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writes: My question is about the army. I don't really know that much about it and the guy that I'm with loves it he has been in it for a long time and recently got deployed. It has been hard enough not talkin to him for weeks but idk if I can trust him. Before he left we had some problems were he would just ignore me n finally told me that he couldn't face saying good bye to me n we went on a break for a while and later (while on break) found a message on his phone from some girl saying she's graduating and loves him. I confronted him and he said it was a message from a long time ago I just managed to pull up. And before he left I hung out with him alot and we were both happy but i don't know if I can trust him with that on my mind I love him but I don't know what to do. I can wait for him to come back but not wait from him to leave me for someone while I'm waiting.
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (13 July 2010):
 Don't jump to conclusions though. I'd wait it out for now, the message really could have been from anyone. I tell my guy friends I love them all the time, unless you are sure it was in a more than friends way, like an 'in love' way then there would be more of an issue. Hopefully he was honest and if you find any other reason to not trust him, then talk to him about it and go from there. Good luck!
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