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writes:I hate to think this way because I love my boyfriend with every beat of my heary buuuut there's a few things I'm starting to wonder about latley. ((Hopefully I'm wrong)) Ok so my bf and I have been together for nearly 4 years. This is my First Serious Relationship because I was 17 when we got together but anyway,, I've been thinkin that he might be Gay?? I hate to even think that but when it comes down to everything and I really think about it, I wonder big time but hope its just me. Here's some inside:: He wants me to Give Him Head Alllll the time! He NEVER returns the favor! He Constantly wants to F*** me in the Butt! That's all he thinks about I swear! Me givin him Head and him doin me in the butt. He always has his buddies he hangouts with and to me he acts like their his boyfriends, its weird I won't get in to that. He likes to act Gay all the time? Yeah he'd goofy and at times its funny I guess but like I said, he never goes down on me but always wants head! Always wants anal and acts gay. Why is this? Could he be gay but I'm blind to it and is his decoy to not come out? He's not your average manly man, yes he likes cars and porn and etc.etc. but I'm gettin the feelin he really might be gay. 4 years in and I can't even bring up Marriage and Babies cuz it grosses him out? I'm just confused big time! Like I said this is my first "official" serious relationship cuz we do live together but any of my other Boyfriends couldn't enough of "going down on me" or. "Fingering me". My BF now does not do any of that! Its always all about his D*** in my mouth or ass?? Any advice? Am I stupid for thinkin this about the love of my life? Please help.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (31 January 2010):
He doesn't sound gay, he sounds like an immature looser. Oral and Anal sex are fine, but not the only items on the menu. He doesn't appear to CARE about you, and only picks the sex that gets him off. (I assume that he will do you vaginally, when you won't do anal...).I worry about the level of the relationship (is there a relationship? or just sex?)...You need to dump this guy and move on... find a guy that CARES about you, not just a few of your holes....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 January 2010):
We need to know what you mean by 'acts guy with friends.' He might be gay, but he might also be totally selfish and not that into you.
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