Husband has full out melt down on nit picking!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4747 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - My husband nitpicks? I dont know if thats the exact word for my situation, but if it is, it is definately NOT normal nitpicking. This is a full out meltdown. I will try to give you some insight into what I mean because it really is bothering me on ...

Our drug addict son ruins everything when he shows up. No one wants to be around him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - How can you deal with a drug addict son, who is no longer welcome in the family? He is not accepted or loved anymore by the extended family. Nobody wants to deal with a drug addict. They are very upset if he shows up, because he will wreck the atmo...

We were getting close even though he has not come out as gay, and now he is chasing after a girl! Why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - I am a gay guy who has just started to accept my fate as a gay guy this year. My life has been a lot better this year, because i am more open to try getting close to people i like (although i still haven't revealed to anyone that i am a gay). I have ...

In a relationship, but fell in love with someone else.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Ok, so here goes..i cant handle this thing alone anymore and i need some advice. I'm in a relationship with this guy for 3 years and we live together. I love him and everything is great apart from the usual arguments couples have. Recently i got in ...

My girlfriend wants my blessing to have sex with another guy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - my girlfriend wants to have sex with another guy at a convention and wants my blessing. shes says its cool cause i will be allowwed a free pass too. why won't she understand that i only want to be with and should i see at her wanting to end things....

Why does she want to marry me when she doesn't want to be with my physically?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - hi guys and galls. I was just hoping for some views on my situation. I an due to be married next year after 5 years in this relationship. Over the part 8 months me and my future wife have had sex 5 times. This is not normal for any relationship ...

My fiance is still friends with his ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I recently got engaged and I know we are both very much in love with each other. However, my fiance is still friends with his ex. I have never liked it, particularly because for awhile I didn't even know they were still talking. He says they are ...

Should I let this relationship with my ex go because of his double standards?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (?) - I don't know what to do. I've been off and on with my boyfriend for about 6 years. Right now he is out of state because he said he needs to even though he could do his business here since it is through internet. Anyway, the last 8 months since he's ...

Sometimes I wonder if he’s really into me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - He never calls me pretty, he rarely wants sex, I don’t feel very desired, I used to love getting little messages every morning but they never happen anymore. We used to seem to turn each other on big time, but now he doesn’t seem pushed. I’m very ...

My husband is a cheater, but I'm in a dilemna if I leave him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together 6 years, married for 5. We have 3 children. About 2 months ago I call him while he was out with his friends and instead of pushing end on the cell he push talk by accident. I heard him getting it on with a girl ...

Is he hiding me from other people, or is he the one hiding something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - hi i've been seeing my man for 9 months now but he wont tell his family about me or meet up with any of mine, including my older children who dont live with me. He's met my youngest whose still at home and they get on well together but wants to...

Guys: Do you all want a younger woman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4754 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Guys, tell the truth, do you REALLY want a younger woman than the one you are with now? I am in a relationship with a man 15 years my senior. The other day I asked him if he woud date a woman in her 40s he said no, in her 30s he said no (even...

Her parents forced her into a marriage with a man she doesn't love, why cant she just leave him for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - I was in love with a most beautiful girl who also loves me very much. but suddenly she was married with other whom she never knows (her parent's compelled her to marry). Now we love each other much more than in the past. then why can't she just ...

Instead of talking about our problems he keeps breaking up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating since november the 6th 2010 about 5-6 months now, and we've been through a lot. i suffered an unplanned pregnancy which resulted in me ressucitated on the operating table, ever since he stayed with me ...

Why is he behaving like this? Does he have low self esteem? Is he gay? Does he care about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - We have been in love for past 2 years and had not met each other.It was this month that we met .He seems smitten during the first meeting and in the second meeting insisted on sex.(we did have phone sex before several times and we were online ...

Love Triangle and some minor cheating....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - Let me begin by painting the scenario: I broke up with my ex over a year ago. We didn't talk and didn't see eachother for a whole year. I knew she had gotten a new boyfriend about 6 months after our break up and very recently, a year since our brea...

I have tried talking to him about the lack of sex in our relationship but it is not working! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4601 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I feel like i am in a sexless relationship but i am in Love with him so i don't know where to turn, I have tryed talking to him about it but that hasn't solved nothing, it is sort of like he don't care when and how often i want to have sex, it is ...

My ex and I reconciled but she likes another guy.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - So me and my ex after a 3 month break up reconciled meaning that we went on a date, but many things have changed like the fact every since the break up she started liking this guy alot and I had sex with this girl that i liked (but regret having ...

How can I stop loving her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - I've been seeing a co-worker for the last few months and things were going really well. She was supposed to have moved in with me last week and we'd booked appointments to look at local schools for her children. Instead we had a massive row about ...

Is it ok for us to still be bf and gf even though we don't live together anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hello.. I need unbiased advice.. My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. We have been together for a little over 2 years now. After a year of dating we decided to move in together. At first we had a lot of problems but eventually we start...

Is my boyfriend cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - i am in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 9 months.its been more than 1 month that my bf has stopped caring the way he used to.now he never texts me,in the whole day he wont text me at all.at the night he will text or call for 2 min, ...

My son just had a baby with his GF, who was sexually abused by her mom's boyfriend. Now they've buried the hatchet and my grand daughter is left at home with this sick man!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I have a problem my 17 year old son is dating a 17 year old girl. They have had a baby recently but the worse problem besides they are teens is a year to year and half ago my sons girlfriends moms live in boyfriend sexually abused her. she had ...

I'm in a relationship, is it normal to have feelings for someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - So quick question, I am in a relationship, its been on the rocks for a while but I;ve been trying to fix it, and she;s constantly telling me I'm not the one and she doesn't understand why I stay. Well I met someone and we got on well together but I ...

Soulmates or should we not be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (M) - We have been together for about 10 months now. The feeling and chemistry is very strong right from the beginning. Deep down, we just know that 'we belong together' but we can't just work it out. We are good to bring out the best in us, and also the ...

To everyone I'm the stuck up pretty girl with a perfect life, but really I'm a mess inside. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4765 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Im a huge mess right now so please I just need some helpful advice...I feel overwhelmed with everything going on right now..I'm literally busy 24-7 to keep my parents satisfied..I get strait a's I take college classes don't party or do anything bad. ...

This is a rocky relationship. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - Hi I am 43 years old and my partner is 48. Tonight we had an argument and I am wondering if we should break up for good? He openly admitted tonight that he chats and flirts with other women but is only interested in me cos he loves me...I am a very ...

I want to relieve the stress in my life by losing my virginity.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - I am 14 years old and my parents are always fighting so i think if i loose my virginity it will help me relieve stress. What should i do?...

I can't get over his exes!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

20 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is older than me and has had lots of sexual partners. Everytime he mentions them I get really jealous and upset, and I cant stop picturing him with all these different girls. How can I stop doing this? Its starting to affect our ...