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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Fiance asked me to move out so she could sort out her head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - hi i have been in a relationship with a very lovely woman for 3 years and got engaged however middle of last month she asked me if i could let her have a few days on her own.we lived together.so i agreed and she agreed that it would only be two days ...

I feel like more things fall on me because my older brother is married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - unfortunately my uncle passed which is my mother's brother. He lives about 4 hours away. Here is the petty part: sometimes i feel like things fall on me more than my older brother (5 years old and i am 26) simply b/c he is married and out of the ...

Is it rude to ask someone if they are in a bad mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - Does anyone else hate this? Yesterday I was tired since I went hiking. So, my boyfriend was talking to me on the phone and asked if I was in a bad mood. I was only tired, but it put me in a bad mood when he asked if i was in a bad mood. Why do ...

I have hidden the truth/lied to the love of my life for 2.5 years. Can this be salvaged?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - The love of my life, and I met and began dating about 2.5 years ago. We seemingly had similar expectations and values despite our very different upbringings, and insane chemistry. About a week into our relationship she was told that I had previously ...

I knew I was going to regret BJ from my GF, and I do. Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I have always told my (first) girlfriend, that I never wanted a blowjob, because I knew I would regret it. About a month ago, she gave me one, and as I suspected, from back then to this very moment, I am regretting it in so many different ways. I ...

BF says I should be okay that he goes on trips alone with former lovers. What should I say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I hate rules in a relationship and I trust my boyfriend very much, and trust that he wont ever cheat. But he enjoys to go on alone trips with other female friends of his, where they will sleep together in a small tent (shoulder to shoulder) or be ...

I need more affection from her. How do I tell her without upsetting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for seven years and sometimes we go through these stages where the affection, mainly the sex runs dry. For example,we went from having sex on a regular basis to literary nothing. It leaves me in an awkward position...

He doesn't want to see me as much as I want him to. Am I being too clingy? Is he being reasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hello there need some advice please I am dating a GREAT guy, he is very attractive kind hearted, stable and treats me very well. He is truly one of the nicest and most genuine people I have ever met. The only thing is, sometimes he seems a littl...

I am confused about my feelings for my lesbian friend, and so is she.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - so about a month ago i started speaking to this girl at work who is a lesbian and i know she gets extremely attached really easily but i never though it would be to me. so the weekend after i met her, we went out to the club together and end...

BF smoked weed before I took him to meet my parents. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend smokes weed. It doesn't bother me, but the other day he was gonna meet my parents for the first time, and he'd known this for a week beforehand, yet he still went over his friends and got high first. Is it just me being over sensitiv...

Why won't my LDR boyfriend come online and talk to me about his problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My SO and I are in a LDR and of late, we have been having problems with communication. Two days ago, I told him I have some stuff for us to discuss when he comes on IM and he suddenly said he's not coming on IM because he has some stuff he has to ...

I have written a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. Please give me some feedback

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I have written a goodbye letter to a girl who I love. I don't want to do it but I feel I have to. Please give me some feedback. Xxx, I think is time for the end of our friendship. Whenever think of everything happened between you and me, be...

Is he just settling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - When I asked my bf why he liked me, the first thing he said was that he knew that I cared a lot about him and that I thought about him a lot. Is this normal? I feel like he's only with me now because he's settling and because he just wants someo...

How can I get my sexually shy BF to put the moves on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend isn't very confident when it comes to anything like kissing me, putting his arms around me ect. He's not normally shy but I know he is with this. At first he even needed prompting to hold my hand! When we kiss it's normally me who ...

My friends put me down because I don't drive and I want it to stop.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I recently got together with a group of friends whom i haven't seen in months. We all were out and having a good time when one of my friends suggested we go somewhere that was kind of a far driving distance. My BEST friend goes oh no we cant go ...

I don't want to ruin her chance for happiness, nor do I want to her slip through my fingers. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Hey. I've recently (three/four months ago) been through a rather violent breakup. A number of factors led to this; her grandmother died and she took it out on everyone else, we fell distant.. you know. The major factor - one that we had kept fro...

She broke up with me, but is still giving me mixed signals. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - My ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend it hurts a wee bit as she told me that one night she had a cry because she missed me but a part me is happy because hopefully now i can move on and stop getting mixed signals from her. I guess my question is t...

I found out, by snooping, that he is in tough financial shape. Could he be taking me for a ride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend and it is great. I am 45 and cautious. I am at an impasse. I know this is crazy, i lent him some money, not a large sum. I had the opportunity to be alone in his house and went through some files. He told me he has had a tough ...

How can I track my boyfriend's online activity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - How can I track my boyfriend online to what sites he is on when we live separately?...

Why do these people have a problem with how little I drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'd like some opinions on this. Do you think there is anything wrong with not wanting to drink a lot of alcohol? There are a few people i know who have made comments on me either not drinking a lot of alcohol when i have been out, or not drinking ...

Should I text him asking him why he is ignoring me, or wait until I hear from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend split about a week ago and i was finding it really hard, and then he phoned me friday asking if i wanted him to come and see me. so he came down, we then had a chat and decided to give it another go, he then slept down friday and ...

Boyfriend is completely insensitive about my health scare.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (?) - Is my boyfriend being completely insensitive? I've been having these mini-seizure things that my doctor has no idea what it is. Brain tumors run in my family, so she suggested I go to a neurologist in two weeks. I also have been having really bad ...

After two years she has hurt me bad. How could she be so cruel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - Me and my ex have been broken up for about three weeks now. It really sucks. We broke up because it was long distance and she told me she thinks she has feelings for this other guy. Now on facebook I see pics of her and that guy at a party and then ...

I fell for the wrong guy. We had a fight and I am a mess. What does this all mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I knew this guy for 7 months now. We started seeing each other 5 months ago. He's 33 and I'm 27. When I first met him he was getting himself out of trouble that he got himself into 3 yrs ago with the law. I have a son and he has 3 kids with 2 ...

Do you think I should ask him what's going on so that I know where I stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'm confused.... I went on a trip to New York about 4 weeks ago and I met a guy who was on the same trip as me. We got kind of close on the trip and I sat next to him on the plane home and during the course of the flight we ended up holding hands...

My family hates my boyfriend and is making me choose between them and him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 yrs and have 2 children with him. We recently split as my family don't like him and make it difficult, he isn't perfect but he is not all bad. I want to give us another go and so does he but my family have ...

Does he cheat because he is insecure, or am I insecure because I don't trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - So i am confused about being about to trust my boyfriend? We have been going out for four years, and the first year was absolutely terrible that I dont even know why i stayed with him then. So what he did was emailing this girl who is like a teenag...

BF never pays for anything. Do we have a future together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I've been with my bf for almost 2 years now and everytime we go somewhere that requires money he never shouts me. We either pay separately or i pay. Im not a gold digger, i appreciate anything that comes my way bt 2 years and i still pay for most ...

He says he loves me, but he treats me terribly.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hi, im 18yrs old (gal) been in a relationship on and off with my boyfriend from april 2010 up to now. Got pregnant and we now have a kid. I call him his phone rings he doesnt answer an i call for the second time his phone is unreachable the ...

He knows it's me that likes him and he hasn't said anything. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My friend has been texting the guy i have liked for a few months for my benefit saying that one of his friends likes him. which is obvious me (i only found out a few weeks ago ) anyway she never told him my name just that one friend of his re...

8 years together and now he hates sex and the thought of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 8 yrs. We've been through more (bad) problems than anyone I know. We ended up homeless for almost 2 yrs, went through the loss of eachothers dads together, have had many family members on both sides impose ...

He's the one. Do you think he feels the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hi everyone Ok i know this sounds very very strange as we are not going out but there's this guy i really like known him for over a year now and have slept with him a few times, But the thing is deep down in my heart he's the guy i really wa...

He broke up with me when I needed him the most!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Hi Everyone. So I am new to this, and am already seeing a psychologist but am finding the one hour sessions not enough and would love some extra support from an objective viewpoint as opposed to friends am family. So my boyfriend of 18 months broke ...

I shouldn't put up with it yet I still continue to

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - Furious BF is still talking to ex lovers. Sending them messages 'Hey Sexy miss you.' Why do I keep putting up with this? I know its wrong and that I shouldnt put up with it yet I still continue too. Even if he hasnt cheated on me sending mess...

My boyfriend says he loves me but insults and criticizes me. I am so confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - well its like this. i had this relationship with fazmi at first. we had the affair for about ten or eleven months. we truly loved each other. but we had to break up because my mum got to know about our relationship and she made a big mess. but i tr...

I love my partner, but I cheated on her with an 18 year old who is now pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - I have Just made the biggest mistake of my life. After having my first un-planned child at 17 and then a planned one at 19, I have since seperated with my childrens mother as things were just not working. I'm doing my absolute best to do the writ...

My supervisor flirted with me, but when I asked him out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I am an intern at this office. I am there until May. My supervisor is ten years older then me which I really like. I started developing a crush on him in the fall. I was in his office with him going over a mid semester evaluation this fall and as I ...

I'm trying to move on from my ex, but he owes me money...Should I bother getting it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - i broke up with my ex boyfriend due to mental abuse he owes me 600 dollars i asked for it back and he said he would give it to me the next day he didn't of course i really want my money but i know he keeping it to have some weird control over me ...

My boyfriend has women's underwear in his drawer that could belong to his ex!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has intimate womens clothing that probably belongs to his ex? So a few days ago I went through a drawer of my boyfriend (he let me do this, he was there). It was a joke as he has a pantihose fetish so he let me have a look at them. H...

He's bored with me when we are not doing anything, like having sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in our 20s and have dating for about 18months…. I sometimes feel as though my boyfriend doesn’t take me seriously. He is a very smart, fun, well-rounded, down to earth person who has a lot of friends. I love him a lot. ...

How Do I Deal/Be Supportive to A Super Busy BF? He goes to School FT & Works FT.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - I'm not sure how to treat my ex. I broke up with him because he stopped spending time with me. When we met he was working, had a car and a motorcycle, house etc.. and 4 months later he got suspended with pay(though he lost his job), then had to s...

This relationship has gone downhill. I would leave him, but I think I would miss him too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (F) - We started this relationship 4 years before. at first we are just classmates but we don't like each other. and at last by some misunderstandings and forces from our friends we started a relationship. but when he got a girl he started using that girl ...

My older brother is avoiding me

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3 April 2011 (F) - My older bro has been in college for the past 4 years and he had finally returned! Anyway, I'm glad to see him again, but it seems like he's been avoiding me. I think I know why, but I'm not sure how to handle it. I used to be pretty overweigh...

Girlfriend has been less affectionate lately... or am I over reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

3 April 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has been acting different lately. We used to have sex three to four times a week, now we barely do it once, she even stopped taking the pill... but what I dislike most is that I don't feel she enjoys it as much anymore (we were...