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writes:My boyfriend seems to care less and less about our relationship for some time now.. I've broken the trust in the relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years before by lying constantly and he told me frankly that he could no longer fully trust me, or would not give me benefits of the doubt. Sometimes he would keep on inquiring what I'm doing when I was simply sitting at home and reading books... I feel pressurized and no matter what I answer there's gonna be some doubts in his heart. He seems to care less about my feelings and put less effort into doing things to make me happy.. and is a bit less affectionate.. he does not seem to want to open up as much.. But he would be always be around.. still seeing me a lot and caring for me.. but always getting so suspicious... I dunno what is going on in his mind sometimes.. help me :( what can i do to improve things??? Reply to this Question
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reader, DannyBoy79  +, writes (12 July 2010):
You broke the trust.. he will never really trust you again. he is being cold with you because he has barriers up now and it will take alot of understanding on your part to overcome it. if it all fails then atleast for future reference.. never lie in a relationship becaquse then your free and have nothing to hide...and if they dont like the truth ..well then your not compatible . good luck... and be easy on him yeh.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 You can't change what you've done in the past, but it can affect your future.
You need to prove to him that you have changed, and are trustworthy (that is, if you've decided to quit lying).
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