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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do women wish there was a world without men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - Hello Fellow Peers Once Again. I Am Dimario. And... a complicated individual. i am easily hurt when it comes to relationship matters. well i was watching television and It was this feminist show and how she said how the world was bad because of men, ...

I take her back and she's at it again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - okay my girlfriend and i have been with psychotherapy for 2 years! however a year ago she got talking to some male friends and decided that i was boring and said she hated me! just as i was beginning to get my life back on track she asks for me ...

Where are my sex lessons? He's makes excuses. What's up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - ok I briefly dated this guy last year and he told me this semester that I was horrible at sex and hooking up in general. I got really insecure and I know this is completely ridiculous but I asked him if he would give me "sex lessons" and he said ...

LDR bf becoming invisible

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - hi i and my bf r in a long distance relationship And the cheapest way to connect is messenger We were chatting alot, like 7 or 8 hours a day in week-ends and summer vacation but now, he's coming invisible and dnt talk to me so i tried to send h...

Husband overrides my decision about what his son did. I'm sick of this happening!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I would really like to know if I am asking to much. Recently my stepson was bragging about all the pranks he was doing over at his mothers house and how he had started a prank war.. I told him I am not a fan of Pranks and I told him I did...

Should I tell my parents I can hear them having sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I still live at home and my parents are in their 60's. I keep hearing them having sex and it's getting quite annoying and loud. Do you think I should say anything to them?...

My boyfriend's relationship with his mother makes me uncomfortable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a yr and three months now. I've been living with him and his mom and its like a relationship I've never seen before! So here I go... His mom has been married on and off been divorced three times so its real...

She's straight and I can't stop my feeling from showing. How do I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I cant get over my friend who is not interested in me. she a beautiful girl (she says she isn't but she is) shes bit of a tom boy she very sweet and caring. We are very good friends and I've been in love for her for a very long time and even tho ...

I love him. Do you think he is pulling away from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Ok me and my guy have been talking on and off since last September. We finally started to date in Jan after we got really close. He told me he was thinking he was falling in love with me after a month which I felt the same way. So not too soon after ...

How can you tell if your number has been blocked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Hi How do i know whether my number has been blocked. Whenever i call even at midnight, i always get busy signal. I haven't yet tried from other phone, since it was an international call....

I want off "friend" status. Should I try or just end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - Hi! I have a really confusing situation here, every help appreciated. I'm 27 she's 19. I've met this girl 2 years ago and we were dating for a year and a half. 6 months ago she moved temporarily to another city (some 40km away) and soon after s...

Can anyone tell me exactly what went wrong here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf of 2 years were arguing about stupid stuff today in my apartment and in the middle of an argument he said he was better than his father and i got angry, since his father was really a good man and my bf is an cheater (he c...

He calls me his closest and best friend in his entire life, but insists on commiting to his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I dated this guy for more than a year and I know that he's really into me. We have a lot in common, and the chemistry between us is just mind-blowing (that is what he says!). He told me really nice things, he bought me expensive things, he introduc...

He's a lovely man but I keep wanting to break up with him, sometimes on a daily basis!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man for almost a year and love him with my whole heart but he drives me mad with his habits and personality and I keep wanting to break up with him on a weekly, sometimes daily basis. He has so many good points and is fa...

He lives nearby, he calls and texts everyday...Why can't we just hang out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago. We live 15-20 mins apart, but we haven't hung out since we met. He texts me and calls me everyday, and he works here in my town. I just don't get why we can't hang out. I mean, whats stopping him? I'm starting...

I cheated on my wife...shoud I tell her or not?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - I really need some help. Especially from people that have been in my situation. It was my birthday last week. My wife and I went out with a couple of co-workers. We had a good time. She had to go home early, because she had to work the next da...

Is it my past baggage or is something up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I've been dating a guy for the past eight months. Initially, we were casual. He dated other people. I dated other people, but throughout it all, we were honest about who we were seeing, even talk about pro's and con's of other people we were seeing, ...

She broke up with me because I was a jerk but I want her back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - well briefly, we've been in a relationship for 10 months, we met online, we were moving pretty quickly, she always said i was her everything, she loved me madly, she had nightmares about me leaving her for someone better... Recently i started ...

Insecure 18 year old seeking much needed advice....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - First off, before I begin, I want to make it perfectly clear that there's a pretty recognizable age difference in my relationship (in order to get the most understanding/accurate feedback): I JUST turned 18 and my boyfriend turned 26 in February. I ...

Would I have to be stupid to go back to Jamaica again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I just came back from several months there, and I had the time of my life. I arranged a place to stay for cheap but wound up visiting a friend that I'd made beforehand and, long story short, his parents invited me to stay there for the duration of ...

I would love to see if this could work with the father of my child, but now I have an opportunity to explore this relationship with my friend of 8 years! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I have a 1 yr old with a guy who i have not been with since i was 8 months pregnant. he has treated me the worst i have ever been treated. about 2 weeks ago he seen me hanging out with a guy friend of 8 yrs and now all the sudden wants to marry me. ...

I'm confused if we are even together anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - My bf/ex and I dated for three months broke up then 5 days later he was telling me that he made a mistake, calling me baby and baby girl again, kissing me, saying he wants to marry me and i did nothing to stop it and i feel bad that i let it go on ...

How can I trust her if I don’t believe her? Do you think she physically cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - Could I ever trust my partner again ! My partner convinced me that she wasn’t seeing anyone behind my back when she ended things but I believed otherwise. My gut instinct was screaming at me and I was just sensing things weren’t right. She said...

My girlfriend is inactive during sex and only feels pain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - we have wait for one week together,she make a sex at the first time with me during this one week.when i touch her Brest,kiss her neck and lip she feel good( happiness). but when i make a sex she is in active, she told me that she doesn't feel any...

My classmate likes my crush too, and I cant stand seeing them together! How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (?) - I like this Guy (lets say A) for the longest time and I plan to tell him eventually, but only to get over him because I know he wont reciprocate. And even if he would, he would be the most hesitant in showing any signs. So I really don't have much ...

Long term relationship issues.......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - hey, i am 16 years old and i recently dumped my boyfriend because i had given up on waiting for him to call me or meet up with me and never seem to tell me the reason why. but when i have a problem that i am upset about he encourages me to talk to ...

For 3 years we have been getting together and then he dumps me each time, but I still love him despite the way he treats me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - hii.. i'm actually very depressed. i was in my 7th class that is in 2008 when i liked a guy. by fault my feelings got revealed to his best friend!! he said he would surely help me and he did it! that guy came and proposed me in 2009.. i.e after 7 ...

I love her and she loves me, but our families are causing problems. How do I convince her to marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - Dear all., You will be appreciated if any one can help me to solve my problem. I am basically from a low class family from a small village. I dont even know how should I behave with a girl. I lost my mom and dad in 1997 and 2003 simultan...

Allowing him to have his cake and eat it and heading for heartache...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Hi I keep getting myself in a situation and it is driving me bonkers! I met a really handsome chap a year ago but I felt that he saw it as just a casual relationship so I ended it. Yet we keep getting together! I have had a boyfriend since but...

I think I am with him because I pity him, and I cant seem to walk away! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationshp for 3 and a half years with my boyfriend, who used to be over friendly with other girls and at times very abusive towards me. He always wanted to break up and when I finally agreed to a break up and had moved on, he came ...

I have fallen for my priest! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - hullo out there i just need some advice or an ear on this, i have met this wonderful priest who is like my friend, counsellor and my pillar of strenght. he has helped me so much when i had lost my job he supported me and gave me a reason to go on ...

How can he love me one week, and the next week all his feelings for me are gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had a few fights lately and last week he said he wasn't happy anymore in the relationship.. We tried to sort it out but he got more and more distant. 2 days ago he said he didn't want to break up but that he needed space. ...

Why is he wanting things to progress when he thinks he doesn't love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - ok so i have been with my boyfriend for over a year and hes perfect in every way hes caring coinsiderate and a gentleman and has few faults. a week or so ago i told him i loved him and could see myself being with him forever. he got very emotion...

Why is this guy treating my daughter this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - This is a question about my daughter. She is 19, attractive, bubbly, fun loving, normal 19 year old. Likes to be out with her friends and doing her own thing has had 2 lovely boyfriends. She is currently with a guy who is older than her, 7 year to ...

I don't want to hurt my mom by carrying on this relationship, but I would be so hurt if I had to leave him! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - i am living in qatar,with my mom and its just the 2 of us now, and i met a guy, we are from different race, and different religion, its been only few months since we know each other around 4 months, but then we know we love each other, so we decided ...

I don't know what she sees in this new guy, he is a tool! How do I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4676 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - So two nights ago i was at the gym talking to a friend i met at my ex's party and we were going on and on. Then i told him to tell my ex that im sorry for what i have done and that all i wanted was for her to be happy. He told me that he doesn't ...

Friends with benefits question.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I had to break up (my family forced it) So now we are just hanging out as friends. But the other day it turned into more (oral) and we've become friends with benefits. We've also sexted a few times. I still ...

My girlfriend just openly admitted she doesn't want to be around me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I really need help. Please, I'm so lost. I love my girlfriend so much it hurts. But I'm at my wits end. We've been through so much together, including her cheating and us working through it, to us breaking up and her moving out, and then decidin...

How do I fill the void my partner cannot satisfy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I am in a relationship of 11 years. He is my best friend. But recently it feels like exactly that. He is emotionally handicapped and I need something he is unable to give. How do I fill that void?...

Interested in my ex's classmate - is this wrong?

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1 April 2011 (M) - Hey y'all, So i tried remaining friends with my ex girlfriend. It has been for the most part smooth. But now I have a big problem. I am heavily attracted to one of her friends/classmates and this girl seems to have somewhat of an interest...

How do I deal with someone that is emotionally unavailable??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Advice pleease!! How do I deal with someone that is emotionally unavailable?? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2yrs and I have taken on the role of the "pursuer" he has completely distanced himself, he's disengaged, disinterested, doesn't ...

Ex wants to be together but is swamped with school and work, and never follows through on our plans....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4784 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Am i being mean? My bf and i broke up because he never had time for me... well he used to but then he lost his job and started school and got depressed..so he never wanted to hang out..and once we would hang out hed be super happy..but getti...

Tried to get my GF to "change" for me, but I'm still not attracted to her and there's no sexual tension

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - I've been with my GF for 3 years now, but our relationship is missing sexual tension. I'll try to be as honest as possible. You will judge my behavior as selfish, and I will not object, but know that when I'm changing my GF to my tastes, I'm trying ...

Will my guy be turned off when he sees the acne on my back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - hi i have serious backne and i am afraid my guy might get turned off during sex when he sees it.. do men hate backne? what should i do, i feel frustrated....

Do you think there is hope for a 2nd try to make our relationship stronger with acceptance and trust and understanding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4784 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - 7 months ago I had an affair, I got caught up with another woman thinking that she "was the one" during the affair I was verbally abusive and blaming my wife for everything. The reason for the affair was because we both stopped tending to each other ...

My longtime boyfriend is now married to someone else, I'm happy in my own life, yet he tries to pursue a friendship with me only to hurt me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I met a guy at college when I was 19, we were each others first relationship and we continued to date on-off for 4 years. It became apparent after about a year that his cultural/religious background would not allow us to remain together and that...

Our first fight, so maybe I'm a bit paranoid

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - A couple months ago my boyfriend broke up with me because he had some issues. He just recently got divorced and he said that he needs to work on things and then be ready for a relationship. We never lost contact (he lives in another city) by phone, ...

I get the feeling once in a while he is not being faithful to me and I am finding myself hating him and not trusting him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Might sound that I am overreacting but am in desparate need of opinions. The other day my boyfriend ordered himself a drink, I then asked him what it was, ans he said it was it cointreau and lemonade and it was one of his favourite drinks...

My boyfriend who was arrested for domestic violence against me says he is changing. Can I believe him?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - I had my boyfriend arrested for domestic violence after he pushed me while he was drunk. We have a no contact order until his court date at the end of April. We also have a 2 year old son. Although he is not supposed to contact me or our son, he p...

Separated from my wife in order to sort things out...what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

1 April 2011 (M) - OK ive submitted many questions and appreciate all the advice. Now i just want to tell the whole story from start to finish and see what you think i should do. i'll do my best to be unbiased and tell the whole story and not just my side. ok I ...

I am having weak orgasms lately...Is it me or the MDMA I took?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - Even when I masturbate they are weak but there almost no orgasm for me during sex.we've tried all positions and now I'm at a point where I started faking my orgasms so my bf won't get sad because all he cares about is giving me pleasure and he is ...

Is setting up a webcam on a porn account cheating? Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

1 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 2 years had an account with a webcam live porn site late last year and i freaked out about it saying its like cheating so he told me he wouldnt use it anymore. I told him I dont mind him looking at regular porn and that i just dont...