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writes:I made a silly mistake of having a one week affair with a man on my job. He was the cutest thing I had ever seen. I just wanted to sleep with him and nothing more-especially since he is married 33 yrs. I heard he was a play boy and run through women. I didn't care cause I just wanted to kill my curiosity. After it was done, I told him to take care and I would do the same. Like a play boy, he agreed. Lately he's been texting me a message saying "you are in trouble". At first I thought he was bullishing but he started doing it once a week. I don't think its cute at all and asked him what does he mean. He never responds. I don't know what "I'm in trouble" means. Its been 2 months and still the same text. He comes on my unit at work but never says anything. Should I be concerned. It was nothing but sex....
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 You'll know when you're in trouble when you actually see it or feel it but just by him telling you that, it doesn't mean you are actually in trouble. Ignore it or confront him where he can't ignore you and if his answer is crap than he must be full of it too. :) simple
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (20 January 2010):
 It is a type of mental harassment. He is black mailing you. Sure, he is coward, person without courage. He lived through the fear of others like you. Be bold, nothing will happen, but learn something from event. Best way is to ignore him. Don't say anything to him. He has no courage to come to you, but take care of your self, that you should not do any mistake to contact him again out of curiosity.
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (20 January 2010):
 It could mean:
1. He's got an STD and either got it from you, or you gave it to him. And so without leaving any incriminating evidence, he's telling you.
2. His wife found out.
3. You've been naughty.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (20 January 2010):
 Eww he sure doesn't sound CUTE at all.. Go get check out - I totally agree AND stop sleeping with married men. Who knows what he is telling people about you...
Eww
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 January 2010):
Good point from eyeswideopen.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 January 2010):
 Get yourself checked out for STD's. He probably gave you one.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (20 January 2010):
 I say this to my man at times and (being blunt) what I am implying is that when I get my hands on him I am gunna pounce him like a feral bobcat and shag him senseless ..lol
Probably exactly why he wont tell you what it means - might be a bit too blatant under the circumstances to just come out and say in more clear terms.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (20 January 2010):
 I would tell him firmly to quit texting you. If he continues, turn him into a manager/supervisor. He sounds like a nut case. I wouldn't take my chances.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (20 January 2010):
 Probably some sort of pervy creepy comment meaning youv'e been naughty so your'e in trouble / or he's going to tell you off sexually for being supposedly in trouble. Tell him to stop or get the number blocked if you can. He's a weirdo. Just cut him dead at work if he comes near you and be grateful you're not married to him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 January 2010):
God knows what he's up to. But you are now paying the price for getting involved with someone who has serious problems and is married. I would suggest that you tell him to stop sending those texts and tell him if he doesn't you'l report him. Learn a lesson here. A guy who cheats has issues and they can make it worse for you. Find a nice single guy, instead of a cruel married one.
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